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Self-summary:
I'm a tall, slim, often scruffy, brown hair/eyes, bespectacled 26-year-old science graduate student. I'm an unabashed nerd, geek, and dork, and a champion of lazy days, bike rides, and restaurant-based navigation.
I love a lot of different movies, books, video games, and TV, but most with a geeky, scifi fantasy slant, or things that make me examine my assumptions and worldview a bit. I'm also a fan of boardgames, particularly more complicated roleplay/trading tabletop fare.
When I'm not in lab, I am typically out at a bar or a party with friends, or playing games/reading at home/netflixing.
If I've left out something you'd like to know, ask! More informative pictures of me do exist, and I'm happy to exchange them after some messaging.
What I'm looking for:
Ideally, I'd love to find someone kinky and fun for dates and a serious/meaningful relationship(s).
Kink-friendly friends and events would be great too though, and also more casual dating with people interested in compatible kinks. I'd also be interested in pursuing purely casual/sexual relationships with other similar-minded people. Right now, its basically all on the table.
Sex and kink interests:
I'm bi, and have been in relationships with both guys and girls. For me, whatever kind of sex I'm having, the priority is on safety and mutual enjoyment. Hot, wild, fun happens when people communicate honestly what they want, and are committed to making sex rewarding for all involved.
I love vanilla sex. All the kinks in the world can't replace good, passionate, wall-shaking vanilla for me. But kinks make things exciting, and I love trying out new things. It keeps sex interesting, and it gets at some pretty deep-seated itches that need scratching :)
Power, confidence, and control are incredibly attractive to me. I really enjoy yielding control, letting myself be used and manipulated by someone for their pleasure. It isn't that I'm turning off; I'm just letting someone else drive, and enjoying the bumps. I like the dominant/submissive and humiliation aspects to power exchange. Scenes and kinks that deal with those roles and relationships are typically the ones I'm interested in. While I love being the bottom, I don't really consider myself a masochist. Pain is a delightful punctuation mark to other activities, and a little bit properly applied can really heighten the experience of submission, but only in the proper measure, and in trustworthy hands.
With guys, I'm pretty much always submissive. A dominant guy who likes to take control and show a sub his place, and can make me feel like an object existing for his pleasure would be ideal. I've had fun before with restraints, ball gags, blindfolds, rope, roleplay/consensual rape scenes, all guy sex parties, and multi-partner service. Looking to try these things again, and open to trying new things as well.
With girls, I'm interested in exploring a similar submissive/bottom role but also interested in switching and playing a more dominant vanilla role at first (progressing potentially into more interesting things). I've gotten to play with some restraints and bit of pain, and I really enjoy assuming a quiet obedient role and taking the punishment/rewards given to me. I'm eager to try out similar activities to those I have enjoyed with guys.
A Smattering of Specific Kinks (assume a sub role unless otherwise noted):
submission, slave play, oral sex, oral service (giving and taking), rimming, face sitting, spanking, flogging, forced sex, anal sex, multi-partner service, group service, group (3-4) sex, bondage (rope, leather restraints, gags)
Thanks for reading the profile (which was stolen liberally from other profiles I've made on other sites). Hope to hear from you!
Cheers.
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