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Hello to all in the kink community,
I've decided to create a profile on collar-me to find someone/s that have a mutual interests as my own. More specifically, to find those that are interested in helping me realize my own sexuality and goals. I'm naturally aggressive or Type-A personality in life, but behind close doors I have a natural tendency submission. Most would think of me as bisexual, but in reality I lean more towards pansexuality. I find both genders equally appealing and anything between the two just adds to the flavor.
I myself might be considered gender fluid in privacy as I can be both a masculine man or a slutty lady. My masculinity/femininity/effemininity varies from day to day from situation to situation. My partners and lovers also have a great influence how I dress, behave, and my sexual role. There are times when I'm an aggressive Dom with some women or trans-women and there are times when I'm a complete slutty sissy to a man or woman. It varies greatly. When in my masculine form, I go by Reid. When in feminine or gender neutral forms I answer to Andrea or Andi. Feel free to call me any of the above until we get to know one another.
I would be most interested in finding a friend/s, play partner/s, or lover/s to get to know and explore both of our sexualities with. Like wisdom and knowledge, I believe sexuality is expanding and evolving. More specifically, I would be interested in finding a Dominant Male, Trans, or Female (leaning more to the men, whether born or trans) to explore total submission with. Those that consider themselves trans-females, crossdressers, or sissies would also be on my list, but I would prefer them to at least be switches, if not a Domme.
I'm attracted to all types of body styles, body hair (shaved smooth or hairy makes no difference), and ethnicities. Personality, intelligence, and willingness to explore are my key factors when looking for a partner or lover. Some men and women are overly concerned about superficial body structures, such as penis size, breast size, height, age, hair color, or some other nonsense. Yes, those can all be nice to look at or could influence attraction at a distance, but the brain is the largest erogenous zone and can stimulate so much more.
There some basic turn-offs that I can not get passed. Basic hygiene is paramount for me; especially oral hygiene. Liars, cheaters, and fakes will not be tolerated. I am completely fine with someone maintaining a professional life and keeping it separate from private life; I do myself. However, if you have another partner or lover then they must be aware. At some point I would at may even like to chat with or meet them. Those that believe they must alter their state of mind for play do not rank highly in my scheme of things. I do drink socially. I may even need a beverage to calm down when meeting new people. However, needing to be drunk, stoned, or on some other high to have a good time, whether sexual or not, isn't something I'm comfortable with.
In regards to STI and safer sex, I will always require a condom for penetration; either anal or vaginal. I would also like you to know your status and be tested regularly if we find ourselves in a non-monogamous relationship. It is 2014, condoms and screenings are regularly available. If you choose to neither, than I doubt we could be more than friends no matter how much we click.
It is impossible to get to know someone simply through a profile and it would be equally impossible for me to write my entire list of sexual desires, hopes, wishes, dislikes, and experiences on here. If you have a question, ask me. I'm an open book. I do have limits that I will not cross, but I also have soft-limits that a dominate may be able to push. The worst I can say is no, but there is no harm in asking as I'm not a judgmental person.
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