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Erm...waves
I have been saying I will re-write this thing for months now; enough is enough :) It's time for a new start, so here is my new profile. Please feel free to message me; I love chatting, getting to know new people and finding play partners. I would love to find something more, but am also just as happy making new friends along the way - online or in person. So, yup… Enjoy reading :) Or, y'know, just wander on over and start perving on those photos (come on, we both know that's the most likely outcome).
Just to sum me up? Submissive, shy, bratty, insatiable, sarcastic, single geek.
See where it says 'Single' and 'Submissive ?
Those are both still true ^_^; If by some miracle or fluke of luck, I actually manage to get myself a Sir of my very own that will be changed the second it becomes exclusive. So, please stop asking if I'm taken! I'm not~ pouts I wish I was, but I'm not. So, yes - if you're interested, just strike up a conversation rather than jumping in to 'So, you owned yet? … Wanna be my slave?' Cause, frankly, it shows that you haven't read a damn work of my profile - including that little word at the top that gives you a great big hint (psst, it's the one that says 'Submissive' not 'Slave')
I can't believe I had to add this section in within 48 hours of updating my profile...
So, it now says both 'Single' and 'Babygirl of...'
I now have a Daddy. I have been feeling the urge to explore my 'little' side more and more over the past months; I've had the good fortune of exploring ageplay in the past, but never to the extent that I have really wanted to. Teenage ageplay doesn't particularly appeal to me on the same level that letting my younger side out does. I am still not entirely sure how young my little is, but at least seven I would guess, if not younger.
Now, I am still open to exploring with other playmates however I have recently started playing with a wonderful Daddy, and also play with one or two other lovely individuals (when schedules and distances allow). I would be seeking approval from my current playmates before beginning to play with others, out of respect for those I already play with.
Embracing my little
As I've mentioned, exploring my 'little' side is something I am thoroughly enjoying and looking forward to at the moment. If any other littles would like to chat, I would relish the opportunity (on here or in real life).
I know little about, well, being little; I just know that I enjoy the freedom that letting go and being childish can bring. I love simple things, like colouring and watching cartoons, as well as more adult and submissive activities incorporated with little things. I loooooove dressing up, and plenty of little toys.
I am still quite shy and inexperienced with this side of myself. I tend to want to be a good girl, rather than a naughty one, but I can be rather cheeky and bratty when I am comfortable around others.
If you know any good groups or munches for Littles on here or in Hampshire, please drop me a message ^_^
Fetish & Me
I have had the pleasure of exploring my submissive side in some way, shape or form since 2007. I have always identified as submissive - it's just part of who I am. I hate confrontation (but can be quite the brat), I look to others to lead (despite having very strong ideas of my own) and never feel more comfortable than when under the command of a strong Dominant.
I would like to stress that - Dominant. FL does't allow the option of 'looking for a Dominant', but it is what I seek. I do not see myself as a slave. I do not want a Master. Well, no - that isn't true. I would love one on some level, but to me, being a slave - having that commitment, that level of trust, that particular bond - it is up there with marriage. So, while I respect Masters who are looking for slaves for play, I am not one of them. I am looking for a Sir, or a Daddy. Possibly a Doctor, or a pet girl Trainer - just not a Master. That is one thing I wouldn't want to share.
Unfortunately, I seem to find myself between play partners at the moment pouts. I used to play with a handful of fetish play-partners - most irregular, to 'hey, don't I know you from somewhere?' levels of time between when we played. However, as I see each so irregularly now (and some cancel more often than they can turn up - which, hey, happens) I would say that I'm well and truly single at the moment. I would love something regular - casual or serious, but I understand that for many people, this must fit around their everyday lives and commitments - it is often just added fun.
While I don't claim to live the lifestyle if I had the choice - if I had the option, I would play every day. From the minute I got in from work at night, I would love to be able to slip into that dynamic. To be that relaxed and comfortable with someone, to experience it that frequently instead of every few weeks to months depending on how schedules match up. But I am realistic. I tried vanilla long term relationships while at University; to cut a long story short, it didn't work. It hurt at the time, but it helped me realise just how important fetish is to me. Being submissive isn't something I play at, something I can turn off no more than I can just stop being bratty, or geeky, or shy. I hope to find someone who can accept that - and like me for me (oh god that sounds cheesy…)
I am not a Domme, or a switch - I can't ever see myself being either. Yes, I enjoy cuckold porn, seeing men getting fucked by other men, along with men getting fucked by strap-ons. That doesn't mean I have it in me to do it - or that doing it myself appeals in the slightest. So please, please if that is for you, great! But I'm not the right person to chat to.
As for what I actually do enjoy? I love sensual play, sensation and impact. Spanking, flogging, insertions, orgasm control - forced or denial - sensory deprivation and bondage. I am not a massive masochist, but I do enjoy some pain to go with my pleasure. It just intensifies everything so nicely.
Vanilla & Me
Erm, hiya. On to the vanilla side of me I guess. Eep…
Well, I'm Evie. I'm 23 (almost 24! Damn, I feel old) and I work as an editor/ non-fiction writer. I have both an MA and BA Hons. degrees, with aspirations to study for my PhD.
I am a bbw; slowly but steadily losing weight, but most definitely a bbw, with fairly large, all natural coughs assets. I live between Portsmouth and Chichester, but travel to the other side of Southampton daily for work (which is a bit of a bitch, as I use public transport!)
I am a massive geek. I love manga, anime, marvel and dc, history, various geeky series and shows. I always love to chat about various geeky things, so feel free to drop me a message if you are a fellow geek of any type :)
I cannot accommodate, as I am temporarily staying with family (yes, they are driving me mad; yes, I really, really am too old to still be staying with family; yes, I am looking for my own place) but do travel happily :) Plus there are always dungeons and hotels, right?
Why I'm here (ish)
To make friends, to have fun, to chat and learn a little. If I find play partners or something more? Great. If not? I'll have damn good fun talking to new people, perving on photos, and posting a little or my own.
What/who I'm looking for
- Friends
- Play partner(s)
- Stuff?
- Things :D
- Bother :o
- coughs LTR coughs
My Limits - Hard & Soft
To save us all time, I thought I would include my soft and hard limits. I have chatted to so many awesome-sounding people, who - in theory - sounded so compatible. Until it got down to it, and they really, really wanted to do X, Y and Z, whereas Y was a no way in hell for me, and X and Z were both only if we've played, you know what you are doing, and you have a freaking load of safety equipment on standby
- Canes - hard limit. I've been scarred before with these, with marks that lasted over a year - from someone with decades of practice, who knew I didn't want permanent marks - who knew I didn't even want to bleed. I do not play with canes for anyone.
- Bareback - hard limit. Yes, it is a fantasy. Yes, I love the look of cream pies and adore the thought of being filled. Will I ever do it? No. I've had partners cheat on me - vanilla and fetish, who I have been 'exclusive' with. Who knows what I could have caught if I had agreed to bareback. I've also had Doms try and pull this on me last-minute. I will stop playing around, and will not consent to play with someone who tries to pull this again. If someone tries to pull this mid-play again? I will stop play-fighting, and actually try and hurt the person who does this in an attempt to get away.
- Needles - hard limit. I do not do needle play at all. That includes for decoration, play piercing, medical scenarios that involve needles - they are all no's. I love piercings and tattoos, but by trained professionals, for me not as part of a scene.
- Blood - hard/soft limit. If it is a form of play that makes me bleed? That is a hard limit. If it is play during a certain time of the month? Sure, why not! I'm quite horny then anyway (even more so than usual) so if it doesn't bother you, it doesn't bother me.
- Permanent marks - hard limit. If it's hard enough to scar, that is too much for me.
- Marks above clothes level - hard/soft limit. I am sure we can all understand the need for discretion - especially when it comes to marks colleagues may spot. Marks should ideally be somewhere they can be hidden, and hopefully shouldn't last more than a few days to weeks.
- Scat - hard/soft limit. Unless it is an accidental part of enema play, it isn't a turn-on, and its not something I particularly want to try,
- Breath Play - soft limit. I love breath play - but I only do it with people I have played with before. It takes a lot of trust to have someone's hand wrapped around your throat, slowly cutting off your air supply as you struggle to breath - let alone if you try some of the more extreme forms of breath play. So, unless I have played with you (and we agree on it before hand) breath play is a no.
Just a quick heads-up
- If you just message me with answers and no questions, dialogue or attempt at an actual two-way conversation, I will most likely stop responding. No-one should have to put forth all the effort when getting to know someone - or when keeping in contact with them.
- If I haven't emailed you back in an hour or two, please do not get angry - or start spamming my inbox. I work full-time and have a heck of a long commute. Just because FL says I am on chat, or have loved a photo, or have even updated my status, doesn't mean I am actually on here, checking my messages. I like to give emails the attention they deserve - and that means not replying on my phone. I tend to stick to just love'ing photos and peeving on cute guys and gals on there.
- I am not interested in helping anyone cheat on their wife, girlfriend, significant other or exclusive play-partner. I am fine with polygamy - I consider myself monogamous despite the enjoyment of multiple play-partners - but when it comes to actual cheating? I've been cheated on in the past. It hurts. It's humiliating. It destroys a small part inside of you that thought it had finally, finally found someone it could trust. I don't want to do that to another woman. So, yes; I know people are on here for that, and I know as a community we try not to judge, but it's just not for me.
- I really wish this one was a joke, but it is in response to actual, serious emails I have received. I will not get your name tattooed on me, I will not move abroad for you if we have never met, I am not giving you my phone number/ address/ private email address after one or two emails, and no, I do not have Skype.
- Another new one! Aren't you guys creative? If you have to preface asking me to be exclusive, with the words 'I can't meet you often, but' 'I already have a girlfriend/submissive/little, but', 'I know I live over 8 hours away, but' or 'I want multiple subs, but you can only see me' - yeah... I'm flattered (sometimes), but if we aren't playing regularly? If there isn't that potential for something more? If we aren't both on the same level when it comes to who can play with who and how many? Then no, I am not currently interested in being exclusive. I'm sorry. It's just not for me. Rather...think of it this way; I have a little switch in my head. It's got two options if we are or plan on being intimate; on the one hand, I can play casually. I can call you Sir, or Daddy, or [insert your name here]. We can enjoy fetish fun - regularly or less often, we can chat a little - just have some fun. No expectations, no requirements for vanilla interactions, dates or commitment. On the other hand, we have the exclusive option. The switch can't flip if we haven't played - multiple times, most likely - or at the very least met. I would expect regular play, vanilla and fetish interactions, an actual level of connection past 'hey, I like tying you up and fucking you'. Mutual exclusivity could be chatted about, actual dating would be awesome. Y'know, that LTR stuff. So - if you want to chat about exclusivity, just keep that in mind. I am flattered, truly (particularly if we've met/played/connected)...unless you've just randomly messaged me to ask it, in which case I'm creeped out :)
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