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I am a dominant male seeking a sub female who has the same desire to explore her passions as I, while also sharing my desire for the exploration to augment my life, not interrupt it. Having had some experience as a Dom in the past, I know it is a world I want to explore further and one in which I can learn to be a good, caring Dom/Owner. I am not seeking a cheap meeting or just anyone. I have been wrongly paired before and it didn't work. I suppose, ideally, I am seeking a woman in the same situation as I - a secure marriage which nonetheless doesn't serve all of her needs to be a sub. I would like to explore the two of us completing the rest of that picture for one another.
[Additional profile info - I continue to refine the picture of what I seek and those who should seek me]
My ideal submissive is a professional woman with her own desires, ideas and competencies. She is not mindless. She will choose to be a submissive to me out of respect and mutual caring. I will earn that submission. She is not void of ideas and a voice to express her ideas and wants. She, however, may sometimes learn lessons about having to wait or hear 'no' to certain things or situations. She will submit her will - not forget she has one. This, to me, is one of the chief attractions to this lifestyle and one primary reason I wish to explore it. I am interested in a woman who is strong but sees in her Master a greater, or perhaps, complementary strength and submits herself to him and that strength.
As for me, I am confident and have spent many years in situations and occupations from which I have developed a comfort with command and authority. This does not mean I 'order around' or do not listen. I live for conversation and two way dialogue. That said, I am very caring and sensual - but also very firm and strong when called to be. When I desire something done and verbalize my desire, there is zero lack of clarity regarding that 'command' and my authority. If this is pleasing to a potential sub, I may be a fitting Master/Dom. If a sub believes this kind of natural/learned authority which i carry is not her cup of tea - I am not for her.
Physically, I am fit, lean and considered handsome. I will post pics soon - as soon as I figure a way to be discrete.
Finally, I have no issue, in fact would prefer, for a sub to have her own life and even be married/attached. I have a very healthy family life and will not interrupt or jeopardize it. I seek the above simply because there is a part of me that has grown over the years and satisfying that part of me will not come from my marriage. I believe being whole for me, includes both worlds.
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