Short to medium term is getting to know each other, seeing if all are suitable and forming that bond, medium to long term is working towards a permanent solution.

We are a couple who have been in a D/s relationship a very long time, she is submissive Bi-sexual (size 14), He Dominant; we keep our lifestyle private we do not feel we have to shout about it just because we live a different way.

We are searching for a partner/s who wants a stable relationship, stable relationship does not have to be 24/7 but we do not rule that out if it appropriate; just scene play or more but realising as any relationship develops it will deepen, the more you know one the more can be done; scene play although an important part it is not the whole of a relationship. There becomes a natural development of any relationship whether casual or long term.

There are no quick fixes D/s does not work without effort and understanding, any idiot can shout orders or wave a cane in the air and the thrill of the moment is satisfied or is it?

To know and understand with a glance or word to see, feel the submissive state take hold, feeling those thoughts so deep now on the surface of awareness; awaiting the control, manipulation, trust and security that allows total freedom of expression being who you are without reservation.

slave or sub or sub/cuckold couple, the only thing I will say if married and looking alone, your partner must be aware and happy with your situation.