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I've been curious for a while and I've decided it's time to stop limiting myself to porn & fantasies. I want to explore the lifestyle. I am steadily embracing who and what I am: a strong, intelligent, self-assured, self-sufficient, ambitious, talented, humorous, loving, loyal man. And a submissive.
I've felt the leaning toward sexual submission all my life, but only once have I ever really let a Woman have "the last word" in everything from how our sex life was going to go to what brand of cat food I should be purchasing. At the time, I didn't understand what was happening, I'd never heard of a Female Led Relationship - nor had She. We were young and mostly vanilla, after all. All I knew was that She was my heart & soul and Her every whim was my fondest desire, and trash-talking friends be damned!
Now I understand that my old flame simply had a naturally Dominant personality and once I fell in love with her, a silent and subtle shift toward obedience just came naturally to me. I signed up to CollarMe hoping to maybe find that sort of connection again, this time with eyes wide open and a much better understanding of what I want and why I want it.
I'm here to try to find the Woman of my dreams, someone who will take what I offer (in all aspects of life) and love me for it. Someone who fulfills me in turn. A 'realistic' 24/7 F/m relationship. I am certainly a novice to BDSM and "the scene", and as such there is a great deal of exploring to do. Which is to say that I'm not too particular about the minute details of what the sought after relationship might be, so long as She is deserving of the love, adoration and respect I have to give.
Naturally, She needs to be someone I can fall in love with, which means She needs to be:
- Intelligent
- Honest & trustworthy
- Willful
- Compassionate
- Passionate
- Self-assured
- Confident
- Understanding
- Attractive
- About my age or older, though were a younger Woman to display the qualities I'm interested in She would at least get my attention.
- Self-sufficient
- A music lover
- As hopeless (hopeful) a romantic as me
- Able to conduct Herself in such a way that I could introduce Her to my mother with confidence; i.e.:
- She's got to have common sense!
- Monogamy-friendly and commitment-minded
I think as long as most of those needs are met, sex/kink/etc. will sort themselves out as we get to know each other; though it would help for Her to be into some of my kinks, none of them trump the importance of a loving relationship founded on trust.
What do I have to offer? Well, I'm...
- Smart
- Funny
- Loyal
- A good conversationalist
- Honest
- Self-confident
- Family & Friends/Co-Workers -friendly
- Straight forward
- Protective
- I'm told I'm attractive
- Creative
- Ambitious
- Stable
- Employed and self-sufficient
- Respectful and well-mannered
- Modest...
...which makes it difficult to toot my own horn, so I can't think of any other adjectives with which to aggrandize myself.
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