The Sundance Kid to my Butch Cassidy.

Don't be easy, I won't respect you.

Don't be shy, you'll annoy me.

Respect yourself and your body, I respect mine.

Be yourself, everyone else is taken.

Know who you are, I know who I am.

Intelligence and Confidence are sexy.

Be real, I am.

Alex

P.S.
All of life is an intelligence test.
Myers-Briggs ENTJ

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My interests are as follows, male between the ages of 18 to 36, height / weight proportionate. You should be sane (Not bi-polar, borderline or manic or on medications or not on meds when you know you should be), rational (able to think for himself, assemble facts, draw conclusions), intelligent (this does not mean educated, you can teach an imbecilic algebra), able to hold a conversation and willing to demonstrate it, does not wear diapers EVER, and able to commit at some point before the next millennium.

Favorite Quotes 1

…a man's sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions. Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he's taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment….It is an act that forces him to stand naked in spirit, as well as in body, and to accept his real ego as his standard of value. He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience…a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut. He does not seek to gain his value, but to express it. [emphasis added] There is no conflict between the standards of his mind and the desires of his body.  

Ayn Rand

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley. 1849–1903

I have read a number of profiles of late where the person was expressing a desire for a Daddy. As I see myself as such, I thought I would take a moment to explain my view of what a Daddy Dom is. Though age is implied, the act of being a Daddy is not fixed to age, rather attitude, to thoughts, to responses. The sub and the Daddy might be the same or close in age, that is not the factor in the relationship. It is, as with any exchange of power, how the exchange is done. The sub gets to relax, regress to a more comfortable age / self-image, and the Daddy gets to exert control, dominance, and discretion as the father or authority figure.

As with any Daddy, real or role play, a level of indulgence, of giving is not only implied but a very real function of the dynamics. That my sub can sneak a few mistakes past Daddy because he loves them, because they know Daddy gives them latitude. This is, without a doubt, part of the joy of being a Daddy. Knowing when to discipline and when to indulge one's little, as opposed to a strict Master or Dom, who expects and deserves compliance. This does not mean there would be no discipline either, rather it being the discretion of the Daddy rather than the offence that dictates any form of discipline. Can you still be strict? Of course, but the latitude is there to choose such or not too. Also, the types and levels of punishment take on a very different characteristic than other forms of D/s or M/s. Yes, spanking is just about universal to BDSM, as a form of play. But as a form of discipline, to them, the headspace is different when being punished, as opposed to playing. Corner time, time out, spanking, all the forms of punishment related to child rearing are used to enforce the Daddies rules. The role of punishment to induce behavior modifications, as done with children, is used in the same manner and fashion in the Daddy Dom relationship, and as such is not a form of “play” rather of, as I said before, behavior modification. Do these activities go on in other D/s relationships? Of course, but again, the headspace of the submissive is very different, from what I have seen. And to add this, so is mine.

The other attributes that attract me to this form of a D/s relationship would be the pleasure I get from being more “who” I am than what is needed or expected in other types of D/s relationships. As opposed to the sub that lives in service, that is there to please, anticipate and met the Dom or Masters needs, the Daddy Dom has a sub that wants to please, but is also expressive, open, and relaxed. I get to be the protector, the fixer, the laughing happy Daddy, my lap always open to them, and the feeling I get when they put their arms around me, hugging me and says, “I love you Daddy”, well, words don’t describe the feeling. I get to give of myself, explain, teach, guide, and at the end of the day, kiss my baby goodnight, knowing that they are safe and happy, carefree.

When it came to My turn I stood up and said Alex. The silence was deafening, than the scrapping of chairs as people people turned to look. Politely, Ms Nala asked if I had a title, and I pondered that a moment, and replied,

Just Some Guy.

(No, I did not say "Lord God of all I Survey, Sovereign Right to Own All Therein, The repository holder of the keys to the fruits of knowledge and Lord Protector and Emperor of all the Known Universes (But it did cross my mind))