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People grow and change, and my relationship with my wife has become fluid and open. What does that mean? It means we have a strong relationship, it means I love her very much, it means we are married and committed, but it also means that our kink needs have changed. There is now room in my life for a submissive woman.
I am active in the kink community, a kink educator, an experienced Mistress, and will lead you to a place of complete submission that fulfills all your needs. I am an advocate for submissives, and believe they have rights to go along with the submission they give. If you'd like to know about me you can look at my blog Jolynn Raymond's Dark Obsessions. I am a published author of eleven books, one of them focusing on BDSM power exchange relationships.
I seek someone who is intelligent above all else. She should understand that I love my wife and would meet my wife, but I also would cherish her as my submissive, and recognize that her needs are very important. I offer respect, training, guidance, structure, and discipline along with a large array of BDSM play skills. I am adept in canes, floggers, whips, electric play, tease and denial, orgasm control, anal sex (giver), sex toys, sensation play, spanking, believe in safe, sane consensual, and understand the need for proper aftercare. i even have my own dungeon.
I would prefer a D/s relationship that isn't simply based on play and sex. Mental dominance and submission is a wonderful bond, and I want your mind as well as your body. I am a sadist, but am able to match my play level to my partners needs. I can be full on take all I can give in implement play to a softer erotic sensual play. They both bring me satisfaction when there is the mental exchange and sharing of power.
I am not interested in someone who is seeking an escape and wishes to be supported. I am not seeking a slave, I am seeking a deep D/s relationship with a woman who knows her own self, but wants a dominant woman to take control. Online is not doable unless you can travel.
Ladies who wish to join a Kink family and expand their knowledge of service and BDSM are welcome. By kink family I mean a group of those people from the local BDSM community who are close enough or tied to me and each other like a family.
I have very high standards, and I am fussy, so be warned. I believe in using high protocol with my submissives during training. Interested women should read my profile (all of it) and contact me through my email. Your application should be well worded and free of spelling errors. Remember, manners impress me as do well written emails. One liners will be deleted unread.
I do not seek a man at this time. I do not seek a man at this time. I do not seek a man at this time.
If you are a man and simply must have contact with me, call or write me on NiteFlirt under my author name of Jolynn Raymond.
If I seek a male submissive in the future, the following would apply.
For men -
Note!!! This position would include kinky play in many, many forms including chastity, but does not include sex.
The main service of the male submissive I seek is someone who wished to be dominated and serve a woman of power. Being able to follow directions is a must. If you try my patience during our get to know you stage and can't remember details and requests, then you will not impress me. I am a no nonsense Domme.
What you will get out of this arrangement is ability for foot worship, impact play that does not include sex with me but can include supervised masturbation or a happy ending after we play, humiliation, and being kept in chastity. All these are rewards for good service. Punishment for lack of manners, failure in duties, laziness, tardiness, and such would be swift and unpleasant. Impact play for rewards and a swift punishment are two very different things and I am VERY adept at knowing what a true punishment is.
**One note. I have two long haired cats and a dog. If you are allergic or dislike pets this is NOT the position for you. If they are frightened or upset by you, you will not be able to serve in my home.**
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