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Foreword: PLEASE NOTE that I am very clued up on spotting fakers and frauds on these sites. I am not one to be conned into paying out money for anything, giving bank details or feeling the need to sign-up to (and pay for) profiles on other sites. I respect others' privacy and expect the same in return. I will not pester for other forms of access, although I may ask if you have a better or preferred way of communicating, such as Yahoo, Hotmail, Facebook or Skype. I am a real person with a lot of provable online presence and you only need to ask me for it. Thanks :)
11/01/14
Right, I'm adding this note because I want to ensure that I am clear... I am not looking for friendship, I am looking for real life encounters leading to relationships. I am not prepared to compromise with the age-old "Let's be friends..." or to only play part off what someone wants. For example, I'm not going to entertain being rejected after we meet for a date, but then be strung along or teased with the prospect of "here's what you could have won, had you have been better looking" or whatever. What I AM offering here - and the whole reason I joined the site - is myself as a true lifestyle Dom and ALL that goes along with it,whether that's 24/7 Ds or Gorean style, or if is just in the bedroom, whatever.
OK... On with the show...
Hi folks, I have just joined as I thought it was time to put things into action. I am a successful person who owns his own business. Having been a member of another similar site to this since 2000, I know what I am looking for.
I have been in and out of LTRs over the years and those encounters which entailed Ds and Bondage were the only ones I enjoyed. Like many of us on here, I am programmed this way and I simply cannot thoroughly enjoy romance and intimacy if it is without. Previous vanilla relationships have left me cold. And I know what I want, so I am going to look for it until I find it.
I have experience in a number of areas within this style. I have studied the psychology of Bondage in a pragmatic and methodological way, making sure that I totally understand the simple things like types and applications of restraint, how to please and train, but more importantly, how to be a proper lover from all aspects and how different types of Bondage and Domination affect each other from both a Dominant and Submissive role.
What I am looking for is an attractive Submissive who is younger than I am who would aim towards a long-term relationship. Someone to share the normality that life throws our way, with the needed inclusion of all things kinky behind closed doors. I prefer someone who has intelligence to hold good conversation, but don't worry - I talk enough to fill awkward silences. I've dabbled in pain as part of my research, although it isn't at the top of my list. I am an open book with blank pages which are to be filled with shared ideas about a future with the right person.
Having been a member of similar sites for years and having little luck with meeting like-minded and compatible people I have joined this site as it is more focused on the UK, whereas the former covers the globe. If I manage to find, meet and build something with someone special then that will be fantastic. If not, I'll most likely stay single, rather than go down a vanilla route again.
Outside of all of this, I am a multi-skilled academic and artistic creative sort. I play the piano, drums, sing and play some guitar. I compose all types of music and am a professional photographer (which is my full-time self-employed job).
EMAILING & REPLYING
So, if you like what you read and see, and would like to initiate a chat please do get in touch. If I have emailed you, please reply - even if it's a quick 'not interested, thanks' effort. I'd rather know that you've read the email rather than not know and sit pondering. It only takes a second. And I will answer ALL emails sent to me.
See you on the other side,
Jon.
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Well this week has been quite interesting. I went to Exodus in Birmingham on Wednesday and had a three hour sensory deprivation session in the cellar. This involved being spred-tied to a table and blindfolded and earplugged and then left there. It was good, but I'll be wanting to go further into Subspace next time.
Tonight I have aso been back to Exodus for the party. Met loads of interesting folks and had a good time. Taught some rope tricks to a few people, discussed sensory deprivation with others. Great place to play :) |
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Has anyone noticed there are a LOT of fakers on this site? There are whole bodies of text that have been duplicated in other sites and from different parts of the world, with the same user photos. There are also lots of telltale signs that many are most likely managed by the same group of people.
Things you should NEVER do...
1: Give out any personal details especially banking items.
2: Sign up to other sites upon request of an other individual. And this includes Dommes who contact you insisting you pay for profiles on other sites. I have seen sites that are made to be very similar in appearance to an official site, but paying gets you nothing but lost fees and your banking info given to the seller.
3: Initialte conversation trust by taking a photo of yourself holding a piece of paper with the person you wish to chat with's name written on it. If someone wants to chat with you, or you want to chat with them, it's a simple exchange. You should never have to prove you are real. If you have a legitimate profile then you should be OK. If the person you asked to talk to tries to get you jumping through hoops to prove you are real, walk away. This also includes when a Dom advises that you are a 'Bad Sub for not obeying requests'.
Also: the vast majority of fake profiles are in the form of Dom/Domme/Top positions. they will try and entice submissives to engage with them. If a Top Female contacts a Sub man, he may start thinking with his c**k and follow everything they ask. |
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Right, I'm adding this note because I want to ensure that I am clear... I am not looking for friendship, I am looking for real life encounters leading to relationships. I am not prepared to compromise with the age-old "Let's be friends..." or to only play part off what someone wants. For example, I'm not going to entertain being rejected after we meet for a date, but then be strung along or teased with the prospect of "here's what you could have won, had you have been better looking" or whatever. What I AM offering here - and the whole reason I joined the site - is myself as a true lifestyle Dom and ALL that goes along with it,whether that's 24/7 Ds or Gorean style, or if is just in the bedroom, whatever. |
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