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Random Thoughts:
Respect is a 2 way street. Give it- you get it. Don't give it- don't expect it, or be ignored.
Limits? We all have limits. Mine, right now, everything is a limit. Why? Because I do not know you, and you do not know me. Do you ask the girl in line at the grocery if she sucks cock? Then don't ask me what my limits are, if we don't know each other.
What I am not looking for:
*Not looking for someone married, in another relationship, poly etc.
*Not looking for someone who doesn't know what they want in life, or aren't willing to take the steps or risks to achieve what they want.
*Not looking for cyber, webcam, phone sex. Not looking for an 'online' relationship, not looking for long distance.
*Not looking for one night stands, cheap sex, or 'just' scening. If you are looking, just to get off, get off somewhere else.
*Not looking for someone who does drugs, or drinks too much.
* Not looking for a mentor, or someone to show me the ropes.
What I am looking for: (as if anyone actually pays attention)
Not much of anything, at this time.
In time, I will be looking for someone to share my life with. A long term, preferably til death do us part, mono loving relationship with a man that is financially stable, who fits into my vanilla world, who has a wonderful sense of humor, intelligent, gentle yet firm. Some one understands and accepts my life as it is, as well as my needs, wants and desires. Someone who desires to build me up, not knock me down.
I've been interested in the lifestyle since before I knew what it was. I've been involved for the past 10 years in an on again, off again relationship that was centered, most of the time, on this lifestyle. It is now off, for good, because after 10 years, I still had no commitment, and I decided I was never going to get one. That is why, I am not looking for relationships, at this time, I am more looking to find me.
I've entered some of my vanilla interests, things that I enjoy for the sake of 'getting to know you'. All of which makes me sick to my stomach, to think of HAVING to go through that again. I really have no desire. If I appear cold hearted, sorry, the heart is trying to mend.
About me? I am financially stable. I have a career, a family- meaning creatures under 18. Whew- hope that scared most of you off right there :)
I am more of a listener at first, and then I become a talker. I have a decent idea of what I want out of life.
I do have photos, I just do not wish to post them, of my face on a site for the world to see. If I post them of my body parts, I will drag out every horny man on this site. As we get to know each other and some level of friendship forms, with a real intent that there could be more, I will send pictures.
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