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"And there I was, 225 pounds, perpetually lost and confused, short legs, ape-like upper body, all chest, no neck, head too large, blurred eyes, hair uncombed, 6 feet of geek, waiting for her."
— Charles Bukowski (Women)
The purpose of all of this that we do is, in my opinion, the enjoyment and growth of all partners. If you do not enjoy your time with me, there is little purpose in continuing it. While I would wish a relationship based in Dominance and submission, that submission should be chosen because it is enjoyable and rewarding for all parties.
I am a man with exquisite and passionate erotic tastes. I seek a closely bonded long term relationship with one or more strongly masochistic women of the same. The mind is the strongest sex organ, and mine works overtime. But PASSION is the greatest aphrodisiac to me. There is little hotter to me than watching a woman cum to exhaustion, and knowing I had a major part in it.
I think the first thing for me to say is that connection, communication, transparency and authenticity are the most important things to me. Without a basis in trusted communication, I do not feel it is possible to have a healthy Dominant and submissive relationship.
Next would come sex. I am a very sexual being. I greatly enjoy a woman’s passion and will do what I can to create and sustain it. The bonding that occurs in a D/s sadomasochistic relationship is profound and I will work to deepen that. I admit to being a great admirer of physical beauty. It often, but does not necessarily come with youth. I also would insist on strong bi-sexuality in a partner, as experimental and broader sexual scenarios are a delight to me. There will be times when I may wish to enjoy you with another or watch you being taken by another for MY pleasure. I want a partner who is anxious to be as sexual towards me as I am towards her, to be open in her lusts particularly for me. Why else are we enjoying each other’s bodies?
Part of that is my enjoyment of sadistic behavior. While I greatly enjoy a wide range of sadistic play, my greatest reward is the masochistic pleasure and passion created. In other words, I want to hurt you till you beg to cum. But just being a top is not enough for me. The emotional gift of submission is a fulfillment of who I am. I will definitely work to create an environment where that is possible. There is much discussion about “gift” and I do not wish to debate that now, suffice it to say, I can lead the relationship with your support. Let us keep to that.
In that line, emotional trust is vastly important. There are wounds in all of us, and I am capable and willing to be there when it is necessary to expose those wounds and assist in their healing. But I expect that my partner(s) will be there for me as well. While it is thought that this is an UN-equal relationship, it MUST be between partners of equal VALUE and equal RESPECT, and based in trust and admiration no matter the inequality of the roles we play. Grief is healed not alone, but with an accepting partner.
I commit to working for your physical, mental and spiritual health and growth. I wish to be held accountable for that. I will work diligently to learn what excites you and to protect and advise you to the best of my ability. Strength in my submissive does not frighten me away. On the contrary, I am drawn to it. How much better if that strength is given freely from admiration? (I would far rather the momentary submission of a Queen, than the abject slavery of someone who feels they are a wretch.)
While my goal is a long term pack, I feel I should start with amicable play partners. Meet, communicate, explore interests and trust, play, sex, submission, slavery...probably in that general order. I am a strong sadist and enjoy much impact play. I do NOT enjoy suffering for its sake alone. It would be far better if you were excited by being taken by me and became wet from the pain.
Finally I would say that your health, your family, and your career all take precedence to any form of Dominance or play on my part. You will be treated as a valuable human being. Also, life has its challenges, and you will never be WRONG if you have a reasonable excuse for not accomplishing something assigned.
Deeply connected to the soil my feet reside on. Hands grip and taste the flesh of sex, ears search for stimulation, eyes raw with anticipation, wounded heart pushes life while the proud ego hides its ugly truth.
Pagan with out bravado, just natural energy and poise.
I don't just want to spank you and make your ass red or fuck you until you're shaking uncontrollably and whip you until you're crying.
I want to do all that until I annihilate you and you can't even speak your name. You'll be in a state of shock and ecstasy, washing away every other thought from your being.
I don't want to just choke you until your eyes roll back or bind you so tight, that moving is not an option and then beating you until your screams is all I hear and care about.
I want to do all that until you can't form a thought and you react out of pure animal instinct.
Fuck just playing, I want to annihilate you in a way where I will be your everything in that moment and you'll feel nothing but the pain and pleasure I allow you to suffer through.
In that destruction, you'll find a beauty within that state of being, you've always wanted to taste.
You're mine. My love, my princess, my property. Yes, you're a person. A profound, powerful one at that. But you're also something to be had, kept and owned like the precious pet that you are.
As the owned, you will serve me. My needs will be met with enthusiasm and you'll be my obedient kitten, who will suffer my marks and please me when commanded to. That's because your body is mine to use. Be it brutally fucking your face or pounding that tender and sore pussy until I'm more interested in your pain I'm making you suffer, than my own pleasure.
No matter what I decide to do with you, you'll obey and serve me true, because that is the number one Edict of the owned.
As the owner, I will protect which is mine at all cost. Building you up with my loving, caring hands and a will that will lead us both to moments of perfection between a sensual sadist and his princess, serving as his blank canvas.
You are mine. You are owned and we always care for that which we own, more than that which does not belong to us and for you, I will care for and use you as I want, as if it was my rightful place, because it is.
Because I own you and you wouldn't want anything else but to be owned, used and forever cherished by her loving Daddy.
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