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Hetero Male Master, 48,  YORK, United Kingdom
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The VERY IMPORTANT things you need to know


I am a wheelchair user, not confined to it, I can and do walk all be it short distances, reason for this, born with Spina Bifida, look it up if youre interested, I do have scars from surgery over the years and I am overweight therefore far from a hunk, my body is reflective of its journey in life. Secondly i am married, for those who are curious, she is perfectly able bodied and therefore does not have a disability. Unfortunately she does not share my interests and we both accept that, yes I do know that these two factors alone will deter a whole bunch of people, thats OK, just do not judge me or try to second guess me.

I adore pretty lingerie but I do have a tights fetish too, I adore a slave who wears tights everyday of her slavery, wear tights and you will have my heart.

Additionally I have a dirty sweaty knickers fetish, I love to see worn dirty knickers on you

You must be open and willing to give me as much control as possible. I want to own your mind, body, Please understand I am very GENUINE and NOT here to waste your time or mine and to enter such a relationship you must have the time for very regular meets which must be based on mutual consent and trust, openness and progressiveness. I am seeking only ONE female to own completely.

I am in my 50s but I will not declare an age range but if you are under 35 its likely I will be too old for you and you must be mentally mature, your vaginal area completely unshaven and clothes size unimportant.

I am looking to meet in person as soon as practical, therefore you must live within easy travel distance not more than 100 miles of York unless your especially special, and you must be willing to welcome me into your home, I cannot accommodate. NON SMOKER PREFERRED

The following should give you an indication of the types of play I would enjoy

Sitting at my feet naked

Clothing control and restrictions, tights must be worn most times

Your nudity or semi nudity in the car whilst I drive

Breast Bondage,Tit,Thigh slapping, heavy bruising

Vaginal Fisting and Insertions,Speculum
Vibrators, Dildos, Wands

Nipple Pulling, Twisting, Pegs, Clamps. Bruising

Lactation, breast pumps, nipple stretching, milk production using Fenugreek capsules

Labia - Pegs, Clamps, Pulling, Spreading, king,Slapping

Oral - Giving, Receiving

Food Play, Eating from your body

Ankle, Wrist Cuffs


Writing and colouring your body with felt tips penspermanent marker pens including top of legs thigh area.

Finally chat on this site does not work for me. Message me on here initially.

You can also contact me please ask for details should you prefer other options.


Blank or hidden profiles will not attract a response of any kind, I will also ignore messages that do not contain a pic if your profile is devoid of one, additionally MEN go straight to bulk mail and get deleted.











Last Online:


 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 7"

 80 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:


 Body Worship

 Breast Play




 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Getting)

 Orgasm Denial

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions



 Anal Play


 Canes and Crops


 Corner Time


 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Masks (On Partner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Obedience Training


 Vacuum Stimulation






 Electrical Play

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap





 Wax play

 Curious About:

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

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Journal Entries:
4/11/2018 9:19:48 AM
It's not a case of me finding you, it's a case of you finding me, as I quietly peruse profiles

4/2/2018 1:53:18 AM
Happy Birthday to me, 49yrs, where have I been lol

3/27/2018 1:12:53 PM
So, now I've got gout, lol..too much healthy living

3/9/2018 12:35:18 AM
Actually got my PSA test results back today and it appears to be very normal @1.37..last week it was 7.8, how they can differ so wildly I've no idea

3/8/2018 12:28:31 AM
PSA blood test today, results next week... I guess we will see what's going on

3/5/2018 8:09:01 AM
Sigmoidoscopy now completed, hurrah. It appears I'm fine, well in that dept at least. One more hurdle PSA level test and hopefully all will be good....fingers crossed

2/26/2018 10:56:25 PM
I made an entry in my journal yesterday which is now removed. It attracted some engagement with a interesting, intelligent, articulate,calm and sincere individual, you know who you are. The individual raised some points and issues that we all know exist if we were honest enough to admit. So thank you for that engagement, you didn't rant, you weren't dismissive. By the way ladies who class themselves as slaves or submissive be careful, you truly don't know who anyone is until you meet them. Be safe be careful but have fun

1/13/2018 1:27:34 AM
Here we are January 2018 and I am already finding new profiles from individuals becoming more absurd, the sublime has gone and the ridiculous is certainly here. Why is it that people cannot be realistic, be real, genuine who knows but perhaps the fact that they cannot indicates in some how the lives they live in the real world unfold. I suspect each and every one of you embellish stories to make the more interesting. The problem is most people can see right through you and know exactly what a unrealistic story teller you really are. I cannot wait for February, only time will tell what that will be like on collarspace, but I expect more stupidity and more fantacists appearing all not credible all lying. Be safe folks, have fun but be safe

12/28/2017 1:15:26 AM
You know I have been asked numerous times "what does regular meets mean"? Well that's an interesting but really also a stupid question, however I will endeavour to answer it for the sake of clarity. Regular means a constant defined pattern, regular can be monthly, weekly or daily. In fact any recurring pattern of time or event can be defined as regular. Glastonbury festival is a regular event, once a year generally with the odd year off but it is still regular because everyone knows it is coming along. It's generally a once a year event but it is regular. So what do I mean by regular, I mean recurring meets at a time suitable to both parties, be it a month, a week or any other time derivative that is acceptable to both parties. Forgive me if I sound like a impossible pompous twit but these things have to be said, so please don't be offended by this entry if it's a question you would ask.

12/28/2017 1:02:30 AM
Well here we are 2018 fast approaching, hopefully for me 2018 will be different, better, more fulfilling. To all the genuine submissives and slaves who are wanting a sub/Dominance relationship and are tired of time wasters don't you think you owe it to yourself to contact me? Why? Because I am genuine, completely, utterly genuine. Try me, come chat with me but be open and honest, no lies or deceit they cause harm in the long run, be frank about your limits. If your profile mentions the word fantasy then that is realistically the only thing you are seeking, a fantasy, nothing real, nothing that will make demands on you or your time, nothing that will push you. Fantasies are safe, a figment of our imaginations, no risk, no purpose. Therefore if your profile does mention fantasy please, please don't contact me you will ultimately be wasting my time, time that could be spent chatting to a realist. If you are the sort of person that blows hot then cold, constantly back tracks then do me and the site a favour, go somewhere else to waste time, you are potentially a dangerous individual who doesn't know her own mind therefore cannot possibly consent to anything. I am not difficult to get a long with, in fact I'm very patient so long as I see some progress on progress being made. And what is the obsession with women shaving their cunt? Seriously I like a adult female to look like an adult female, it's a beautiful thing so can some of you re-think about the automatic default to shave. Not all Dominants like it.

12/9/2017 7:45:13 AM
2018 is almost among us, I'm hoping it will be much more fruitful than in the past. A slave is proving very elusive, people introduced themselves then disappear. Strange really that they show initial interest then disappear, I can only assume that alcohol is present when contact is made then in the cold day of soberness they realise that they may have made a mistake which is a shame. For those that might be interest I reiterate I am genuine, not a time waster and actively seeking so come on please introduce yourself and let's start chatting

11/6/2017 11:25:54 AM
I thought my profile was very clear, it states the type of female I'm looking, it states my interests. I would have thought it was simple but I'll try and spell it out: Male late 40s seeking female slave who shares some or all of my interests. See it is clear after all

10/29/2017 1:35:17 PM
2018 is fast approaching, 2017 wasn't full of promise, at least not so far. Very little 2017 is left so I don't expect my fortunes to change. Never mind, I've recently revamped my profile it may bring something positive to me, here's hoping. So what do I expect to happen in 2018 on the slave front? Well nothing actually. Maybe I can be proved wrong, perhaps 2018 can be my year after all, only time and patience will tell. I'm not giving up though, someone out there must want a genuine Master who has the time for her, if that's you get in touch, sooner rather than later

10/2/2017 9:23:24 AM
You know it is kind of funny, when I first came to this site after informed consent closed down I genuinely thought that I would find a genuine slave who is willing to engage with me with a view to full, utterly complete ownership.

How wrong I was, this place is full of fakes, wannabees, or simply those not knowing what they really want. All ultimately time wasters.

I don't understand why it is so difficult to find a slave, yes I have mitigating factors on my profile that will inevitably put people off, we all have, but I can live with that.

One commodity in life is in very short supply, what is that? well simply, it is time. We cannot slow it or stop it or buy more of it and we certainly don't have enough of it to do all the things we might want to do in life.

Nobody knows how long we have on this planet, but in the scheme of things it is never very long, buildings have lasted far longer than any human being has or will.

People seemingly yearn to be controlled, to be a slave, to give themselves completely in the pursuit of their own happiness but rarely does this seem to happen.

Maybe people are weary of people but if you are not willing to at least make yourself available and have dialogue and get to know how someone ticks how are you going to know if something can work out or not.

Perhaps its the fact I am a wheelchair user that puts people off, at least I have been honest about that as I have about my marriage, I am as I have said in my profile very genuine, I'm not playing at this, having a slave rely on someone is not a game, its very serious with very serious implications.

So my search continues and will continue, I have no intention of giving up, Dominance is in me, control is me, all part of my genetic makeup.

Therefore, if and I do mean IF my profile does interest and you are genuinely seeking complete and utter ownership then please message me here initially, provide with a email address if you want to but please be willing to communicate freely and at all times.

10/31/2015 11:10:02 PM
My profile is a true and honest representation of me and my particular situation and back ground and intentions, I have been open, honest and up front about my status, I do not deny I am married, I'm not hiding that fact until the very last minute, sadly that cannot be said of all the profiles on here and that is for both men and women actually. Ultimately this domain is full of fakes, wannabes, fantasists all of who have distorted opinions and wouldn't know reality if they got smacked in the face with it. And maybe that's the problem here, maybe I should be deceitful, less honest after all that's what most profiles on this site are built on. Profiles that say I'm a no limit this or no limit that or send me humiliating messages is nothing less than pure fantasy and at best are clearly stupid and pointless, please go find somewhere else to waste your time in a more constructive manner. I think it is true to say that most people with a profile on here have no real intention to physically meet anyone, why?, well because it then becomes real. It stops being a fantasy, you all of a sudden realise that you cannot hide behind your computer, he or she is actually going to see you physically, right there warts and all it becomes scary and right there at that point where you back out, delete your profile, disappear, you become yet another time waster, frustrating the very people who have invested their very good time trying to get to know you because they had genuine intentions and were willing to do the foot work in reaching you. I am homest on my profiles, So please do not crticise me, leave this domain and cure your boredom in a more constructive way, perhaps some voluntary work might be of more benefit to you and would give you some proper direction in life.

10/26/2015 5:58:41 AM
For those that are interested in knickers that have been genuinely squirted in I can recommend Slavebeads as being absolutely genuine, I have witness her long and truly wonderful squirts, genuinely a very wet lady, please visit her page on collarspace

10/2/2015 6:55:56 AM
Currently formulating a slave contract, As a Master, this is the way I want to go. If this interests any slave please contact me immediately expressing your interest

9/2/2015 2:29:54 PM
I do wonder if anyone is really genuine on here.. I read profiles that clearly are not realistic ....I find it intriguing really..all I can assume by those profiles is that they need the help of a mental health crisis is anyone genuine? So far it appears not

5/5/2015 5:08:56 AM car ordered today.....

4/2/2015 2:15:28 AM
Happy Birthday to me...happy birthday to me....oh crap I'm 46 Lol.....and still no submissive in my life lol

3/29/2015 9:19:50 AM
Sorry guys ....but another small rant coming.....why...oh people put on their profiles "say hello" or something similiar ? Because when you do try and be friendly by saying hello they ignore you.....we live in a strange world

3/3/2015 3:08:29 AM
It constantly amazes how many people like to waste not only their own time but my time too. Why do I find myself engaged in conversation with individuals who have no intention of meeting anyone let alone me. Is it the fantasy, narcistic world they live in that drives them or, too much time on their hands that they feel the need to waste, when, it ought to be put to some constructive use. Whatever the cause is, I find it nothing but an irritant. I have the good grace not annoy people with pointless chat requests or mailings that would lead to no where. Please have the same respect for me, I am a GENUINE, GENUINE. Please be the same. And if you do contact me with good honest intentions, give things a chance, you CANNOT judge someone by mailing or chatting in this place we call cyber, you miss all the nuances of real conversation and body language leading to the percievement of misunderstanding and therefore things going no further, a loss for both sides. I will not chat about what may theoretically happy if we meet, it is so tedious, but for the elimination of doubt let me make it clear, first meet, coffee, perhaps lunch or dinner lots of chat, after that, well that's entirely up to your comfort radar. Be open, be warm, be welcoming in your approach. I know am, at least for now.

2/21/2015 1:11:55 PM
Lost a very dear friend to cancer only 61yrs...and just turned into a really isn't fare

2/19/2015 3:59:37 AM
Fantastic....I've got my home brew wine brewing and my beer...yippee

12/27/2014 8:11:43 AM
Don't you think Christmas is a funny time of year, take this as an example. People say "Oh don't be on your own Christmas Day or Boxing Day" Why do they say it? When for the other 363 days you are on your own. Do they seriously think that two days of company makes amends for the rest of the year when you are left alone ? for me no thanks....another 48 hours of loneliness makes no difference to the other 363 days. Or maybe I'm just a miserable git.

11/19/2014 7:25:36 AM
Why do people insist in wasting the time of others, making arrangements they have no intention of following through on, what is worse is not having the basic human decency not to tell me.

I get wiser by the hour

11/18/2014 10:57:43 PM
Any females want to try my new collar and cuffs I just bought ?

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