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| I am an experienced Dom with about 20 years under my belt. I was introduced to BDSM by a lovely cougar who trained me and built enough credibility to lay my guard down and open my mind. she will forever be my mentor. She tore me down and built me back up, I was a young and dumb headstrong 19 year old that she persuaded to bottom and be submissive to understand both the role of a Dom and sub. Naturally, I am Dominant and my extroverted personality exhibits that as well as my own sense of self-confidence. However, I appreciate the complexity and demands that the submissive role bears along with trusting a Dom to lookout in your best interests and hopefully not fall for the emotional pride of abuse and calling it BDSM. I am not the abusive type but rather constructive And very mental Dom; I build my subs up boost their morale and self-confidence as their mentor and hopefully life coach. I take pride in gaining that trust from someone willing to submit to me. I do not power trip and demand I be called 'Master' or 'Sir.' I expect respect but I do earn it with trust and not Demand it unless a prospect lacks basic etiquette skills. I take great pride in being educated well-spoken and very professional; my goal is to mold my subs as such so that they are presentable and appreciative of my life efforts to show them that I care more than just owning them and enjoying their company. I really do enjoy the mental side of Domination equally as the physical component. I am charming, interesting and intelligent to attract any type of submissive, from the young and naive to the mature and well-rounded. I am attracted to your mind more than the physical beauty, but I do love to admire the physical beauty like a work of art. Whether they are petite and cute or curvy and voluptuous, or perhaps the vanilla housewife look or the tattooed gothic /punk style; women are fascinating and very complex that I love most of them as they are. However, I do have limits as I detest ignorance and lack of 'care' that I wish not to surround myself with those that are their own worst enemies. WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR: GUYS and out of state/country I don't do cam or Skype, stop asking. Anyone with a severe drug habit or otherwise just sloppy and unkept. Even subs must have a sense of self worth to bring value to themselves. I don't want a worthless sub/slave, I want one of good quality and capable of following orders and detailed instructions and willing to learn. So what am I looking for? Friends first then we will see. I love a good conversation over kik, email, chat or meeting face to face for some coffee or tea. If you can stimulate my mind and imagination I want to talk to you. If you seek being mentored and being inspired I also want to talk to you :) I can't make you one unless you commit and buy in to my teachings and methods. I can mold the broken and demoralized and reform them into confident, sexy and worthy kinksters. FOR EXPERIENCED KINKSTERS: I won't BS you or mistreat you, you've been around the lifestyle and know better, I will respect your limits and opinions .
I will share my picture with those interested all you have to do is ask.
I hold a bachelor and 2 Masters (MA/MS) I am very fit and athletic with tattoos. Employed and an overachiever as I do work full time in the day and part time at night as a college professor teaching writing and foreign languages (I speak more than one).
I am married to a kinkster and we have a very honest and open relationship with this lifestyle.
I will give you the brutal truth and won't hide things from anyone
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If you're claiming sub/slave and trying to get your way, you're neither.
If you're a switch and act like a Dominant and try to impose your will or get your way with another Dominant, you're doing it wrong.
If you're a Dominant and beat your subs unprovoked or without safewords that's not Discipline or BDSM, that's abuse and domestic violence and frowned upon in society.
This lifestyle is just like regular dating, you still need manners and earn trust from the other person. It's not a free pass for you to beat or rape. That is all.
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