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Hi!
My name is Justice Lextalionis. I'm not new here nor to the lifestyle. I'm here to connect with people to help encourage those like myself who have dealt with so called "Dom/mes" that were nothing but predators and to stand up against predators in the BDSM community.
For clarification's sake, I'd like to add that I'm not simply referring to the online BDSM community. Yes, the real life predators use these venues for seeking out others but they do it at real life events as well. It is those I'm speaking of. Those with the histories and patterns of violating boundaries and even breaking laws. Those with substantial evidences against them and their character.
I know that nothing I say or do here or anywhere else for that matter is going to change them. I don't want to. They are happy being them and are even proud of themselves and don't recognize their behavior as abusive. I am here to educate other on how to recognize and avoid them. In short, to cut off their victim supply or at the very least make it harder for them.
More to come.
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So, I've gotten quite a few messages supporting my "crusade." It's already been more than I expected. It helps a lot to hear helpful and encouraging messages. Thank you everyone.
However, I have also received some truly disturbing messages which remind me why I'm doing this. I guess I should thank those people too for keeping me motivated. Some are ignorant, some are insulting, and others are downright... well, the reason this type of information needs to get out there and people need to start talking about the scum that is out there.
And yes, I know there are some bad submissive types out there too but they aren't as common as the Dom/mes and nor are they putting themselves into positions of power to abuse others. I'm not saying submissives can't be abusive and unhealthy. That would be like saying a woman can't be abusive and I've certainly seen that too. I am saying though that the situation isn't as common and that it's very different. Abusers who hide behind the Dom/me title are in a unique position to cause immense physical, mental, emotional, and psychological harm to others. Many find the community a great place to find the new, naive, and unsure - the most vulnerable members honestly - and use this to their advantage.
That being said, if you have had negative experiences with a submissive, I'd be happy to hear those as well. I'm totally for equitable accountability here. This is all about policing our community and keeping out the harmful. |
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Has anyone else experienced this? I'm confused by this because I haven't received any notification that my profile is inappropriate.
I maintain a profile over on OKC. (Who doesn't these days, right?) It was a recent acquisition so to speak. On the first day I got a few views but I haven't gotten any more. My messages don't seem to be getting replies. I have gotten no new views. No messages of my own. I've even liked a few people (one of which I know in real life and was kind of a test) and I've heard nothing back. The one I liked on who I know, received no notification that I viewed her, liked her, or messaged her. I feel like I've been silently blacklisted. I haven't gotten any messages there or in my email about being banned or restricted or anything. I can log in like normal and have even spent some time working on my profile and answering questions. But no one can see me... not even if you go searching for me.
Has anyone else experienced this? It's hard not to feel like it is something very intentional. Any ideas? |
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I just joined here and Not even an hour went by, and this is the first message I receive...
MasterJxxxxxxxx on 8/4/16 at 7:14 PM:
This isn't a place for your feminist crusades, leave the real people here alone. Or at least go harass and annoy all the fake african profiles, those con men deserve to be annoyed by your ilk.
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| Age: 23 |
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