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I apologize in advance if my profile comes across as some kind of amateur written adult-reading, but I feel that it will sincerely describe what I am looking for.
I would like to meet someone that I can strip naked, immobilize in bondage, and then tease their body parts for hours. I can be really mean when it comes to teasing girls for my pleasure :) I really like things that are made out of leather and that are compatible with padlocks. There is something very sexy about holding the key to the locks on my little submissive girl's restraints and collar. I really want to tie you spread eagled to my bed, pinch and bite your nipples, run my finger close to your armpits, and touch every exposed area of your naked flesh for hours at a time. You might be in tears begging for complete sexual release. I have a very sadistic sense of humor, and I will enjoy tormenting you mentally and physically!
I am SICK of trying to "convert" lame-o traditional girlfriends. They are SO UNCOOL! ;) What I mean to say is: in the past I have tried to bring my girlfriends into the BDSM world with minimal success. They were wonderful and I adore them, but I knew that something was lacking.
It is now (as of February 21, 2013) time to find someone that is already into this kind of stuff! I am actively trying to find my future submissive girlfriend who I will later make into my slave.
If you want to just play around without us knowing each other at first, I am not really interested. Don't get me wrong, the idea turns me on, but this is probably a good indicator that you are somewhat unsafe or most likely insane. I offer my sincere apologies to those who are safe and sane but like to play around with random people on the internet.
About me: I am 32 years old, self-employed, and I live by myself in Houston. I am highly educated, financially secure, physically fit, and I have a wonderful sense of humor. My humor is often very dry, and I use sarcasm regularly. I possess good social skills and I am well liked by my friends and strangers. I love my life, hobbies, and work, and I hope to meet someone who is the same. I am a humanitarian at heart, and more of an internationalist. I have been fascinated by BDSM before I knew what BDSM was. I have spent thousands of hours reading about it and lurking on the web. It is strange for me to read so much about a topic but have such little hands on experience but I will soon change that, and I know that my years of visualization, study, intelligence, creativity, hand-eye coordination, and sadistic sense of humor will make me a quick learner :) Don't forget the fact that I am very modest :)
My past relationships were all vanilla. I have found that a lot of people like to be tied up. It is fun for them! But that's about it. If I break out the whips, padlocks, chastity belt and ask them to go inside a cage, they start looking at me funny. I am actively seeking someone who is openly into this lifestyle and these games. I would like to find a submissive who would like to become a better person. I do not want someone to just serve me, but I want them to have the desire to make the world a better place. I also want to help my submissive girl become the type of person she wants to become. I will help her meet her goals. If she is in college, I will punish her for not doing her homework. If she wishes to meditate or practice religion, I will keep on top of her to make sure she is not being lazy. If she wishes to become healthier, I know very much about exercise and nutrition and I will teach her what I know. If she has a resolution of exercising, I will drag her to the gym with me and reward her later for exercising to her own (and my) satisfaction. If she wishes to eat healthier, then I will make her follow a safe healthy diet that she agrees will be good for her. I have very good self-discipline and I practice what I preach.
Wow, my profile really makes me look like a "nice guy" or "great friend" style guy. I guess I am in a way, but don't get me wrong: I can be VERY sadistic. I really would love to tease and humiliate my submissive girl for hours, and hours at a time! We can have weekend BDSM vacations. I have no problem inflicting pain within my submissive's limits. There will be plenty of spanking, paddling, and whipping. Hot wax turns me on. Bondage devices really fascinate me. I like locking leather hoods, cages, various types of locking restraints, stockades, racks, and just about any kind of clever bondage gadget. I'm not into rope bondage. To me it kind of confuses me in a way. I guess to me a good analogy is how when Westerners are confused by the practicality of chopsticks when the fork is "clearly" a more practical invention. By the way, I have some Asian blood and I love chopsticks and try to use them when they are available, but I'm not a big fan of the rope bondage just because I think locking restraints are really cool! I can literally spank or tease you while you are bound for hours and you are begging for mercy. I have no problem stripping you naked, carrying you into my bedroom, pinning you to my bed and forcing you into a spread eagled position. I am ridiculously strong and athletic and I would love to use this to dominate you and allow you to experience subspace. I already mentioned this earlier, but I just have to mention this again. I really want you spread eagled on my bed naked so I can bite, lick, gently scratch, pinch, suck, arouse and torture your naked flesh for hours and hours and hours!
I will be turned on seeing you humiliated. Making you crawl and beg bring me great delight. Locking you in a cage next to my computer while I chat on the internet, and teasing you with my foot is not beneath me. You can pleasure me in different ways. You naked while I am fully clothed watching TV. I might play with your body parts during commercial break.
I want to tie , tease, whip, tickle, torture, humiliate you in every safe way as possible. There will be no blood, or anything gross, I promise. I will only do things that make BOTH of us feel safe. Be prepared to be objectified for long periods of time.
One thing I want to make clear is that I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship at first, or maybe at all. I am first looking for someone that I can be close to, who will play with me often (which is very often). If you feel comfortable submitting to me, and things escalate, we might push your submission. But overall, I want to meet someone that matches me in many ways, not just similar interests in BDSM.
When we're not playing our games, we will go to movies together, shoot pool, read books at coffee houses, eat out at restaraunts, and go to bars. We can travel around the U.S. and maybe see some other countries. We will play our games in hotels too. I love going to Starbucks and reading for hours. I go to the gym almost every day, and sometimes I lose track of time and find that I have spent too many hours there. Sometimes I promise myself that I will take a day off to rest but I end up going to the gym to play basketball, or I find myself going on a long and exhausting bike ride. I am addicted to two things: reading, and the feeling of physical exercise.
The thing that matters most to me about you is that you are honest and have intentions of becoming a better person. I do not care if you are religious or not, but I hope you have some system that helps you practice a good life. I humble myself daily by reading about the suffering that goes on the world, and I constantly have this on the back of my mind. I want to make the world a better place not just for myself, and not just for Americans, but for all human beings. Like I said, I am an internationalist and humanitarian.
Relating to me and exercise: I do not care if you are overweight or feel out of shape. I am attracted to all body types honestly. I like really thin and short girls, because they are so easy to pin down. I can honestly dominate them with one hand :) And girls who have larger bodies or are taller are so fun too, since there is just more flesh for me to bite and tease. I honestly do not know what I like better. To me the idea of training you to be healthy REALLY excites me. The only negative physical attribute that I can think of that you might have (assuming you are a good person)is a sexually transmitted disease. This turns me off greatly, and I am sorry. I am 100% clean, and I promise you that I will try my best to remain that way.
Other than that, I really believe that the human body is just a beautiful thing.
I do not care at all if you are uneducated. Some of my best friends are dumber than a box of rocks and I tell them this every day! Haha. I do insist that you have a desire to improve your intellect (unless you know everything). I will tutor you, suggest books that will interest you, and teach you to have a passion for reading if you believe this will help you. I am turned off by people who can tell me every single fact about Brad and Angelina Jolie without knowing anything about world events. You have no idea how many times my friends have attempted to start intelligent discussion with me about Anna Nicole Smith (may she rest in peace) but they have no idea what else is happening in the world. I do not care if you have no formal education. I do wish that you have a plan in life. I have no problem helping you meet your goals in school. I will put a chastity belt on you, and chain your foot to the desk if I have to. I will probably have to leave the room because I will be so turned on looking at you like this, that I will end up distracting you from your studies :)
If you are older than me, I have no problem dominating you. This actually excites me, because I will assume that your maturity will make you a very fun submissive. You are probably more secure with yourself, and you just understand the way the world works. You are basically less likely to be a psycho-path :)
You will probably not be a whiny baby when I play with your body for 3 hours (but making you whine and beg will still bring me incredible delight). Your experience in life will help you accept the fact that your best bet is to just lay there and accept the fact that you are helpless, and will remain so until I decide to let you out of your binds. Being completely in control is so fun!
This sounds very corny, but I believe this: Overall, I want you to become a better person. I believe you will make me a better person. If things work out well, we will in some way make the world a better place. Blah blah blah, I know that probably "killed your buzz" a bit.
Let me do some silly cold reading on you now! If you made it this far, then this is probably true about you:
- You are patient. I know this because my profile rambles on in an incoherent and unorganized fashion at times. I also didn't really proofread it.
- You have a reading ability above the average 4th grader.
- Maybe you aren't really that patient in general, but you are sexually aroused enough to keep on reading my profile. You horndog you ;)
-Uhh, I can't think of anything else to put in bullet points, but I sure enjoyed using them.
Ok that's it for now, I'm sick of writing.
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I have been away from the internet for a few months, exploring life (and BDSM). I realized I have a very large interest in helping my subs self-improve. I enjoy behavior modification through positive reinforcement primarily, with a little punishment or negative reinforcement. I want to help my subs develop good habits, and erase bad ones. I would love to help more subs quit smoking, save money for themselves, exercise regularly, sleep consistently, study, and just whatever would make them more disciplined in their own life. I have a background in psychology, specifically Applied Behavior Analysis therapy. I enjoy applying this to the BDSM lifestyle.
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Well as a lot of you have figured out already, I enjoy writing and rambling, so some of my journal entries are not the most exciting.
Yesterday I was playing basketball and I got the weirdest injury I have experienced in my many years of playing competitive sports. I both got cut above the eyebrow (requiring seven stitches) and I also sprained my big toe. So people who see me will notice my stitch over my eye, but also I have a limp. It is very hard to explain what happened!
Oh yeah, I also got some new locking leather wrist and ankle restraints, as well as a pair of tweezer/tightening nipple clamps on a chain, and a locking leather collar. I can not wait to use them!
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So I've been active on this site for a week now. I am getting many messages from some fascinating people. I find this site to be quite addictive and I am learning a lot. One thing that I am learning is that being 26 years old does not really help my chances of finding a submissive female, as most submissives prefer older males, the majority of females on here are not younger than me. I guess this is something I can look forward to in the aging process. I am still optimistic that I will find a quality person in the future, and I am enjoying the learning process.
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| Age: 36 |
| Goldcanyon,
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