| If you are wanting to contact me, please read ALL of my profile. If you do not do that, then most likely I will not respond to your -mail or friend request. Please do NOT contact me asking how I am doing or trying to “hook up” as all that will do is make me block you. Do NOT contact me asking me to bottom for you, because I will go off on you immedently! If you are expecting me to be polite about anything, you have probably contacted the wrong person.
First and foremost, I am a Dominant who happens to be blind!! I am what is considered a lifestyler. I do NOT look at it that way, because to me it is just my life. I currently do not have any submissive or slaves, but I have had both. I am in the local community, and have been for a while now. I LOVE going to the local dungeon, and go several times a month. As of earlier this year, I am walking the Leather path.
I am very independent, and HATE it when I am treated like I am disabled in any way. The hardest thing for me is having to ask for help, but am getting a little better at doing it. Even when I have a submissive/slave, I believe in doing things on my own.
I am a very blunt person. I do NOT know how to sugarcoat. If you ask me something direct, you will get an answer, even if it’s not the answer you are looking for. I am very honest and do not lie. I expect the same from my friends or people that are under my authority. I am usually “just one of the guys.” You will see why the more you get to know me. I also usually cuss like a sailor, so for warning.
I am a mentor, a friend, and a confident to people in the community. I am in no way vanilla. I am one of those people that can NOT be in the vanilla world. All of my friends are in the community. I will drop everything to help out any friend at any time, if it is needed. I will always help out a newbie coming into the community, as well. I don’t EVER talk about what Is discussed with me, unless I am being thrown under the buss, or even worse, if staying quiet does more harm than good.
I am a sadist. More specifically, I love delivering pain to bottoms that crave it! The more I make someone scream, cry, etc. the more I will dance around and giggle! I LOVE the fact that I am a “hard limit” for some people. I love the art of the mind fuck, and am very good at it. I am still relearning some of the implements, but know when I do, I will be better at them than I was before I went blind. I also love learning new things, and will always ask someone to show me how to do something new.
I am very well known in the DFW community. I believe in doing the vetting process and the use of safe calls. I will ask people about someone before doing almost anything with a person. If I am out with someone for the first few times, I will have at least one safe call, but usually more than that. I will suggest to the person I am meeting, going out with, doing a scene with, etc, to do the same. I will NOT play someone, or meet with them outside of the dudgeon. that I have just met or talked to via e-mail. I will NOT give my number or address to someone that I do not know. I have, also, been a safe call for several people in the community, as well.
I believe in protocols and respect. As such, I almost always follow the general protocols of the event, munch, private parties that I attend. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in having fun, but don’t think it’s too hard to follow protocols etc. in order to do that. I get irritated by people that don’t usually follow said protocols, rules, etc. I also follow RACK at all times. I am very down to Earth, but at the same time, give off the vibe of demanding respect.
There are certain deive words in our community that I don’t like. If you use one of them in describing me, I will correct you immediately! I prefer to be addressed either by my name or Miss. If you try to address me in a more formal way, I will correct you. Those honorifics should only be used in refering to someone that either owns you or you are under their authority.
All of the pictures on my profile that look like I was bottoming are all because of what it was during my modeling days. I was a Pro-Domme for a little over 15 years. I was a fetish model for almost 10 years. I have retired from those practices as of March 14th, 2013. I like those pictures, and as such, will not take them down.
Please do not let the above scare you off. I am very personable, and will answer any question you would like to ask me. Please feel free to contact me or come up to hold a conversation with me at the local events at any time. I love meeting and conversing with new people, and more importantly, lending a helping hand anytime I can.
***Before you ask, yes I am actively looking for slaves. I will accept submissives, but will still be looking for slaves. I do have rules that WILL be followed in doing this, however. First and foremost, I DO NOT MEET for the first time anywhere but the dungeon. I do this for not only my safety, but for yours as well. I will NOT deal with disrespect from anyone. As such, you better not only know general protocols, but follow them as well. Because I am poly, I expect you to at least be ok with me owning more than one s-type, if not poly yourself. Because you are the s-type, you will have very strict rules on that front, as well as every other aspect of your life. YOU MUST BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOURSELF IN EVERY SINGLE WAY, AS I WILL NOT BE SUPPORTING YOU!!! I am not a "weekend warrior," and as such you have to at least be willing to learn and live as a 24/7 HIGH PROTOCOL slave/submissive. I will NOT now or ever accept someone to own right when I meet them, but will expect them to follow general protocols while they are out with me, and my protocols while getting to know each other. I will NOT move someone in with me until they are at the minimum under consideration, but most likely not until they are collared permanently. More about these and a lot more will be discussed with each and every s-type that I meet and it is agreed upon to get to know each other better.***
When contacting me for the very first time, you need to send me an e-mail that is more than one line BEFORE sending me a request of any kind!!!!