|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Let Me start by stating that My goal is to earn your submission. To be clear the key word in that sentence is "earn". As a submissive your gift of submission to Me is precious and the process of giving it is respected.? I must put in the effort to earn your trust and respect in order to receive your gift.
My personality in the vanilla world is laid back and easy going. I am generous and helpful to everyone. My Dominant style is complicated. The base of My Dominance is based on the personal relationship that I establish with you.? And, that is whether you only become a friend or if we reach a more intimate level.? D/s in My opinion does not exist without a great friendship first.? So if you are here because you like what I have to say and you think that we are going to jump into a relationship based on a list of commonalities that you and I have - then you are mistaken.? Those commonalities - My preferences that you may have in common - is the menu on the outside of the establishment that helps you determine whether you want to dine there.? The atmosphere and service within are what make the difference.? I will do everything in My power to make you a steady customer.? your behavior within determines whether or not I refuse service to you.? So, friends first to create a mental chemistry.? This is for your benefit - I need to gain your trust to win you over.
?
So I could be described as a loving Dominant.? I am easy going and laid back.? But I know what I want.? I am confident and in control behind closed doors.? you have given Me that control over you in a willing surrender.? I have earned it.? I will work hard to keep it as I understand that I must continue to earn it as part of My responsibility in the relationship.? And your responsibility is equally important.? Work within the parameters of our agreed limits and provide the service that you desire to give to maintain My level of interest and happiness and your satisfaction of serving.? Being a loving Dominant does not mean that I am one way only.? This is where it gets complicated.? The loving part is the underlying base.? But the differences in a submissive's personality may dictate a path that may not look as loving.? Every person is different and therefore each relationship is different.? One size does not fit all.? If needed, I am very capable of pulling a submissive by the hair across My lap for a spanking - whether for pleasure or punishment (and there is a difference in intensity and technique).? That is not for all subs.? Only those that need that type of relationship.? I am a ritual person so I like the formality of Dom/sub when behind closed doors.? I am also very much into bondage.? I like a submissive to show respect in speech, stance, mannerisms, etc.? I enjoy having her present herself at the start of play as an appetizer to the meal about to be served.? I particularly love bringing pleasure to a submissive.? I will work hard to bring multiple releases for the pure enjoyment of watching her body writhe before Me in bonds that have her in vulnerable, exposed positions.? I will discuss anything that you would like to discuss.? Openness and honesty are critical to Me - especially since I love bondage.? Trust must be there when you tie someone up.? And let Me add that although I love bondage, it isn't bondage every time all the time.? Variety must be a part of any relationship lest you get bored and decide to move on.? Again, My work is always cut out for Me to keep you invested in the relationship.? And, so is yours.
?
Let Me get back to the subject at hand - you.? To remind you, I do not demand submission.? Receiving it by demanding it has absolutely no meaning or value to Me.? That, to Me, is selfish.? And if submission is given that way it would not be from the heart of the submissive?? Submission is a gift.? It also comes after a lot of contemplation by a submissive.? It must be right by her.? This is My philosophy in a nutshell.? If it interests you then I have put us on a path for the first step.? I have opened My doors to invite you to dine in My world.? Come have a seat and let's see if you like the establishment.
|
|
|
|
|
A little Friday fun.....something to think about this weekend.
I was given the option to use one of a sub's three holes. Which would I choose? That is a tough choice. The obvious is not always the answer so let Me examine this situation a little closer. We'll start by having you take off all your clothes and we're going to put you on this coffee table over here. Put your knees just past the edge of the coffee table and spread your legs wide. Now bend forward and place your forearms flat on the coffee table and don't move. I am going to stand behind you and "size up" the situation. Mmmmmm your ass looks so good. Raise it up as high in the air as you can. Higher. Obey. That's it, perfect. Now let Me see..... I need a closer look. I am going to spread your ass cheeks to view your anus better. Mmmmmm. Well, it may be virgin. Let Me lightly trace your pussy lips with My finger. Have you always had this problem with being wet? What's that? Only when you are ready to be fucked? That would make sense. Let Me kneel behind you and look even closer. When I press My thumb down on your anus does it hurt? No? Well, how about if I lightly run the tip of My tongue in circles around it? Let Me flick My tongue across it too as I slide one finger into your pussy and massage your G spot. Mmmmmm. This is pleasurable for Me. I like letting My tongue dance across your anus as I now am finger fucking you with two fingers and using My thumb to press on your clit. To be honest, I am now so confused on which hole to fuck. I think at the moment I have eliminated your mouth. So I am going to have to keep tonguing your anus and masturbating you for a long time. I may be stuck doing this until you have cum a few times. Now, don't move. I am coming to a decision. Yes. Yes. Yes. I am going to have to stand up and fuck your pussy as I finger fuck your ass. Decision made. Phew. That was tough. Now, let Me grab your hard and go for it. |
|
|
|
|
I have been asked what features are important to Me in a submissive. There is only one answer: your mind. That is what is most critical in any relationship but especially when I am in the care of the physical, emotional and psychological aspect of your submission. The vanilla world does not place as much emphasis on the mental aspects of a sexual session. your mind gets you in the moment. your mind takes you to subspace. your mind is the key to My ability to maintain control.
I would rather have imperfect with a great mind than perfect with nothing to offer mentally. I have enjoyed a variety of women over My life - all shapes, sizes and ethnicities. It has helped make Me what I am today. If you have issues with body image or don't feel that you are worthy in any way then let's talk about it. I may surprise you. All are welcome here and always will be. This is not a popularity contest nor a competition. This is Me and you forming a friendship and seeing what becomes of it. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
