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A Pledge
As it is often important and often even necessary for one human being to have certainty and a clear understanding of the intentions, desires, motivations, and needs of another, I offer this testimony in trust and sincerity.
I am a dominant man. I am just that.
I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am Master.
I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I will have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.
You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.
You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.
We are not equal. We are merely parts of the same whole. We compliment each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.
We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.
You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.
You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust and work dillidently to keep it!
Because I have opened my heart and soul to you. Because I have listened to your words with my ears and my heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.
What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman can give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it.
I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other women, and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely can not in reality be bought.
Author unknown
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Life gets so confusing sometimes...or maybe it's just the people.
I am seeking a woman to Protect and Guide.
The woman I seek has an interest in, and an understanding of, the Poly lifestyle.
The situation here is that I am currently involved with a wonderful submissive who offers me her understanding, obedience and love. We have discussed and agreed upon pursuing additional relationships in an effort to try and build our family.
The sub/slave we seek will have strengths of her own, but will know and realize that in order to truly find what she seeks, she desires a man and an environment where she is protected as she explores her desires.
We want to allow you to build on your strengths and help offset your personal weakness's.
We understand the advantages associated with having an extended family and feel that we offer the right person an environment of protection and personal fulfillment.
We have a wide range of interests and are very communicative of our desires and needs as well.
We are involved in the local community, as well as the local scene. We are open to discussions with women both locally and those willing to relocate to serve.
We're not looking for a doormat, we're looking for a sister, lover, friend, daughter, and lifestyle partner.
Having raised 3 daughters alone, I personally know the type of man I am. I am strong in my convictions. I am gentle in that I am not looking to inflict massive amounts of pain upon you unless thats what you seek and require to feel whole. We're safe, sane, intelligent, professionally employed and kinky.
We offer a safe harbor for you on your life's journey.
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Can you imagine a loving home where everyone's needs and desires are met, where everyone loves and adores each other, where there is always love and fulfillment?
We can, and that's exactly what we're seeking.
We prefer to speak via telephone and should there be a connection by phone and physical attraction based on photos; we will want to meet in person.
You should message us if:
•Having more children is not a must for you - we are past the point in life where having more children is a comfortable option. We are, however very family oriented. Our children are all grown and on their own.
•You would like to be involved in a loving relationship, in a context of honesty and communication. A mutually satisfying and fulfilling relationship centered around admiration, desire, respect, and personal growth.
•You have an adventurous spirit and want to get involved in the community aspects of this lifestyle and others.
•You're kind, communicative, and understand there is no room for jelousies. |
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It has been an awfully long time since I posted here, but last night I received an email from my girl I wanted to share (below) :-)
Dear Master;
The way things go it seems I spend time paying bills, taking care of everyone and working with people that do not have a clue about what life is about.
I go about my day being the one who handles all the problems and try to do so with structure and intelligence. I solve problems that come up with alternative solutions to tasks that cloud my day.
I am a mentor, a coach, a confidant, a motivator,and a counselor. It seems odd to me when I write these things down, just exactly what I do. It brings me to the realization that I am a strong independent woman...is that an oxymoron for a submissive?
NO... My Master teaches me that.
So many people think it is all about the sex, the BDSM thing.....Well it has something to do with the sex lol. It all ties in.
It reminds me of raising a child and the devotion and passion you need to bring to that. You give birth to them, show them with your actions right from wrong and send them off. You watch them as they stumble and fall, so wanting to go and pick them up.
You can see the doubt and fear in their eyes.
So, you Smile to show then you know they can do it. You do not rush to pick them up, you just watch, because it's how they will learn.
You, Master are that sort of man. You will correct me even when I do not like it. You will give me space when I need it, but you're there if I stumble and fall.
There have been times you pushed me off that Cliff. As it turns out, you had much more faith in me than I did. I may have taken more time to learn some lessons that needed learning, but some of us are stubborn I guess. I get in my own way more than anyone else. I could go on and on, as you know, I do that sometimes.
What I want to say to all who read this is....girls, remember your Master should have your best interest at heart. If he loves you there may be things you need to do to grow that are painful, hard, and seem like torture (and not the fun kind).
He is likely there in the back ground watching you. Smiling at your struggles and accomplishments.Frowning when you take steps on a wrong path but still he will watch. He will watch and he may even push a bit to get you to think, slow down, and watch what you are doing. Most of all he will be the one that will tell you honestly what you need to hear.
I have had experience in a Gorean household, and we need to take a clue from the Gor books. The kajiras,(slaves),show beauty in all they do. They will present their best foot forward. Even the smallest task is done with beauty and devotion, not just because it makes their Master look good. It makes you feel important, like you have a purpose.
The kajiras are without question the extreme. I feel sometimes the structure they live helps to make you quiet down, just remember the reason you're a slave or submissive. It is in your heart you live for it and you should live for your Master.
You do not have to sacrifice yourself if your Master is like mine he will want you to be your best.
Honestly is that not what love is about?
Devotion,and the spark you feel when his hands touch you. Losing your breath and closing your eyes and simply letting go.
He will catch you :-).
The rush of being that free to trust another person that much is what people are looking for in this lifestyle. It is not quick, nothing worth having is.
Now My Master, the point of my rambling, the things I wrote are about you.
How much you have helped me . How do you thank the person that gave you your wings? The one who set you free and quietly waited till you returned. I will always return to you. You are the solid structure that I cling to.
In the night, every night before I close my eyes I feel your warm body engulf me. The simple way you stroke my hair, listen to me, lord knows I can talk....:) I play out my day like watching a movie of myself stopping at points I know you would be proud of me and times you would give me the look. I again feel your hand pull my hair bring my face to you and kiss me.
It is something I wish every woman could feel. To be loved that much, trusted and desired that much. It fills me more than you know.
This weekend and the plans I told you I had for you are just a small attempt to show you the freedom you have given me. You give me all I would ever need and more. I hope I can show you in this small way the love devotion and desire you deserve ....
I love you MASTER
Kneeling down her hands rise above her head and she lay flat on the floor....as she bends down to kiss the floor before you, a soft pink tongue licks your boots smelling the deep rich leather.
Feeling your hand on my back tapping softly for me to rise to my knees before you .. looking with amber eyes sparking to you love shining in the small tears forming ... as the tears spill down my blushed cheeks over whelming desire fills the whole of my being ,, my heart skips a beat as I feel your hands stroke my hair my pouty lips kiss your hand ...fingers drawn in to my wet mouth... desire rising making me wet and ready ...a soft moan escapes my lips as you look into my eyes and ask...
Who Owns you Girl? ... in barely a whisper struggling with the great desire in my body I respond you MY Master only You......
In His Service Always
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I am proud to announce that I have offered my collar to a lovely woman this past weekend and she accepted.
She is of high character, understands honor, has never been in prison, and most importantly has never had brain surgery.
Welcome to the family Lanie :-)
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I recently happened upon some words of wisdom in an email group I belong to.
I want to make sure and point out that these are not my words, but they accurately reflect how I feel.
I have long witnessed the internal damage people live with and the following is perhaps the most poignant thing I've ever read, so I thought I'd share.
It is long, but I believe you'll be glad you read it. If not, you're likely similar to people I've had the misfortune to encounter in recent months and I'd ask that you keep your distance from me and mine.
With thanks to Anita (Moonlight.ontheocean)
Broken Shells.......
It will take a few lines to get to my point, so please bear with me.
When we arrived at Sunset Beach, we found most of the shells broken into pieces from Tropical Storm Hanna.
I had to walk a long way down the beach
to find a few shells that were intact.The storm also tossed up shells that
were different than what I usually find: nautilus and whelk along with the
usual clam and oyster varieties. These were also broken, but most of the
time the good side was facing skyward, leading to a lot of disappointed
back-bending and tossing away.
But then I noticed the shiny, smooth inside
of the whelk, usually a different color than the weather worn outside.
I noticed the broken nautilus had a fascinating side to it; a spiral eye right in the center. I started picking up the broken nautilus and whelk shells, all the while thinking about what kind of craft I could do with them.
Back at the beach house, I touched the smooth, silky inside of the whelks
and it struck me how many people are like these shells, tossed about by our
experiences, appearing weathered and worn on the outside, even looking
damaged beyond practical use, but still we shine on the inside when given a chance.
I saw other people walked along that beach looking for the perfect, whole shells. They didn't bend down very often. There are no perfect shells because each one has housed a living creature then was tossed about in the
ocean before landing upon the beach.
There are no perfect people, not the
one reading this post, and especially not the one writing it.
It is a waste of valuable life to look and look for the perfect non-existant person.
Sometimes the best person for you is standing right in front of you and you don't even know it because you are so busy looking elsewhere.
Or your standards are set so incredibly high that no one can possibly meet them.
That is not to say one should settle for the first broken shell you find in
the sand. But to never pick up a shell because the next one may be THE perfect one is sad, terribly sad.
Nearly as sad is to never pick up another
shell because it will never compare to that first shell you found on that first beach you visited years ago.
Let it go.
As I followed the 3 foot swath of shells down the beach, I was careful not to step on any of the shells that I didn't choose. One day I turned around to the sound of "crunch, crunch, crunch." A couple was walking through the shells, stopping occasionally to pick one up, destroying the rest thoughtlessly.
How many of us do that?
Wade through the crowd, picking out the friends we want, tossing aside the ones we view as undesirable, stepping on the others?
All of us have faults and foilables and it is our true friends and family that forgive or look past those faults to love us
anyway.
Thank God for my friends. I don't know what I would do without you.
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It has been a long journey with life lessons for all involved.
One lesson that we knew going in was that communication and trust was key to make things work. Unfortunately when those with issues get confused and make poor desisions in the way they choose to communicate, it can lead to mis conceptions and hurt that is sometimes very difficult to get past.
When pertinent information is held back, for whatever the reason, it can lead to nowhere good.
There is much wisdom to be learned from music and I am constantly reminded of that wisdom when going through turmoil. 2 lines that seem particularly appropriate today are:
"Sometimes to keep it together, you've got to leave it alone"-From the Eagles song Wasted time
and
"Like sheep without a shephard, you don't know how to be alone"-From the Eagles song, Learn to be still
Endings, as I have learned in my life, are difficult, but can be overcome. It can be scary and exciting at the same time. In either case, when happiness doesn't result from a union, then there is simply no reason to continue down the trail of tears.
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Once again I find myself feeling very fortunate.
I have added a wonderful new person to our family and things are going amazingly well. It has not been without bumps in the road, but nothing worthwhile ever is. As a Master, it is my duty to see that my girls are protected and able to explore what is in their hearts.
We have built our relationship on the basic tenants of Trust, Honesty, and Communication.
I can't imagine being happier with who I have been fortunate enough to have in my life. diane and zammy make me very proud and I envision us growing together as we explore our wants and desires as we fulfill each others needs.
I know there are those that have issues with a Poly lifestyle believing it to be some sort of Harem I'm trying to build. Nothing could be further from the truth. If it were a harem I was after, I wouldn't view these 2 very special women as my family. I respect them both more than they know. I respect them for their abilitiy to be truthful about what they need and I'm thankful they're allowing me to be the one guiding them through this life.
There will most certainly be challenges, but we'll face them together and conquer them through caring for each other and seeing that everyone remains safe and secure physically as well as emotionally.
I am indeed a lucky man. |
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If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.
Richard Bach
I find, as I learn more and more about people and their tendancies to be disappointing creatures, that the above platitude is wisdom for all time.
My father used to tell me that-"you can tell what a man will do tomorrow by what he did yesterday". I always thought that rather silly when I was younger but as I go crashing through my days, I find it ever more true.
Ultimately, we can only treat people with honesty, kindness and respect. Hopefully, it gets returned. If not, it is yet one more lesson learned. |
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It can sometimes be frustrating as you travel a road to any specific destination. Paths can wind and mislead.
So it can sometimes be with relationships.
If we close our eyes to the lesssons life offers in some grand game where we feel like we're the judge, jury, and executionor and avoid the counsel of people with a vested interest our choices, we can sometimes cause hurt in others.
This lifestyle is about joy and the many forms it takes. It is not about emotional pain.
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Across the vein of night there cuts a path of searing light
Burning like a beacon on the edges of our sight
At the point of total darkness and the lights divine divide
A soul can let its shadow stretch and land on either side
And balanced on the precipice the moment must reveal
Naked in the face of time, our race within the wheel
As we hang beneath the heavens, and we hover over hell
Our hearts become the instruments we learn to play so well
So wealthy the spirit that knows its own flight
Stealthy the hunter who slays his own fright
Blessed the traveler who journeys the length of the light
Outside the pull of gravity, beyond the spectral veil
Within our careful reasoning, we search to no avail
For the constant in the chaos, for the fulcrum in the void
Following a destiny our steps cannot avoid
In a spiral never-ending are we drawn towards the source
Spinning at the mercy of an unrelenting force
So we stare into the emptiness and fall beneath the weight
Circling the Nexus in a fevered dance with fate
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I wanted to speak to a subject that is of great importance to me, Dependability.
It seems that it is often overlooked by others and easy to dismiss as an important factor in building relationships.
Lets start with a definition of the term:
"Dependability is a value showing the reliability of a person to
others because of his/her integrity, truthfulness, and trustfulness, traits
that can encourage someone to depend on him/her."
This is a concept intertwined with another term-Commitment
It means to duty or pledge to some thing or someone, and can refer to interaction dominated by obligations.
These obligations may be mutual,
or self-imposed, or explicitly stated, or may not be.
It is vitally important to the health of any relationship that certain things be counted upon. Timliness, not changing plans at the very last minute amongst them.
If a submissive makes a commitment to plans and then changes those plans continually at the last minute it is a form of disrespect. While true that some things are out of our control in the everyday world, it doesn't release you from your obligation to others and their ability to count on what you say.
If you put your Master in a position to make excuses for you, it can cause him to lose face, and that is simply unacceptable.
Outside of the dynamic of the D/s world, it boils down to common courtesy. In the world we are all choosing to live, as with other concepts, its importance becomes magnified.
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I thought it time to update my profile based on the things that have happened in the recent past.
Let me begin by saying that I am indeed the luckiest man alive. Everyone has their own measure of happiness and no matter how I measure mine, it exceeds my prior expectations.
I have long viewed life as a journey. The destination is the same for all of us and it is only the process of living that makes us unique. We can choose happiness, or we can choose mistrust. I have long sought what I have recently found. My cricket has fulfilled my desires and helped make my dreams come true.
I am fortunate that she has offered me the gift of her submission. Our journey has been one of shared laughter, experiences, and dreams realized. Yet, in many ways it has just begun.
I do love you darling.
Recently, we have been fortunate to have encountered a kindred spirit here and we are taking the steps to incorporate her into our family. I won't assume anything for that is the quickest road to disappointment. Trust must be earned and is comprised more of deed than spoken word. We indeed look forward to learning our bren.
We are excited at the prospect of extending our family, and I am fully aware how fortunate I am to have found one spirit to share with in my cricket. To be on the verge of finding another for the both of us is truly a treasure that can not be expressed adequately.
Thank you cricket for your trust, your love, your loyalty, and for you.
Thank you bren, for the opportunity to help you grow and begin to realize what you have sought for so long.
I shall never take my good fortune for granted. |
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| Age: 18 |
| Kyle,
Texas |
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