Looks like for the moment, I am a switch. Who am I kidding, It will be nice to be someone's play toy for a while.

Go figure!

You Scored as Switch

(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area which can be useful for exploring you sexuality with your partner.

I have spent many years getting my life in order and like it that way. So giving up control of that is never going to happen for me.  I am responsible and I know I can count on myself to "get it done".  With an honest self appraisal in hand, being a submissive or a slave is just not possible.

Many years ago I tried being a submissive and a slave.  I failed miserably for 2 important reasons. Namely, it is just not in my nature and my choices of who to surrender were very poor.  I have no regrets and no apologies for it. In fact, I believe it has benefited me and those I was with.  At times I even miss and smile about it all.  Only being allowed to wear 2 pieces of clothing not including shoes and socks was fun. And being chained the bed post at night was a good one. And even the 2 weeks where every night being locked in a harness until bed time I recall fondly even though my jaw ached a lot. (Certainly cut down on my one liners and zingers - yeah I had it coming).

Having said that, I do find myself looking for a female top, not necessarily a Dominant. More of a special someone just wants to have some fun and take control for a short period of time. 

I consider myself a decent guy and I would have no expectation of any type of sexual contact.  It's more about the helplessness and the freedom from Real Life for a few hours or days that comes with it.  Just keeping simple. I am not a toad, and really don't want to be thought of one.

Seems there is something missing here for the benefit of the submissive/bottom/slave. Like a set of questions they should be asking.  Any "dominant" that would refuse to answer them, Is definitely a bad choice. Vague answers should send up a red flag.

This is a number one question they should all be asking if they are sincerely interested.  Don't waste anyone time if you aren't serious. It's a tough question and should be, they are taking over responsibility for you

"What qualifies you to be an owner?" Provide details and specifics.

Here are some others.

"You state you are a dominant.  How is your live order? How long have you lived in at your current residence? How long have you been with your current employer? Hell, are you even employed? Are you living pay check to pay check?"Certianly ask these and both men as well as women) Please sign my retroactive birth control bill ( Laughs)