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JFDominant

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Wow. Collarspace now. Very cool they saved my profile. I spent a lot of time on it. Hi! I am Joe. I am a graduate of Univ. of ND, business owner, sailer, amateur gourmet, home owner, woodworker, handyman, little brother (five older sisters. Still wondering why I might be looking for a submissive woman? hehe. Naw, they're great.), scuba diver...... I am a fairly well travelled guy, but nothing beats coming home. My house is my oasis. I love to laugh and my sense of humor has been described as "unique." I love words and strive to use them properly. (This was aided by a mother who, despite her alzheimers, could still call you on a split infinitive from across the room. She was a riot. RIP Mom.) I was raised to think of those around me. With 7 kids altogether in one home, you can imagine my folks wanted to stress that a little bit so we could cut down on the conflicts. I know the golden rules for carrying on a relationship with minimal misunderstandings and friction. I know to step aside in a crowded place when I need to stop walking and not just stop right out there in the aisle blocking everyone else. I am aware of what is going on around me. If we do disagree, I listen to your whole sentence then respond to it in whole sentences. Personal insults are not a viable tool for dispute resolution. Disagreements between couples should be resolved while holding hands. Oh boy, ain't I sounding like the sadist now, huh. Wait, it gets better. While I definitely have dominant thoughts and tendencies, I do not have a strong sadistic drive. I am a romancer. I am a kisser. (You need to know what red lights are for.) I am a hand-holder. If you do not care for public displays of affection, we might not hit it off. In my mind, I can not take the dominant role without you "taking" the submissive role. I shall not beat you. As a matter of fact, I am not into inflicting physical pain. OK, a lot of sentences that begin with "I" there. Let's pop out some that begin with "You." Let's get the hard part over. You are probably under 45. You are thin. I am a leg man, so you have two that you think are one of your best assets. You are a girly girl of the first order. You have a nice fresh face, but still believe in the use of makeup. You like all the feminine things. You could probably figure out how to change a tire, but it would get you all greasy and might mess the manicure. You are a very affectionate, loving person. You understand the healing, warming power of the touch of a woman's hand. While you understand the practicality of pants, especially in the winter, you feel that girls today wear them entirely too often. Perhaps you are even just more comfortable in a dress or a skirt. You have found yourself a touch overdressed for things recently. You have a high heel shoe collection. In case you had not noticed, there is a difference between men and women. Men need to be needed. We need to be the protector, problem solver, broken widget fixer, tire changer, door opener. Men are very visual and tactile. We can not help ourselves, we notice pretty women. We hear the high heels clicking on the tile floor at the grocery store from a mile away and we HAVE to see. It is a biological imperative. All that and we can still love our spouse. Women need to be needed too. You need to bring comfort. You need to feel protected and appreciated. You need to feel lusted after. You make a house a home. You warm a heart and a room with a smile. You make a man feel like a million bucks by the way in which you react to him. (and vice versa of course.) The long and short of it is, I'll handle the lawn care, vehicle maintenance and dragon slaying. YOU BE THE GIRL. (And no, you do not feel that that is a lesser role.) I will drop you at the door of the restaurant and get the car afterward because you have gone to such trouble to dress up for me which means that your clothes are more fragile than mine, they likely don't keep you as warm as mine do and high heels don't work so spiffy on an icy parking lot. So, if you have gotten this far and are asking where the D/s is, that in itself is somewhat impressive. Too many girls today might find that way of thinking kinky. Yes it is sort of a deion of a 1950's type relationship in many respects. Well, there's more. I have a MAJOR fetish for sheer hosiery on women. Nothing sexier. No, bare legs are NOT sexy. I don't care how perfect your legs and skin are nor how much you tan, bare negs are NEVER as sexy as hosed legs. No, pantyhose do NOT cause yeast infections. Do some research. Hosiery does not have to be torture to wear. Get the right size for one thing. Get good quality. If you have a good figure, stop buying the kind that comes with steel threads woven in and a torque wrench to tighten it down once you have it on. Taking them off should not be an occasion for circulation to return to your limbs. I LOVE seeing women in various sheer hose. Thigh highs, stockings with garter belt and yes, pantyhose. No, opaque tights are not included in this. (And while I have a certain respect for fishnets and patterned hose, they aren't what makes me salute if ya know what I mean.) If you are paying attention to fashion trends, you will see that sheer hose are coming back. A recent trip to London made me VERY happy. Girls everywhere walking around in pantyhose and shorts. And yes, it was not uncommon to see the reinforced panty portion peaking out from under the shorts. I didn't want to come home. You should probably also know that I inspect for runs frequently and on some occasions I will make you wear seams that of course, must be straight. Are you still here? That is promising. You could expect to have me picking out your clothes and having some basic rules about that. No, I will not take you to the grocery store in pasties and a g-string. We have to live in this town. But you can expect to be dressed decidedly sexy sometimes. Women's clothes can be somewhat difficult to wear. It is hard when you have a clingy, stretchy dress on that wants to ride up when you think too hard. It is hard to keep your stocking tops from showing. I know that but it also really cements home your role in our life. (You should not look on the word slutty when it comes to your wardrobe as a bad word.) I like using bondage. I like having a woman tied up. It may be a simple tie or an intricate one. It may be for 5 minutes or it may be for hours. (prolonged bondage means comfortable, safe position.) It may be immobilizing or it may be just hampering. Yes, you might be left in working shackles that allow you to move around the house while I go off for a few hours just because I want you that way. Bondage is not a punishment, it is a discipline. If you are not clear on the difference, ask. I like putting a girl in a situation where she is helpless to her body's reaction to stimulus. Where it is all so overwhelming that you can not help but orgasm even when you don't want to. Yes, I do have a small egg vibrator with a wireless remote control. I will let you guess who will have the egg inside them and who will have the control in their pocket. Yes, that will be in public. Yes, I will likely turn it on in the grocery store check out line. Well, that is enough for now. If you are still reading this, thank you and I'm impressed. Let's hope this go around on CollarMe is luckier. I am sure you are out there somewhere, just where?
5/13/2017 1:42:11 PM
Is it really so hard to find a girl who likes wearing pantyhose? (Good ones. Not cheap shit.)
3/30/2017 7:42:26 PM
Must you all be so far away?

Off on Sunday to Perth and then onto China.   Should be fun.  Never been to China before.

Joe
3/9/2017 12:50:38 PM
Okay. Off to Milan. Still so many fakes here. Maybe I will start grabbing random girls by the arm over there.
2/17/2017 6:45:47 PM
OMG.  There are so many fake profiles on this site.  You can spot them in the first sentence.
2/1/2017 7:45:01 PM
This site has not changed from when it was CollarMe.com.  Too many men posing as women.
11/17/2013 7:00:11 PM

I hope at least some girls LIKE wearing sheer hosiery.  So pretty.

3/28/2013 6:10:01 PM

A man gets home and finds his wife sitting on their sons bed in his bedroom crying.  He asks  her, "what is wrong?"  She shows him the porn collection she has found in their son's bedroom.  It is a collection of the most extreme S&M magazines you can imagine.  The wife says, "What should we do?"  The husband says, "I don't know.  But I don't think we should spank  him."

3/10/2013 4:22:08 PM

Check out the movie, "First Knight".  About one third of the way into the movie Sean Connery as Arthur says to Julia Ormond as Guinevere, "Do you want to marry me?"  "My Lord?", she responded.  "You don't have to marry me because your father wanted it, nor because your country needs it.  Camelot will protect Leonesse whether you marry me or not."  You can watch the rest.

Is the king being insecure?  Hmm.

I guess I will never be the guy who wants to take someone and lock them in the basement.  Oh, I could do that, but it would not be me.

A good scene.  The movie overall is pretty good, but that scene always catches me.

3/1/2013 7:07:33 AM

Enjoying a visit to Hong Kong this week.  A lot like NYC or London except there is no such thing as two streets that run parallel to each other and they built this freakin city on THE SIDE OF A MOUNTAIN!!!  Old people here have thighs that could crack walnuts for crimini sake.  I swear I've lost a couple pounds.

1/6/2013 4:57:59 PM

I do admit, it is difficult for me to reconcile my attraction to a D/s relationship and my attraction to the theme of the movie, "The Notebook".  Well, it is and it isn't.  Only, the blending serves to narrow appropriate candidates.  Drat!!!

12/19/2012 6:38:21 PM

I suppose I should say, if you are local, we are much more likely to work. Please be within a reasonable distance from Rochester, NY and available. I live here and have a business here.

12/8/2012 7:02:41 PM

Wash your hands.  In this last year I have travelled all over the US and to 7 foreign countries.  I have been on numerous airline flights.  Wash your hands and you actually can keep your health.

11/19/2012 4:26:27 PM

A guy goes into a library.  He says to the librarian, "I want to take out a couple books on suicide."  The librarian looks at him really funny and says, "No.  You're never gonna return them."

3/3/2012 8:44:23 AM

My mom had eight kids.  To cut down on fighting she had some rules.  One was, if you want to say something, it has to satisfy two out of three criteria: Kind, True, Necessary.  Try that out.  Mom was a prophet.  More people should adopt that rule.

2/11/2012 9:15:21 PM

I really need to find a girl who loves being tied up.  A girl who likes spending time in bondage just because.  Doesn't mean we will be doing that all the time.  Just that it is something we may do sometimes.

10/27/2011 8:30:33 PM

So, ladies, so many of you don't care for seeing pictures of guys bits and pieces and I don't blame you.  You should perhaps consider, close ups of your bits and pieces aren't exactly high art.  I mean, when did you ever see an Ansel Adams picture which was a close up of a who ha?

10/15/2011 2:15:59 PM

I wrote this in my journal, but it was my first journal entry and not everyone reads back that far.  Yes, I want to be married and have a child at some point.  Let's save ourselves the rollercoaster.

9/25/2011 10:00:53 AM

Moscow is wildly interesting.  Very cool.  The language barrier isn't so bad.  The people are very friendly and quite willing to try to help.  I have been able to communicate with pretty much everyone I have had to.  My perhaps eight word Russian vocabulary includes please and thank you, so that gets you a long way in life.

Walking through Red Square was crazy.  Seems smaller in person than it does on TV.

OMG, the women.  It is a leg lover's paradise.  Sheer hosiery is not only in fashion here, I think I have only seen one woman in a dress without hose.  They are everywhere.  And CFM heels all over the place.  My head has been on a swival.  I am trying not to create an international incident.

9/20/2011 3:51:21 PM

I am enjoying the sights and tastes of Australia right now.  If you are a picky eater, we might not get along.  Trying new things at least once is what makes life interesting.  I enjoy cooking.  You don't necessarily have to love cooking, but please at least be easy to feed.

Tomorrow I am off to sample the sights and tastes of Moscow.  Very excited.  Never did I think I would be going to Moscow!!!

9/5/2011 4:32:57 PM

I like movies.  I have little use for horror movies.  My favorite movie is probably The Quiet Man.  John Wayne and Maureen O'Hara.  What a team.  An honorable mention is given to "Scent of a Woman".  If you don't think the tango scene is sexy, we may not get along.

8/11/2011 8:03:51 AM

I travel a lot.  Work takes me all over the world.  I would not be able to take my sub along on most of these trips.  So, if your idea of life as a sub/slave is being confined at all times, as much as the fantasy of that does sound interesting, my circumstances do not allow for it.  (Well, if I just put out a really big dish of food and plenty of water???  First couple days might be okay, but.....)

4/26/2011 8:24:29 AM

I have been doing some research on "Bimbo Training".  There are hypnotic tapes you can buy online to help turn a girl into a Bimbo.  Many aspects of this are appealing.  I see some sites where there are girls who say this is their ideal life.  To be a toy.  I would love to talk to a girl who has these thoughts.  Some degree of this seems very attractive to me (except the dumb part.)

4/4/2011 10:38:09 AM

The most ideal girl for me would be one who can agree with the idea of being a pantyhose slave and bondage toy.  If you can identify with that, I would love to talk with you.

2/13/2011 7:49:14 PM

Some day, eventually, I would like to be married.  I am ready for that if it comes along.  And I would love to have a child eventually too.

MistressEvelynD
 
 Age: 25
 Zamboanga City, Philippines