I want someone who, to the outside world is a friend; someone I can spend time with, take to see my family, watch a game, have a coffee, etc., yet in the confines of our homes can dominate me in mind, body, and soul.  Someone who doesn't have to hurt me to control me.  I have yet to find anyone who fits that description.

I've been told anyone can be hypnotized, yet as much as I want to be, it never seems to work...should there be anyone who can help me out with this, send me a message.

Done

I'll show you if you show me....

Need to be pushed, but in the right way...

Not gay, but becoming desperate to try it.......

Looking for someone close by.....discreet and interested in dominating me in a sensual way....not looking to be bruised, just taken control of.

I have always been attracted to women.  There is no doubt in my mind that women are what arouse me most, as even as a small boy I had fantasies of surrenduring total control to a powerful woman.  One day, as a teen, I encountered another male in a chatroom who started flirting with me.  My heart raced and my palms got sweaty.  Why was I aroused by another man?  I started feeling that same desire, to surrender control.  I have always tried to bury the desire to surrender to a man while opening myself to the idea of giving control to a woman.  So I come and go from this site.  Lately, I can not cum without fantasizing about being controled by a man.  Who am I?  What does this make me?  I look at photos of women and I get hard, then fantasize about a man making me cum.  It´s all so strange to me......

I will do what I am told......

It seems no matter how hard I try, I can not escape what's inside......

Ideally looking for:

Sensual playmate

M/F

Age 21-35

In relatively good physical condition.

Interested in exploring sensual yet somewhat outside the norm sexual desires.

Friends with kinky fantasies.

Say hello and we can talk.

While I have forbidden myself from cumming (for the time being) I found myself aroused watching a gay porn video....wondering where this is going.

Is it possible for sexual preferences to intensify and weaken in intensity?

My sexual preference is women, my sexual curiosity is men.

Looking for a way to challenge myself, whether it be by trying to force myself to overcome a personal limit, or do something i have never done before....suggestions are welcome and appreciated.

Just looking for people to talk to for now....think I may have found the one I want to explore with....can I do it?

Inching ever closer, but still not ready to cross that line.....or am I?

Really just searching for people to talk to right now....should I find someone, awesome, but I think right now, talking is the best way to get out some of my thoughts.

So I decided that the type of person I am searching for will probably be somone who read's the entire profile, so here it goes:

I've been on this site on and off for years.....first, strictly looking for a Domme, then considered either Dom or Domme, and most recently discovered that my real search is for other subs, both male and female, who thrive on being instructed on what to do.  I realized my fantasy of pleasuring another male for a Domme was really a subconcious attempt to justify pleasuring another male without a feeling of guilt or shame.  I have no interest in pain, cross dressing, or being locked in a cage.  Rather, I seek another who wants to explore the more taboo subjects of sexual intimacy.  I have recently accepted the idea that I am bisexual, not gay, nor strictly heterosexual.  As far as my everyday life goes, if I were to find a woman to marry and have a family with, that is my plan, however I don't want to wake up one day regretting never having experienced everything life has to offer, from both males and females.  I would not consider a long term relationship with a male, but that being said, I probably would not want a long term relationship with a sub female either, as our personalities would never allow for true satisfaction.  So, do I want to connect with a Dom?  Yes, provided I am not required to wear a dress or lay over his knee.  Would I want to play with another male sub?  Most definitely, provided it's discreet, safe, and under the knowledge that we can be friends with benefits but nothing more.  Am I asking a lot?  Perhaps, but I believe there are those out there who share my inner thoughts and desires.  If you've read this much, maybe you should send me a message.......

I imagine there is no one quite like what I am seeking.

I wonder if sometimes I get my hopes up too high.

Thinking about doing something crazy....contact me before I change my mind.......

Females are fun to please, but suddenly have the urge to explore males........

Looking for a "gym buddy."  I used to get to the gym 4-5 days a week, but lately I have been slacking off.  Thinking maybe a "friend with benefits" would help inspire me to get back in shape. 

Males or females only please....no unsures, in-betweens, or pretenders...nothing personal, just not my thing.  Thank you.

A place, unspecified, maybe a hotel.....two people, nameless, strangers even, together only for one moment, one purpose....to explore, to be what they would otherwise be afraid to be....

Looking for someone not so different than myself......want to explore.

Reaching a point where I feel if I don't take chances, I will never live life.....looking for someone to help me experience....everything...scared to make the jump and looking for help......

Recently I was presented a choice.....take it from behind from a woman with a strap on, or receive a handjob from a male....still haven't decided which to choose.