"The use of sexual energy for spiritual means is one of the most ancient of human wisdoms” (Mark Thompson, Leatherfolk) perhaps best describes the focus of my quest and my SM journey.

Learning SM as a bottom was once an expected-to-essential step to becoming a Top. Now, after identifying as a switch I am expanding my Topping skills. My empathic skills are strengthening: I can sense the effect of my play upon the bottom so that each flogger stroke, pinch of the nipple clamps or drip of hot wax passes through us both like the pulse of a TENS unit. I am speaking here of connection, the essence of SM. I prefer sensual to physical intensity during play, but of course will honor and respond to your interests as well. There is so much more to enjoy as I play and learn.

I would like to connect better with kinksters in the Jackson, WY and SE Idaho areas.

I am well-educated, curious, inventive, funny and creative, pierced and tatted, and enjoy both private and public play. I love adventures: physical, emotional, intellectual and sexual, and make high-quality toys and bondage furniture. I have recently become interested in the Pagan Ordeal Path and want to explore it further.

Two kinky people have much greater potential than the sum of their individual experience and personalities. You be intelligent, willing to experiment, fun and affectionate. Equal opportunity to both genders though women are preferred. Experience is good, but a willing attitude to learn and experiment is much better. Mutual respect of limits and discretion; SS&C always. No smoking or drugs. Long term, real time relationship desired.

I am trying to increase my catch rate. I put a lot of time and effort into contacting you, and of course I hope for your positive response. So I would appreciate it if you would respond to my letters, if only to say "No thanks". In which case, please tell me why.