Well what can I say, I am Jack now 58 and live inSurrey.

I have always had a naturally Dominant personality and it has been evident through my life. I have always been the leader with my groups of friends and in the workplace including my passed relationships. Saying that I have a Dominant personality does not mean that I am into restraints and beatings that is not me, the only whipping I would give is purely out of love for discipline.

My domination is gained out of respect and in any relationship I am involved in I do not physically force my partner to submit to me rather they submit to me out of respect and mentally wanting to please me.

All relationships are built on understanding and respecting each other from both parties but also understanding ones place in the relationship.

As far as Dominating one I much prefer the more kinky side than the BDSM side I like to get into ones head and manage from within.

Relationships are not built over night well not long lasting ones anyway but time has to be put in and a connection formed.

I am open and honest and say it how I see it no bull that wastes my time.

When meeting especially on this site I would expect to exchange a lot of messages and get to know each other over time before thinking about meeting up. All good thinks come to those who wait.