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| I'm a sensual light sadist,
I am actively seeking a babygirl to join me for a real life commitment. Someone I can mold and shape, teach and grow with. ( I say grow because even as the submissive grows, so does the Dom, it's a relationship, a partnership between the two, not a job or game. ) Someone that will understand and respect a TPE relationship. Communication is one of the most important things between a Dom and His, though I shall listen, I may not always agree. A few of the other things that are important to me, that will make and break a relationship are honesty, trust and an open mind. Someone that is willing to try new things even if they are found to be unworthy of U/us. As you give to Me, I shall give unto you--Communication, honesty, trust, respect and care.
(taken from sin)
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D/s is not all about the Dominant and his happiness. As a Dominant you are 100% responsible for the happiness of your submissive. While you may believe that the Dominant is always in control and may act and do as He/she wishes while ignoring the needs of His/Her submissive, He/She is only in control for as long as He/she is doing right by His/Her submissive.
A D/s relationship that is not built on truth, trust and communication is nothing. If one cannot be truthful, then one cannot trust you with their life. Submissive do not come with a built in crystal ball. If you wish to be honored and obeyed, then you must communicate your needs. The caveman days are long since gone. Grunting does not count as communication (though hair pulling is acceptable). |
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