I am where I came from, I will become where I go. I don't regret my past, shut the door on it, but use it to determine the choices I make I make in the future.
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I came here as a simple Dominant. As I learned more about myself I learned that I am not that simple. Owning a submissive totally did not make me totally happy. We are not things but just as things won't bring us total happiness neither will people.
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I am relationship centered. I see D/s as simply a way for a couple to define roles, to accept themselves for truly who the are, to explore, to trust , to love each other in the way that they see fit.
Who am I ?? I guess the best way to describe me is an Alpha male. I love getting up in the morning, going out into the world, slaying the dragons, working on the castle, but at night giving myself to my queen. What I found for myself was that being a simple Dominant left me lacking, that there is a certain part of me, that deep emotional, loving part that is protected. That to gain access to it I must submit totally to my partner. I must turn myself over to her to let that part of me out. I guess the best way to describe it is that by using the physical, we gain access to the emotional.
I'm not looking to be mistreated. to be humiliated, or to be less than. I'm looking to be different but equal. I accept that there are basic differences between men and woman. I saw a picture on here that made me laugh, It was a picturte of 2 electrical boxes. The first had a simple switch on it. it was labeled "man" The second had all kinds of knobs and dials on it, it was labeled "Woman". I think sexually and emotionally men often are kind of simple, women on the other hand can be complex. Who came up with the idea that men should be in charge of relationships and sex ?? Probably a man :) Why would a woman want to put a man in charge of their intimancy and sexuality ??? Because thats what we have been taught. I like to believe that some of us are past that.
I would love to find a woman that is open, honest, and tells me her needs.
1/26/2011 5:22:53 AM
Every Day is a journey, We learn new things about ourselves, others, and this trip called life. Sometimes we get to choose the road we get to travel down and sometimes we are forced down a path. Let the journey begin
