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Istigkeit

I am going to try to keep this short and sweet, stripped of all BS and outlining only the most pertinent information.

1st: I am in an open relationship. It's important to get that out on the table right off the bat.  You needn't ever speak to my primary partner if you don't want to... but I probably won't respect you very much if you don't at least introduce yourself to her.

2nd: I am not really a submissive by nature. Quite the contrary. I am resistant to even the perception of authority or control. This is a personality flaw that I wish to correct (as it has caused me much more harm than good). That is why I am here. I expect it to be a bit of a process, but I feel it is extremely important to my personal development.  Honestly, I'm not entirely sure that I can be submissive, but I'd certainly like to find out.  I think that maybe I need to be broken.

3rd: I am bisexual, but I seriously doubt my ability to submit to a male at this time, so am only actively seeking female Dommes. Maybe that will change at some date, but probably not any time soon.

4th: I am not looking for a strictly sexual relationship. In fact, sex need not be a factor at all. I am merely seeking to cultivate the mental/emotional capacity for submission in myself.

That should about do it by way of introduction, for now.  I hope those 4 points are at least enough to detract those who have no viable reason for contacting me from contacting me.  Then again, I realize that there is no entrance exam for accessing the internet... so I'll refrain from futile optimism on that point.

Of course, if you want to know more, you need only ask.
8/15/2009 11:49:54 PM
I haven't been on this site in so long.  I had actually forgotten about it.  I apologize profusely to the few that I have been delayed in responding to, and even more profusely to any that may have been automatically deleted while sitting idly in my inbox.  I didn't ignore you intentionally.  I simply never saw your messages.  My most sincere apologies to you all.
sexygail1988
 
 Age: 24
  Tennessee