Hi there, Im James, 36, a genuine, very experienced, well-educated, intelligent, professional, strict (ex-military) but friendly Dom male from London.

I was widowed 3 years ago (my wonderful late wife of 9 years was my sub for 6 years and 24/7 for the last 4 years) and am not ready for a full-blown long term relationship.

However, I do still have a keen and active interest in the D/s world, and have been fortunate in the past year to have met some obedient, loyal, genuine subs who have sought my experience and skills for regular meetings where I have trained and taught them in the arts of domination, control and discipline.

If you are genuine, respectful, eager to learn, to have your boundaries pushed back, your horizons expanded, and to experience training in how to be a true controlled, dominated, submissive then I would be keen to hear from you. Experience is less important than a willingness to learn and be trained properly.

I have a fully equipped dungeon, and am inventive, imaginative, strict but fun. I obey all limits but push subs to the very edge of those limits.

I look forward to hearing from you.