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Monogamous Man back from a visit in vanillaland. What was I thinking?
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Below is an excerpt from David Mamet's movie "House of Games"
The confidence man is talking with his middle-aged mark, describing what a "tell" is
and revealing that he can read her's:
Mike- Do you wanna make love with me?
Margaret- Excuse me?
Mike-Because you're blushing. That's a tell.
The things we think, the things we want.
We could do them or not do them.
Margaret-What is it you think I want?
Mike-I'll tell you.
Somebody to come along.
Somebody to possess you.
To take you into a whole new thing.
Would you like that?...
Do you want that?
Margaret-Yes.......
What he isn't telling her is, we all want to be taken or led into a whole new thing, something that is ours alone.
I am not a player looking for kinky sex or a fun weekend. I know that being a Master is more than just getting my way when the lights are low. It is a responsibility and one I take seriously.
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I am looking for a long-term, committed, relationship with the right girl. I have tried vanilla relationships but always feel like I am going through the motions with lead shoes on. There is something special about the bond between a Master and his girl. It goes beyond love and has a substance like no other. I want it. I deserve it and I will have it. I certainly won't go for another visit in vanillaland. Have a few funny stories to tell about that, but that can wait.
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My screen name, "In Plain Sight" is a description of just what I want. A real relationship that appears like any other to the outside world, yet deep down, in public and in private is rooted in the D's and the honor between a Man and his girl.
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I haven't been on CM in a number of years, but I see things here are much the same. It's probably best if I state a few preferences up front:
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If you feel this is all about the sex, move along. I like sex and according to every one of my partners, I know more about bringing pleasure to a woman than any Man they have ever known. I have turned anorgasmic women into convulsing orgasm machines begging to have them stop. Yet, this is not all about sex for me and if it is for you, we won't get along, because, I feel, you miss the point.
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If this is all about the kink for you, move along. I am one seriously twisted, ruthless and kinky bastard, but the kink, like the sex, is an expression of the bond I am looking for, not the goal.
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I will leave the "move alongs" go at that for the moment. I am sure there will be more, but they can wait. I am not a negative person and don't like to dwell there.
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I am old-school. Protective and supportive. I am a gentleman. I hold the door open for a lady, open her car door, hold the umbrella over her head when it rains. It's just my nature. I want my girl to be successful in all that she does and aspires to to. I will support and encourage her to be the best she can be. Service and commitment to me should not be the end of "her", but a great new beginning.?
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Right now, I am just perusing the site looking for someone to create that "whole new thing" with. I am not yet interested in soliciting a potential partner. If I viewed your profile, I found something interesting about you. Say Hello if you think you might be the one.
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I need to see to my responsibilities, so I will close for now.
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Kind thoughts
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Went for a walk in the park with a potential girl. Nice day. Busy place. Just a walk and talk. It was pleasant.
I talked with her a few days later and asked her about her impressions about the stroll. She said, "You are so tall and so calm. Your calm and measured nature and stature are very intimidating. You were a perfect gentleman, but my legs were shaking every minute..out of control."
i mentioned that might be what this kind of relationship is all about And she told me she realized she was just a tourist, passing through. |
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It seems unlikely that most here could serve in real life. They would have to live in the real world. |
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To answer a few questions: I am single and only interested in a monogamous, exclusive relationship. |
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Getting really tickled reading entries from girls saying, "Oh gosh, I am just swamped with email." Well, of course you are. It's a free site open to every wanker in the world. Sorting out the boys emailing you from their mother's basement from the serious and responsible Men, that's the trick. That's why I think it best if the serious among you contact me, instead of the other way around. |
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| Age: 25 |
| Alberta,
United Kingdom |
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