About Me:

First and foremost I am half of a Dominant couple. I live on equal footing with my spouse MissJessie. I am a former security specialist and business owner. I am a communications expert, spouse, father, artist, writer, philosopher, dreamer, optimist, and more.

A brief look on my views of the lifestyle:

It is human nature to want to serve and please others. This makes people in general feel special, connected, accepted. A Master knows this but is separate in the fact that they believe they have a right to be served and in this serving they are fulfilling the servant’s base need to help, be accepted, and personal growth. For example most people when they see a person struggling to carry a bunch of boxes will offer to help. Then when thanked for offering they feel good like they did something worthwhile. This is normal human behavior but is not the behavior of a Master. A Master is a person who will allow the person to struggle because they understand that that person will reap a bigger reward of satisfaction when they accomplish the task on there own, and if they were to help, that person’s sense of accomplishment would be diminished. Where some people would see not helping as being cruel, a Master sees helping as being crueler. This is the basest distinction of a Master.

If life is a diamond then a Master is someone who studies each facet understands how each facet pulls the light into the heart of the stone and how the heart reflects the light back out to create something more powerful. A slave is someone who simply recognizes a Master for what they are and decides to serve that person with there entire bring, giving the Master there life for him/her to study. Granted these are analogies but I think they state the nature of the lifestyle quite well. BDSM, TPE, D/s are part of the tools a Master uses in his journey and development of others.

What we offer:

A loving home, structure, safety, commitment, education, development brought through hardship, discipline, and physical pain.

What we are looking for:

We are looking for someone close to our own age, which has a mind and can discuss current events, and is physically fit, meaning no known health conditions. We want someone who understands they are fulfilling a gap in our homes dynamic and does not want to create discord but wants harmony and is willing to live a long term 24/7 TPE.

If interested please message me. Do not expect me to come looking for you. This has to be something you want from us.