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Experienced Male looking for new sub or slave for a full time live in situation. I have trained, and used subs and owned slaves and cuck couples over the years. I am looking for real time but online will be fine until the relationship develops. If I forget that weve spoken or that I sent a message weeks or months ago, cut me some slack. I get many messages and Im human and forget things. No offense intended.
I am also experienced at and enjoy full online relationships and offer online training as well if that is your desire. Note that this is ONLY for those looking for an online dynamic, this does not change my search for a real time live in.

Having been in this lifestyle for several years and guiding, mentoring and training many, I am looking for serious females and couples for a deep connection. I have a live in situation available either for training or long term submission. Training always available in TPE, TIH and 1950s Household, also very interested in Cuck and Slave Couples but not exclusively.

While it is not for everyone and NEVER A REQUIREMENT, those looking for heavy impact play, bondage and more extreme dynamics are always welcome and I have the knowledge, experience, desire and the tools to satisfy any level you may desire.

Please ask anything, I am open to discuss your use, needs and how we can satisfy your darkest desires. I have seen it all, you will not shock me with anything so please be upfront and describe your needs.

Happy to share pictures privately once we chat.

Submission is always earned, never given.

Discretion is guaranteed.

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11/13/2022 12:11:32 PM
If you don't build a relationship that is authentically you, you'll eventually allow yourself to burn it to the ground.

How many relationships have crumbled because one or both people in them weren't actually committed?

Start with YOU. Not the image of what you think you want, or the image of what you think others want in you.
But the reality of who you are.

As you begin to fully understand who you are, what your true needs, desires and limits are, that you'll be closer to knowing what you need to build on and you can have the trust that it will remain.

You'll have the tenacity to stick with it, and the passion to grow it.

If you'll do YOU. Then, you can do anything you want.
I'd be more than happy to help you along the way!

12/28/2021 7:56:46 PM

Sex without Orgasm.

When we focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal, reaching a truly orgasmic state rarely happens. That highly aroused, super horny, primal state where the sexual energy is exploding inside you. That state disappears quickly once we experienced the release of orgasm.

Don’t get rid of that sexual energy. Use it, let it build and then just like edging during masturbation, back off and stay on the mountain top of pleasure. Choose not to cum. When you orgasm it is your body’s way of involuntary get rid of built up sexual tension. Stay with the sexual bliss, feel it, use the sexual energy, choose to control it as long as possible. 

Once you have experienced the endless waves of ecstasy and a more intimate, deeper connection to yourself, your body, and your partner, orgasm and ejaculation will no longer be the most important part of sex or the end goal. Pleasure can go on for hours. That amazing blissful feeling can stay with you even after sex and you can use that energy to become more present and powerful in every area of your life.

12/26/2021 10:54:14 AM

She’s caught between who she is and who she needs to be,,,

11/2/2021 2:50:50 PM

Back after trying to edit my profile, an entire year wasted. Still searching so come say hi.

1/17/2018 6:53:02 PM
Sorry guys but I have to vent,,,, I spent a good deal of time viewing a female submissive's profile and when I decided she and I shared some things I crafted a message. It took a while to think through and put together, trying to convey a little about me while not sounding like a pompous ass. I re-read it a couple of times and made a few changes and hit send. I received a rude and even hateful response belittling me for sending a copy and paste message that I surely send to hundreds of unsuspecting women every day. I was told my message was "too well rehearsed". I was told she didn't need any man and in fact was still single because she could not find a man who was worth her time. Her profile was created in September of 2015! 95% of the few messages I send are either ignored or I receive a friendly response either asking to talk more or kindly saying no thanks but every once in a while I run into some really hateful people that must hate their lives and try to make everyone else miserable as well. Anyway, thanks to everyone who responds, (trust me even a quick no thanks is appreciated) and it takes the same amount of time to be decent as it does to be hateful.

10/31/2017 4:35:53 PM
I need to rant,,,, as an experienced male in this lifestyle I try to draw out the person I'm talking to. I try to get to know them, their needs, desires and cravings. I spend as much time as possible simply communicating. So what is with the females that cuss you out and block you if you ask the wrong question??? I am not a mind reader and soooo many claim they are shy and won't talk, give one word answers, never open up, then call you stupid or a fake for asking the wrong question. COMMUNICATE PEOPLE!

10/2/2017 10:45:27 AM
Common sense just isn't common enough.

8/16/2017 6:59:56 AM
Hello beautiful ladies,,,, I would like to ask you NOT to lump all Dominant Men into one group. There actually are real, sane and experienced Dominants here that truly have a desire to nurture and care for the needs of Submissives. I know you run into fake "movie Dom's" all the time that think because they watched a few movies and like to scream at women they are suddenly experienced Dominants and it must be incredibly frustrating but try to remember you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Prince.

6/17/2017 1:18:07 PM
The scammers are out of control on here. Does anyone really pay them?

6/14/2017 5:36:13 PM
I continue to be amazed at the lack of respect many submissive women show. I had absolute hate spewed at me from a self proclaimed female slave with a paragraph of limits who by her own admission and even profile heading has never been collared. I had the gall to mention we talk online for a few days to get to know one another before flying to meet. Her profile stated she didnt do "the online thing" so she was absolutely livid that I didnt read her profile. After almost 20 years in this lifestyle that crap is hard to take from someone with a profile created 8 days ago.

6/8/2017 5:15:01 AM
If one more person tells me they need an Itunes gift card I'm going to lose my mind. Seriously? Stop buying these women shit and they'll go away and leave us alone.

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