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| Instant Submission is like instant oatmeal, quick convenient and bland.. It taste so much better if you take the time to cook the real thing... (I CAME, I COOKED, I CONQUERED! HAVE WHAT I WANT... and got it my way!) Attractive, well toned trim body, 36D with brains too. My frontal lobes are bigger and more beautiful than my frontal globes...... ** I am creative, socially adept, a sophisticated New York City woman in search of my male counterpart for a complete relationship based in power exchange. Your location, though relevant, is less important than your heart felt desire to develop a lasting bond with the right woman. ....Absolute Sexual Obedience, the strict enforcement of rules by means of corporal punishment are key elements... Mutual respect, Mutual trust, Mutual love given one to the other in equal measure are essentials for the success of a genuine D|S partnership.... No doormat here! Not the fawning obsequious slave type.. ..Healthy self-esteem, pride in who I am, underlie my gregarious outgoing nature. ....I prefer an active life, love to travel and have the time to do it.. .. .. .. .. ..I am the quintessential emotionally submissive woman, so PLEASE do not approach with "permission" for anything, no orders or instructions or tests; Do not take a dominant tone with me; It offends me from strangers... I will only submit to the One Man willing to prove himself. He will introduce himself politely as a gentleman should... he will take the time to know me, to earn my admiration and trust.. he will speak to me with the same egalitarian respect he would show his sister, a co-worker or his best friend's wife... In other words, simply stated, he will show himself to be an ego-healthy, naturally dominant male ....You are SINGLE, emotionally available, mature- minimum age 56- late 50's to early 60's ideal. Must be in good health with a youthful spirit.. be a natural loving dominant who revels in the responsibilities the privilege of control confers- be intelligent, educated, successful as I am, HEIGHT-WEIGHT PROPORTIONATE and in decent shape as I am, HEALTHY NON-SMOKERS ONLY AND THAT INCLUDES CIGARS, ...I will request a photo if your letter and profile appeals to me; if you are not willing to comply, do not bother to write to begin with.... NO PLAYERS! I do not do casual sessions, no one night stands or worse- a string of one nighters pretending to be a relationship. I do not accept "friend" requests from anyone, even if I am interested in you. Same goes for Chat requests: I just don't have the time. ,,,No cyber play, no phone sex, NO MARRIED-ATTACHED-SEPARATED MEN.. No Couples, No poly, No switching, No submissive men, NO YOUNGER MEN; 56 plus only, No TV/TS/TG. No bikers, No hardcore conservatives, libertarians or religious fanatics.
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Gentlemen... In the spirit of accurate representation I must inform all, I have taken out my nipple rings... permanently....
..........I am so busy with the holidays, I probably will not get to it for a while... but I will post a new photo without the rings soon.
....I am constantly assaulted by egotistical narcissists who insist the current photo is not representational... Letters like this always come from men that do not meet my requirements. I can only assume- they see the photo, it turns them on, they read the post, realize they do not have a chance... so they get angry!!??! This is a recent letter I received from id "NewYork" .............
....""Are you for real? That is some of the dumbest bullshit I've ever read. That isn't even your photo, is it? If it IS, it has got to be 20 years old!""
........And here is another sicko.. out of the blue.. from NotThisAgain, ....."Can always tell the desperate old ladies...with 20 year old photos. Oh...and your comments about 'frontal globes'...hilarious. Uneducated tramp..."
I am convinced this is the same guy with a different ID.. from NoWayToday ......."'frontal lobes'? What a complete idiot. And if you are posting a photo that old, in complete denial. What a creepy old lady..."
What is wrong with this sick puppy??
He is not the only ego-challenged abuser who sends me hostile mail ,,, so in the hopes of minimizing the BS, I will take the new photo with a current Time magazine..
Happy Holidays to all! |
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Gentlemen: this entry use to be at the end of my journal entries but I am moving it up because so many do not read all the way through..
I continue to have to argue this point!!??
My profile states clearly: I will not ask for a photo unless your letter and profile appeals to me, but If I do and you are not willing to comply, don't bother to write to begin with.. What may not be clear is you must send the photo HERE... I will not give you private contact info until I am sure I wish to continue getting to know you!
I am looking for a REAL TIME partner... You know and I know, without the potential for physical chemistry nothing can progress beyond platonic friendship. Whether you like it or not, there are far more active men on this site than submissive women. By demanding your way or the highway you shoot yourself in the foot; The next 10 guys will be glad to send that photo...
If you are one of those types who think this is all about YOU, so the woman's needs are immaterial, you are not my type anyway, don't bother reading the rest.. ..............Otherwise look at it this way.. ...Women really need to protect themselves. The M O of a predator is no photos, telephone numbers that only go to voice mail, nothing to identify him later after he leaves you tortured to death in a parking lot!!! (a little dramatic but not completely unrealistic)... The point is, by refusing to send photos you raise a red flag.. you appear to have something to hide... not a good way to start a relationship that requires ultimate trust...
Maybe you have a genuine reason to protect your identity.. maybe you are a Hollywood star, a Talking Head, a CIA agent, a Senator, Bill Gates or Clark Kent... I can respect that!!! ...so use my method. Send a full length photo with your face blurred out, your head cropped off or your back turned to the camera... A good set of male buns is always a turn on, but keep your cock in your pants- XXX rated is not necessary- PG is fine.. At least I will get a general view of your appearance and style and I might be willing to move forward.
BTW:**.. I have a thing for George Carlin, Robin Williams, Bill Maher, Sean Connery, Richard A Clarke, Sir Richard Branson, and Patrick Stuart... if any of you are out there please write!!.. ( but send a photo with today's NY Times, cookies and a glass of milk, so I know it is really you)
Ok, I confess ..my humor is a bit wry... regardless... PLEASE... stop the critiques in response to my request for a photo.. If you will not send one to get things started.. PLEASE ..just go away!
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What is it about this site? In the last few months I have gotten more letters from religious conservatives than I have ever received on any other site???
If you believe male dominance is mandated in the bible or the qu'ran- if you believe all men are dominant and all women submissive- PLEASE do not write to me! I do not want to waste my time or yours... If religion dominates your life, you are too weak to dom me... |
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I knew I would get plenty of comments about the face hair rant (see entry below), but I did not expect so many would take it soooooooo seriously???... Come on guys!!??? Where is your sense of humor??? ...First LAUGH, then get serious! How can anyone think I would actually reject someone solely on face hair??? LMAO it's a minor glitch at best!
Please reel in your ego... it is not about YOU and your fuzzy upper lip!!, It is about ME.. Instead of taking it personally, think to yourself, this woman is self-aware, can laugh at her own quirks, and has enough self-confidence to admit she has a few human foibles!!!! |
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Another Dissertation ..or My Admitted Mental Disconnect with Face Hair.. or My Public Confession
Here it is! I have an irrational prejudice against mustaches! Long hair and full beards do not do well with me either, but the mustache seems to bring out a special, unfair, self-defeating response that isn't brought out by any other hairy frippery.. I never met a mustache that I like! ...Here is the weirdest part.. well trimmed goatees are fine??????
This is how the problem manifests itself... I get a nice letter from that rare man who seems to meet my basic requirements. He is the right age, single, a non-smoker, in decent shape- seems educated, writes well, is polite... so I scroll down to view the photo he has sent... and WAAPP!! there it is! The Mustache! it does not matter the color shape or size... It is THERE and it is all I can see... I start fantasizing about tying him up while he sleeps, lathering his face and taking a razor to it... I become obsessed with the thought that if only I could succeed in ridding this man of that funny thing across the middle of his face he will be perfect for me!!... kind of like kissing a frog who just might turn into a prince...
I KNOW it is TOTALLY ridiculous to judge a man on his face hair, BUT I DO! .... I KNEW John Bolton couldn't possible be a good diplomat the moment I saw his photo!!!!!... I don't know why.. I was not traumatized as a child by a handlebar, nor attacked in an ally by a mutton chop! And NO.. Santa Clause didn't disappoint me...
So why... why this attitude?? ... Maybe it is not a prejudice against anything... Maybe it is a fetish for clean shaven faces??
I am writing this as a form of therapy.. as repentance.. :-) ..so please, if you are reading this and you have a Mustache, don't send me hostile email.. just tell me you want me so much you will shave for me. |
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A Dissertation on Immature Childish Boys of all Ages....
This happens to me all the time: Even though he does not come close to fitting my stated requirements, a guy writes suggesting we are a good match..???..???... I tell him "no thank you", and point out why. (he smokes- he is too young-he is married--- whatever!!)
Then I get these really childish responses putting me down, calling me names or saying he wasn't really interested anyway.... LMAO... that behavior is so adolescent!!
Here is an example of a letter I got today...A Dom who likes to think of himself as a Father Figure, actually a 36 year old boy, is turned down because he is way too young for me ...then he sends this response...
" way to keep an open mind you dunce.....lol"
This is one of the milder ones, but even this makes him look like a childish narcissistic moron, proving I was right to reject him in the first place..
A mentally healthy, naturally dominant man does not have these kind of ego problems...
And how about this one? this one (spanker66) is a real sick puppy...
"omg, 50 fucking years and think still fuckable damn it just die bitch"
This one is the psychotic type... and they abound here...
Do the so called Doms in question remind you of you?? if so, you should really do some self examination before you dump your issues on someone else, making a fool of yourself... |
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ok... I am going to give you all a clue... calling me little one- submissive one- subbie- dear one... pet... or anything of the like... speaking in the third person or any reference to Gor- signing your emails "master" "sir" "lord" all gets the same response from me... "DELETE" ... it is all so patronizing and disingenuous... dare I say nescient!
READ my profile... READ it carefully- and use your head! ...the one on your neck! |
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Gentlemen
I do not have time to respond to the overwhelming number of "nipple" compliments... so I will just say thank you here.
IWillC |
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| Age: 25 |
| Zamboanga city,
Philippines |
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