Life swings like a pendulum backward and forward between pain and boredom. Arthur Schopenhauer To describe myself.... I spend more time alone than with people. I like peaceful, solitary, lost in my own thoughts time. My actions are preceded by careful deliberation. I am information driven. I will analyse the information coming in from life to formulate a course of action that is most logical and consistent. Hence I know what I want, why I want it and know the rationale behind wanting it. I am sometimes told that I am inflexible to within reason, well who wants a flexible (malleable) man. I think life is a dance. Since I have the action plan, I will hold you closely enough so that you can feel my intended motion and response by following seamlessly. If you think you can feel my rhythm and keep in step...let's begin a cosmic dance...... What I'm looking for A complete package beauty, brains, creativity, ready for a 24/7, ltr. Besides being submissive, I need a highly intelligent woman. Your brain is just as important to me as your body, even more so. You must be able to think and relate to ideas that are outside the normal paradigm (that may be why you are here, right). After we discuss roles and responsibilities, you must be able to fulfill your role without being micromanaged. You must be able to understand that the care that I show never negates my role as dominant in our relationship. You understand that your submission is cerebral and I shouldn't have to force it; we reinforce in the bedroom not force. I do not want a humiliation sub. If you are my sub, then you are an extension of me, hence if I humiliate you, that's a reflection of myself. If you follow the line of reasoning...let's start a discussion...