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I got a very nice note from one of the Dommes here on collarme last night. I do find it encouraging, despite some of the nonsense one has to wade through at times here, to know that there are some very nice Mistresses here who it would be very nice to have a relationship with one of these days. A nice note like that one was, it makes a lot of the other nonsense here seem trivial in comparison. ...... If she ever does read this, I do want her to know how much better she left me feeling with that nice note of hers and how much I did appreciate her taking the time to pass along her thoughts to me.
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I was talking with a friend of mine the other day and it was actually kind of depressing, just all doom and gloom, just going on about how horrible everything is these days. I just can't approach life like that. A positive, optimistic outlook on life, that is what I like and what I am most comfortable with. Actually, I think most problems in life, for the most part, are temporary and can be dealt with. Yes, there are problems at times but I still think life is to be enjoyed, not commiserated over. Years ago, I knew this retired Army Colonel and I never will forget one thing he told me. You never give up, you always keep trying. Period. That's the approach to life I like and prefer.
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I saw this posted by one of the Ladies here and thought it was very well put, very appropriate. (Hope she doesn't mind my posting this.)
"In life and in BDSM area, I guide after 3 basic things: Mutual Respect, Trust & Sincerity."
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A couple of thoughts. D/s is a relationship first, anything else follows that. With mutual trust and respect established, I think it is then up to the Mistress I am with to establish the appropriate limits that she feels are best for me. A large part of a good D/s relationship is for me to learn to follow her lead and direction based on that trust and respect that I have for her as the dominant in our relationship. My accepting her guidance and control and trusting her to do what is best for the both us, and accepting that as her role in our relationship, that is a large part of a D/s relationship for me.
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It sure would be nice to meet someone here, a nice lady wanting to explore the dynamics of a D/s relationship, somebody to talk with and share things with. One of those things that requires some patience, I guess.
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Obedience training and orgasm control, I think those would be two of the most important things I would be looking for with a dominant woman in a D/s relationship. First, my mind with obedience training so that I learn to follow her direction and control. Then, orgasm control so that she can use that to reinforce her dominance over me. Allowing a dominant woman to impose her discipline on me in such a manner, putting the decision into her hands as to when I am allowed to experience an orgasm and when I am not, that is something I find very appealing about a D/s relationship.
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Looking for Dominant lady for possible relationship. I enjoy the dynamics of a D/s relationship, the kink, well. that can come later if a connection established. Character, intelligence and a good sense of humor are important to me.
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By the way, I do like to meet and talk with new people about a lot more than BDSM, so please feel free to message me if you care to do so. I love reading and like politics, history, economics, fishing, hunting, walking and camping and cooking, among other things.
For reasons that can well be understood, I don't want to publish a picture of myself on this profile. If I get to talking with someone and there is some connection there, I will be glad to furnish a photo. I am here looking for someone I might be able to establish a relationship with, not just someone to have some silly fun with. I do value my privacy. And I am interested in much more than BDSM. And just as in a D/s relationship there are limits, there are also limits to what I am going to do here. If I happen to run into someone here interesting, that would be great, if not, well, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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