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I'm an introvert by trade, romantic by heartbeat, adventurer by choice. I've been superbly lucky enough to land softly in the middle of an amazingly supportive and exceptionally deviant community, and I have nothing but awestruck appreciation for all the amazing people that I've met and, on occasion, had the pleasure of playing with.
My kinks include being driven up the wall and left there - that breathless time when everything is so damnably sharp and sweet and nothing matters much but the person in front of you and what they are doing to you right now. I like chastity/orgasm control games and the realm of infinite foreplay that comes with, and deeply enjoy getting kinkier and kinkier as my situation becomes more and more desperate.
I also like rope. Rather a lot. Predicament ties are my favorites but I have run the gamut from being balled up tight to strung up high and couldn't really point you to a rope scene that I didn't love. I have at least three years of experience with getting tied up constantly, and I am looking forward to many years more. I communicate well in rope and make super great noises - you should give it a try!
The more comfy I get, the more I am diversifying! New kink experiences are amazing, and chief amongst these has been a newfound enjoyment for being the top. Thus far I know I like tying people up and poking, pinching, biting, and whacking - generally enjoying the physicality of a scene. I'm interested in exploring more of that, as well as just about anything else my bottom is looking to do. I like making other people happy, and being creative, motivated and thoroughly into hurting someone feels like the best service I can provide to a scene.
Nonetheless, I bend more submissive than not, though I haven't explored that side of me that much recently and I really miss it. As long as there is communication, negotiation and a great deal of mutual respect, I am happy to serve and treat others as dominant over me. The last time someone put a collar on me in a D/s context I literally shook; it's a powerful and wonderful feeling giving up control to others and it hits me at the core.
As a smaller service thing, being someone to practice on - whatever the thing it is being practiced - has been exceptionally rewarding to me even when it wasn't rewarding at all. I'm a good person to invite out to try a class or be a demo; I try hard to be patient and communicative and I'm happy to make the people I like and trust happy however I can.
Do I like and trust you? It takes me a while to warm up to most people, so during the early days you'll probably see me struggling to make conversation and figure out what I want to say. I try very hard to be friendly with everybody, but I am very picky about the people I let in close. If I'm trying to talk to you, however badly I am botching it, it's probably a good sign. Oftentimes some observation will strike me in a conversation and I will miss my opportunity to follow up on it, at which point I will sit and chew on it for hours before writing a long, rambling message to you about it, filled with run-on sentences coated in inappropriate hyphens and parentheses (like these ones - they're my favorite punctuation marks). If you happen to enjoy the message and respond in equal density or substance, chances are pretty good I adore you.
I'm seeking:
- play partners both top and bottom for impact, rope, rough play and almost everything else on your or my fetish lists
- a primary partnership
- someone to submit to in a D/s setting
- people interest in submitting to me as I experiment with my top side
- geeks who like board games
- cuddly people to curl up with
Of play partners, I am blessed with many and not at all opposed to experiencing new territory with others. I'm not too careful with my heart right now and I don't need others to be. I'm tired of striving for perfection as opposed to just letting it happen. I'd rather love freely and lose often. At least I'll have the story to tell.
Outside of the scene I'm fairly geeky. I like studying the construction of - as well as directly enjoying - games, music, film and books, and have a diverse array of opinions on all of them. I'm good with computers and work as a programmer and IT guy full time now, which affords me all the stability I need to stay in this wonderful kinky place and buy terrible kinky things. I play board games and video games and I'm very good at both of these things. I'm a great writer and I want to write stories and songs for a living someday, though right now doing that is a part-time job that I suck at showing up on time for.
Other things: I'm good with poetry and great with bad puns, and wordplay is some of my favorite play. I write pretty good smut, and I copy-edit almost anything for fun. I'm learning to play guitar. I run online DnD games sometimes as writing practice and they're fucking fantastic. I listen to The Mountain Goats and every other crazy desperate romantic lyricist I can get my hands on. I'm a clever, gentle, careful, considerate human being and I only wish you to treat me with respect and honesty. I'll do the same.
I don't really use Collarspace all that much, but my username is the same here as FL, that other site where I'm more likely to be checking my messages.
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