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OK, FAQ time - I met my boyfriend here. I am submissive, he said he was dominant. We were and are long distance so we had a lot of time to talk before we met and we got very close emotionally. We get along great in person too, and we're very close, but sexually he's not at all what I need; I didn't feel submissive to him at all. Not even a little bit. And I tried and tried and tried. I was a bit drunk one night and sort of casually asked what he thought about open relationships and out of that discussion I ended up admitting that I needed a lot more. And this is kind of what I mean by not feeling submissive to him, any guy in that position could punish me or say he's going to let me be with other men, but he was just kind of ineffectual and passive-aggressive about it. I love that he will do anything to make me happy but it makes me feel even less submissive to him that I did before. |
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