I'm an otherwise normal guy with a fetish for having my finances completely controlled by a woman. I'm talking like, my paychecks go to you, and YOU decide how much I really need this week, give me an allowance, and keep the rest. Spend it on shoes, spend it on daily expenses, put it in savings, whatever you want--it's yours, not mine.
I really don't see myself being happy in a long-term relationship without this as a major part of it. This is part of a larger submissive streak, best expressed by this blog (which is not mine but which shows the kind of relationship I would eventually like). http://heartlesswives.tumblr.com I apologize if this comes off douchey and un-sub-like, but my one major "demand" is I need this to be an in-person thing. So:
DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME IF
You want an Amazon gift card within the first 20 minutes.
You don't want to meet in person at all.
You only want to meet in person after months of online servitude.
You don't live in, or regularly travel to, Manhattan or nearby parts of Brooklyn, Queens, or North Jersey; or you only want to tell me what a shame it is that you live so far away.
Obviously, this is a huge commitment and involves a lot of trust on both of our parts. And it's not the kind of thing that you can just jump into on the first date (believe me, I've tried). Plus I'm a full time student and while I have a job at school that pays reasonably well and I have very low living expenses, I won't be creating a major source of "income" for you in the short term. I'm not worried about my ability to earn once I graduate, and I'm fortunate to come from a family where my long term financial stability isn't an issue. But like I said, for the next year or so it's going to be mainly about control more than the dollar amount; more about enforcing frugality as a part of guiding a submissive man deeper into submission and enjoying the mutual pleasure of you living just a tiny bit more comfortably while I practice the virtue of self restraint for the benefit of my Mistress.
If you didn't read the ad, it will be obvious. I'm not going to buy you an Amazon gift card before I have any idea who you are, just because you called me a loser. I'm not going to buy your socks or suck your toes for a set price tomorrow afternoon. And I’m not going to immediately start calling you Mistress or Goddess without getting to know you at all. This may sound a bit demanding for a guy who wants to give up this much control, but underlying all that submission there has to be some basic respect and connection as two human beings.
If this sounds interesting to you, let me know and we'll get drinks. If that goes well, we'll do it again, and so forth, until we’re in a relationship basically like any other, albeit mildly kinky. The control over how I spend my money will slowly but surely shift to you, and before too long, if we’re both lucky, the egalitarian shell of the nascent relationship will fall away and you will have me on a very, very tight leash.
I’m 5ft9, blond, blue eyes, HWP, d/d free, and sane. Please be age-appropriate, a reasonable height that you don’t tower over me in heels, and also HWP and d/d free.
***A word to the wise: Google has a reverse image search function--you upload a pic and they find out where else it is on the internet. So using a porn star's pics is really not an effective catfishing method any more. Yes, even the cute but not overtly sexual ones from their Instagram accounts.
I really don't see myself being happy in a long-term relationship without this as a major part of it. This is part of a larger submissive streak, best expressed by this blog (which is not mine but which shows the kind of relationship I would eventually like). http://heartlesswives.tumblr.com I apologize if this comes off douchey and un-sub-like, but my one major "demand" is I need this to be an in-person thing. So:
DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME IF
You want an Amazon gift card within the first 20 minutes.
You don't want to meet in person at all.
You only want to meet in person after months of online servitude.
You don't live in, or regularly travel to, Manhattan or nearby parts of Brooklyn, Queens, or North Jersey; or you only want to tell me what a shame it is that you live so far away.
Obviously, this is a huge commitment and involves a lot of trust on both of our parts. And it's not the kind of thing that you can just jump into on the first date (believe me, I've tried). Plus I'm a full time student and while I have a job at school that pays reasonably well and I have very low living expenses, I won't be creating a major source of "income" for you in the short term. I'm not worried about my ability to earn once I graduate, and I'm fortunate to come from a family where my long term financial stability isn't an issue. But like I said, for the next year or so it's going to be mainly about control more than the dollar amount; more about enforcing frugality as a part of guiding a submissive man deeper into submission and enjoying the mutual pleasure of you living just a tiny bit more comfortably while I practice the virtue of self restraint for the benefit of my Mistress.
If you didn't read the ad, it will be obvious. I'm not going to buy you an Amazon gift card before I have any idea who you are, just because you called me a loser. I'm not going to buy your socks or suck your toes for a set price tomorrow afternoon. And I’m not going to immediately start calling you Mistress or Goddess without getting to know you at all. This may sound a bit demanding for a guy who wants to give up this much control, but underlying all that submission there has to be some basic respect and connection as two human beings.
If this sounds interesting to you, let me know and we'll get drinks. If that goes well, we'll do it again, and so forth, until we’re in a relationship basically like any other, albeit mildly kinky. The control over how I spend my money will slowly but surely shift to you, and before too long, if we’re both lucky, the egalitarian shell of the nascent relationship will fall away and you will have me on a very, very tight leash.
I’m 5ft9, blond, blue eyes, HWP, d/d free, and sane. Please be age-appropriate, a reasonable height that you don’t tower over me in heels, and also HWP and d/d free.
***A word to the wise: Google has a reverse image search function--you upload a pic and they find out where else it is on the internet. So using a porn star's pics is really not an effective catfishing method any more. Yes, even the cute but not overtly sexual ones from their Instagram accounts.
