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Im an old-fashioned kind of man. I believe in gender roles, that men and women have certain purposes in life. Men should take care of their women, understand them, and set safe bounds for them.
With me, the girl will submit and follow, but she must first know that I am for real, and that Im capable of leading her and looking out for her. Ive changed many girls minds about various things over the years, even those who were stubborn and self-willed, thinking they knew what was what. And in each case I didnt have to do anything to them I just understood their thinking, their world-view, and knew how to stop them in their present course, and then re-direct them.
What I like in a girl is intelligence, gentleness of heart, and the ability to operate and think on her own, without needing to be micromanaged. I want her to be reasonably healthy emotionally, pretty and attractive, and take care of herself. She must be honest, gentle, and service-oriented. I also want her to be naturally feminine, not man-ish.
I am a technical man by training and profession. I work as an engineer, so problem-solving and logical thinking are natural to me. I also have a great sense of humor, and can laugh at the smallest things. Deep and interesting conversation are second nature to me. I am a man with certain desires and tendencies, and I have big heart and big mind. I am not a mindless brute, but if you have pretty hair I will want to grab onto it. I might also use it to get a handle on you.
I am not seeking to make a child grow into a woman. If you lack self-control, then fix that problem. If you need counselling, then seek it good and effective counseling is available. Furthermore, we should all have goals, and we shouldnt give up on them.
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Words have meaning, so use them carefully. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
The way I see it, it's not kink, it's just who I am. But to other people, well, they have their expectations and a different way of seeing things. Therefore, for those of us who prefer to use the word "kink" (which I don't use), we sometimes have to call ourselves something else, instead of "normal". Sometimes I'll use the word "quirk" or "quirky", or "odd", or "unusual", or "my thing", or "a thing I have". Or some other word or phrase when I'm talking about something not considered acceptable by politically-correct society. |
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Are you able to take care of yourself? Are you able to deal with, or at least able to admit, your issues?
Too many girls here are bogged down with a train-load of baggage. Please please PLEASE...deal with your issues *first*, then come here looking for a relationship/ownership/whatever. Sure, we all have issues, and life is filled with joy and pain, triumph and tribulation. But don't come here expecting that some man will be the miracle cure you're looking for. Look to God for that, not to another human. |
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OK, I'm very interested in meeting REAL females. I've had it up to *here* with game-players, thieves, etc, and those girls who cannot/will not be real about themselves.
Are there ANY for-real girls around here??
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| Age: 30 |
| Santa Fe,
New Mexico |
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