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| Here to explore kink in Minnesota, make friends, and tie up my lovely wife. We always look forward to making new friends and getting involved in the community! Due to family obligations it can be tough to get out, but we try to when we can. You'll much more likely see me out and about either with my wife or by myself. We're interested in hanging out with friends we've made in the community when we can.
My wife and I are open to playing with others. If you want to get tied up or whatever else, please feel free to ask. We are also in an open relationship.
My primary kink is rope. I want to learn everything I can about it, from Japanese to Western to fusion, floor work, bed work, suspension, hojojutsu, decoration, fancy knots, utilitarian knots, ichinawa, semanawa, escape-proof ties, ties that photograph well, ties that evoke various emotions and feelings, ties as foreplay, using rope as an extension of myself to caress and embrace, limb ties, hair ties, genital ties, finger ties, toe ties. I'm interested in techniques for treating rope: boil it, bake it, cook it in a stew (wait, that's not right...) singe it, oil it, wax it. I like finishing knots, and I want to learn all sorts of end whipping as well (rope end whipping... back end whipping is a different topic, which I also find exciting!) Seriously, want to learn everything I can about rope. (Learning in general also gets me going!)
I like rope of just about any kind. I have hemp, jute, reinforced jute, nylon, MFP, and POSH, and use each of them at various times.
Rope and photography seem to go hand in hand, so I'm learning more about photography and photo editing as well. I use GIMP for editing because I sometimes like to pretend I'm sticking it to the corporations when I'm not working at my highly corporate-friendly job that makes the corporations all the monies.
As noted above, I'm open to tying others, if we have the time and the space. In general, I'm open to tying regardless of gender identity or orientation. Just be familiar with, or be willing to become familiar with, this: ://kinkyclover.com/resources/rope-bottom-guide/.
As far as BDSM, I'm primarily into the "B" bondage part. Of course using rope, but I like cuffs, straps, scarves, nylon webbing, bondage tape, spreader bars, blindfolds, D-rings, carabiners, snap hooks, and padlocks too. That said, I enjoy the full spectrum of BDSM, whether participating in it or just observing it.
I enjoy sensation play, using various brushes, fabrics, temperatures, items, and the like to stimulate the nerves in all sorts of interesting ways.
I'm actively learning flogging. We've experimented lightly with this, and I'd like to learn much more about it. From what I understand, it mostly just takes experience flogging people to learn how to do it well. So if you're looking to get flogged by a complete newb, let me know! Anyone? Anyone...?
I have a suede flogger and a matching pair of elk floggers currently, and a rabbit fur flogger. If we end up liking these, I'm interested in getting nunchuck swivel floggers (who *doesn't* want to be the Bruce Lee of kink? WHA-TAA!) and poi floggers also.
I have a nylon bullwhip that I'm *not* all that interested in using on another person. Well, maybe one day, if someone really wanted it, but not anytime in the near future. Mostly it's just a fun toy to crack in various ways and bring to Whipsters. (See, I fit in, I'm one of you, I have a whip too!)
I'm also a firm believer in YKINMKATO: no judgment of anyone for their kinks and whatever they're into, whether or not I'm into it as well. I truly enjoy hearing people talk about their kinks and what gets them going, even if I don't share an interest in it. Similarly, I believe in respecting each person's gender identity, preferred pronouns, and orientation. Whoever you are and whoever/whatever you're into is cool with me, as long as it's consensual.
Outside of kink, I enjoy lifting weights, video games, reading, and wine.
I'm a lifter, primarily focused on the powerlifting lifts. My favorite lift is squats. I have competed in powerlifting, and although it was okay, it's not really my thing. I may do it again sometime, but I have as much fun or more lifting alone as on the platform.
I'm also into gaming, both video games and board games. Really enjoy video games like Oblivion, Super Metroid/Metroid Prime, and Zelda, and mostly play cooperative board games like Legendary, LOTR LCG, Harry Potter: Hogwarts Battle, and Arkham Horror.
I love reading fantasy. Favorite authors include Rothfuss, Sanderson, and Brent Weeks. I also enjoy books filled with beautiful knots and rope work.
Cheesy 80s Sword and Sorcery is my favorite movie genre. The Rankin & Bass cartoons stand out as absolute classics in my mind, like The Hobbit, Return of the King, and The Last Unicorn.
I make wine at home, sometimes. Usually when I'm not drinking it. Which is rare. But making it, and drinking it, is a fun hobby.
Personality-wise, I'm an RCOAI. That's similar to an INFJ or INTJ in Myers-Briggs.
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