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Have photo. May be avail on request. New to the lifestyle, I would like to get to know others of similar interests. Looking for friends online or in person. Both Doms and subs. it would be nice to meet other subs who are experienced or new. On the outside, professionally, I seem dominant but that is not my nature with a significant other. In love, partnership, romance, ultimately I desire a LTR. I do recognize LTR is not something that can be planned but is rather a pleasant surprise at times. i imagine it is important to develop a vanilla 'rapport' before establishing a strong enough trust for a fulfilling D/s relationship. So towards that end, i am a girlie girl but also enjoy athletics, rowdy hockey games, and a round of pool. My interests span from musical theater to action movies, walks around the lake to tennis to horseback riding to lounging with friends on the deck and chatting. I'm pretty open minded and hope you are too. I hope to find a man who can be a Teacher, Lover, Protector, Dominant, Friend, Guide, Disciplinarian, Coach.... I could go on but I imagine you get the idea. My understanding of a D/s relationship is that it goes beyond the bedroom to the mental, psychological growth of an individual as well. I find comfort and satisfaction in pleasing my Master as well as receiving punishment or discipline. Without one, the other would be empty.

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5/22/2012 12:50:26 AM

I did not write this but I do agree with the author. I got this from tumblr.

 

You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.

Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone

You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.

Kinky women are not whores

Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)

Kinky women are not easy

Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.

Kinky women are not objects

Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.

Kinky women have feelings

Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?


5/4/2012 4:31:39 PM

May i just say that this is NOT the best way to approach me. If that's your opening line you might just want to skip my inbox.

 


A sub should be used, spanked and cummed in as much as her Master wants.

4/27/2012 2:34:47 AM

I've learned that there are differences between Master, Dominant, and even Mentor. I wonder if Mentor is similar or different from a Daddy Dom. I recently learned the true definition of the latter - true as opposed to assumed. And yes, you are correct, I probably am not slave material. That wouldn't be a good place to start anyway. Not sure if I quite grasp the difference - I kind of get it but could not explain it I guess.

 I did get a chat request and again, deer in headlights occurred. Probably better if someone emails before they request to chat. Is that unreasonable? Hmm. Perhaps not expected. It is very cool to meet other women in the community. I'm not bi, believe me I've sort of tried and it really doesn't float my boat or should I say wet my whistle... anyway, yeah not my thing. Under directive of a trusted Dominant, however, it is not a hard limit.

 I haven't put a picture up. I've noticed others' pictures. I'm interested ultimately in a LTR as opposed to um casual play so my picture as well as the ones I take seriously are not going to be ones with close ups of genitals. I have to say that getting an email from someone whose photo is lewd is such a turn off.  What else are turn-offs? I'm not really in to humiliation or rather, not interested in it from someone I don't know. Maybe further along in a relationship when trust is established.

 Ironically one of the sexiest emails was one of the shortest I received but is sexy really my priority ok nm that question. Sexy gets attention, yes. My priorities? Intelligence, humour, general personality, common interests of course (I mean the relationship isn't all in the bedroom), and of course there has to be that chemistry. Interestingly I have felt chemistry online in chat. Was a surprise to me anyway... oh and not chat here, haven't done that yet. Chat in game.

 O.k. taking another stab at falling asleep. Your regular insomniac over and out.


4/23/2012 3:03:43 AM

I registered at the beginning of the month. What caused me to register? Frustration i suppose - not being satisfied at that particular moment with this place i'm in in life. D/s has been in my curiosity peripheral vision for a long while but i never took the step, any step really to explore it. It wasn't until recently that i realized being a submissive was something that would satisfy my needs in a relationship.

I think i didn't know what to expect. I think i registered thinking i'd observe more than i would participate. Like a shy girl at a party, i didn't expect to be noticed and once noticed am like a deer in headlights - frozen not sure which way to turn. Honest? I'm terrified. Social anxiety. You wouldn't know it. I forget it at times even. But crowds provide a certain anonymity that intimate encounters do not, no?

So i have to apologize for not replying and perhaps for registering and then not following through and participating. All i can say is that i am honest albeit shy in some ways which perhaps is a form of being secretive. And being secretive is a degree of dishonesty if you really think about it. I am not accustomed to interacting with true dominant males. Most i've met in my lifetime, most men that is, are oddly far from dominant. Perhaps it is a quality truly not developed until later in life? Not sure but my concept of a Dominant from what i have learned, is that there is a degree of wisdom that certainly is not often found in a twenty or thirty year old. Not often. So i think my point was i am in a whole new world and am a bit overwhelmed at the moment. Even now my heart is pounding and am feeling a bit light headed but perhaps that is simply from lack of sleep.

 

 


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