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Llyren
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Im a 30 year old Dominant man from NYC. At the moment, though, Ive moved to Virginia. Christiansburg specifcally. I like to laugh about life and take in each new day as a new experience. Im not a smoker, I only drink socially (mainly after I learned to bartend) and Ive never and will never do drugs. I recently decided to start dating again, but with my Dominant nature looking for what I wanted was tough. Ive always had a Dominant nature in regards to women but the way I was raised was that I should be respectful to them. It was quite a dichotomy in my mind and always made me feel bad when some of my more sadistic thoughts came to mind.It wasnt until later in life and actually speaking to some women that I was put more at ease. Just because a woman is submissive doesnt mean I cant respect them. Especially since I regularly respect things that I cant do. Women and childbirth? Much respect. Would I ever want to? Not as much!So when it came to start looking for a partner in life... it became tough. How would you know to bring up a question such as So, might you be submissive? or Have you ever enjoyed a good spanking? after a number of dates?But then I discovered this place. And it was here that I found a place where I could talk to and expand my mind with like-minded people. It was also here that I discovered that there are subs or slaves out there who are looking for what I am.Im open minded about most things but my main hard limits are blood play and permanent damage. These are things that I just cant bring myself to do. Also Im not into polyamory as Im really a 1 on 1 kind of guy. Im not just looking for sex and Im not just get into some womans pants. Im sure theyre lovely pants but Im interested in the everything surrounding and including said pants. Besides, Im pretty sure I wouldnt fit in them.Id like to find a sub or slave whos interested in building a relationship. Hopefully a long term one. I believe that submission is not something given easily. It requires trust. And that trust is only built over time.Past that, I like to think of myself as versatile I can be gentle and I can be rough. I love to speak soothing words and I can definitely be brash. Im a gentleman and yet I have quite a sadistic streak.Id like to find a sub thats not that much older than me. For a long term relationship Id like her to be no older than 40. Barring that Im open to all races. Whether she be experienced or new to BDSM I have no problem with. Even when we know a lot we still learn with each new person we meet.The main thing Id like to stress, though, is no matter what roles my potential partner and I might play or what I might say or do to her, in my heart Id still care for and respect you. Mainly because this is what you want and that youd trust me that much to give it to you. How can I not respect that much faith and trust?So, Im hoping to find somebody for a long term relationship. Heres hoping I can find her here!
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Ugh. It's one thing to be sick.
It's a worse thing to get sick while having a job.
If my body wasn't aching so much I'd hit it.
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Sincerity.
How does one really show it online? I know the phrase is 'You don't say it, you show it' but that doesn't necessarily work when you can't see the other person.
So the only thing we have, really, is our word. But when you have smooth operators, weirdos and jerks going around how can you prove you're not just one of the rabble? I'm curious to hear from people.
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Time for a State of the JB address:
Things are going somewhat well still! Job's going good, they seem to really like my work ethic. Still have to hit the real estate place to put the condo on the market.
And just like everybody else is doing:
http://.com/sit_on_santas_lap
Check it out check it out!
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Ah, snow. We're supposed to be getting some epic snowfall tonight and tomorrow. Glad I got the next two days off.
Luckily I'm all stocked up and have the next two days off.
Also dropped something nice and heavy on my foot at work. Thankfully I had my boots on and two pairs of socks so nothing's broken. Kinda wish it would've fallen on the steel toe part of my boot!
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I think it might be time to bid adieu to the ol' Boogie Down Bronx.
I was born and raised here, and I love it to death, but man.
There's ass all in terms of job opportunities and all the fun people and events happen further in the city.
I'm thinking about moving to Queens! Manhattan's too expensive and I like Queens more than Brooklyn.
So, perhaps a move is in my future! I'd have to get started on selling my condo, first, though.
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So, last night I went to my first munch with the TES/TNG group. It was pretty fun! It was cool meeting new people and talking about kink.
After eating we all headed over to Paddles, where I've never gone before. It was pretty interesting. I saw some new spanking techniques and the various playings I saw were pretty hot. I think it kind of cemented, though, that I'm more of a do-er and less of a voyeur. I was really wishing I had somebody with me there.
Well, here's hoping for next time!
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I have to say that things lately have been pretty good!
I've got a roof over my head, I've got a good job with benefits and the weather's been pretty good lately.
Now if I can find a partner things would be perfect. (Well, maybe not perfect but close to it.)
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A message to some of the 'gentlemen' on this site:
I've noticed a trend here as well as on other dating sites about how some things seem to be 'done'. And it's because of this that some women don't seem inclined to respond back, even when they're not interested. Well, I have a tip for you.
If your first inclination is to shoot off a scathing reply to a woman if they say they're not interested or don't reply to you: STOP BEING SUCH A FUCKING DUMBASS. Yes, I italicized *and* underlined that so you'd pay attention. Not only are you being stupid and ruining your chances (even ignoring the fact that your attitude does that well enough) you're ruining it for other people as well. If the latter is not your goal, change your damn ways. If it is, do something more productive like slamming your face into a wall.
You need to understand that a woman not liking you is *not* a strike against whatever you call your masculinity. People have their different tastes. Some are more varied than others. You are *not* going to necessarily change this and attempting to do so will only lead to aggravation on all parties.
Seriously. Grow a thicker skin and just move on. There's some people on this site who's actually looking for something and it doesn't help if you make other people so jaded in even trying.
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So, my first day on CollarMe.
I have to say this place seems really interesting. And somewhat exciting. I hope I'll have some luck in what I want.
Some of my friends say I'm full of contradictions.
I'm a highly sexual person, yet I don't sleep around with any and everybody.
I have a highly kinky mind, yet am looking for a long term relationship and not one night stands.
I treat women with respect, yet I can think of some *really* interesting things to do in bed.
Now, are these necessarily contradictions? No, I don't think so. I think it just makes me unique. And, hopefully, something a submissive woman would be into.
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