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InvisibleLeash

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alildestiny
Seeking conversation with females (submissive, slave, switch) for now. Be direct, honest, open, dedicated, precise. Expect directness, openness, honesty, dedication and precision in return. Do not assume anything. For: 1. you are most likely wrong. 2. Assumption is the mother whore of all fuck-ups. There is only one stupid question: The un-asked. If you are uncertain, ask. If you do not ask but assume, stand in for the consequences. Be well educated, well mannered, well behaved. Be artistic (dance, paint, draw, write, craft… this is not a list of preference).
For “real”, I would only accept submissives. A slave commits. A submissive renews her submission over and over again, or bails. It is more challenging and so much more rewarding to keep a submissive.

The picture posted is one I found on the web. I find the fragile body formed and held by the corset exposed to harsh winter environment shows strength and will. This is what I see in Domination and submission: The strength to present this fragile and valuable being and accepting and valuing the given and treating and taking care of it in a way that nourishes growth.

I am not a big fan of physical punishment. For me D/s has to do more with intellect and choices we make, not with muscle. This does not exclude "impact play" for the purpose of the pleasure. It will never be extreme enough to bear witness for more than a few hours.

If you are male, move on (this includes f/m couples). If you need to be shared out, move on, this is not my thing. If you need the cane (crop etc.) in a brutal way (that leaves bruises for days) to get off, move on.

If you do not submit easily and lightly, say hello. If you are into bondage, say hello. If you are into sensory deprivation, say hello. If you are into latex say hello.
If you ad me to your favorites, send me a (intelligent) message and tell me what spiked your interest.
You are invited to make the first contact, if I spike your interest. Do not expect me to find you out there and read your mind without knowing you. This part is for later.

A bit more personal: European background, in Canada since seven years. English is not the first language (not an excuse, but an explanation for the one or the other weird sentence ;-) ).
After a few messages back and fourth, chat or messenger is a possibility. I will let you know when I think the time is right.
Do not push for getting a picture. I will share one when I see fit. Also, I will not push for a picture. You will share when you are comfortable with it.
Do not expect me to treat you like my slave / sub as long as you have not submitted. Do not expect me to treat you as my equal once you have submitted.
Do not ask me how you shall address me. This is only a title. Once I have proven to you that I am worth for you to consider to submit, you will find the appropriate title.
2/14/2012 5:56:08 PM

A slave submits primarily to her own nature… That she requires a material, extrovert focus for her submission, i.e. the dominant, does not alter the fact that on the spiritual level her submission is essentially introverted. One could say that through the dominant she submits to herself by proxy… Each makes the other possible, tied together as they are in symbiotic interdependence. — J. Mikael Togneri

10/30/2011 11:50:19 AM

Have been in initial contact with several "profiles" on here.

Not sure how many of these are NOT fakes. Not many.

My time is to precious to be wasted searching for the needle in the high stack looking at each straw.

I'll just be the magnet attracting the needle.

So if you are real, do not expect and wait for me to contact you. Do the first step.

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 Age: 25
 Any where, U.A.E.