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UNDER SONSIDERATION OF AN AMAZING COUPLE HOPEFULLY I WILL BE WORSHIPPING AT THIER FEET SOON!!!!!! So often on these sites I read profiles that completely countradict what you claim to be and what you say you want from a D's relationship. This is sorta nerve racking because as a well trained servant, I've had the honor of being trained by some great Mistress's and Masters in my 17 years of being a slave. But it also gives me great Insight on what is a good down to earth real profile and what is a line of bull shit typed in the profiles either out of desperation or greed or just people trying to read free BDSM litature. My Owners will benefit from my service, first and foremost is thier comfort, I am not certified as a chef but I've been complimented as a great cook, the she Cuopped would not be a problem for me! I can make almost anything into a meal. I cook, clean, do laundry, scrub floors walls and windows, if you have children i know how to act around children to keep it from becoming a problem. If they are teens and you've enlightened them even better but until you state they have some kind of control I will hear what they say, but not do anything for them without instructions from my Owners. My job in life is serve protect and obey you. But before I serve you these 9 beliefs need to be considered. I want a 24/7/365 situation. About me and my true beliefs.
1. Women should rule the world! I understand that many men are going to disagree with this philosophy, but if you look at our track records as rulers and heads of households it's not a very good path we have built for future generations. On any given day our country is on the verge of war or economic break down, we as men are horrible at nagotiations and better planning, we try to fix what is not broken and upgrade what is already running fine. Really in the scheme of things or the "bigger picture" women are more decisive and plan better than we do, they don't waste time and effort trying to reinvent the wheel. They tend to do what needs to be done instead of what they want to be done, and in spite of obstacles, they are more patient at bypassing the odds placed against them.
2. Some of us humans believe the world owes us something, well that's not the case and life and laws generally prove it to us daily. The silver spoon we think we have entitled to us is really a product of our imaginations. The reality is that at some point life is going to slap us in the face with a wake up call, and we are going to have to face the bullshit it tends to throw at everyone. We avoid it with our every oppertuniy but life will catch up to us eventually.
3. We are all submissive to something, wether it be money, toys, hobbies, or other interests we stumble upon in life. We find ourselves trying to wrap ourselves around those interests as much as we can and become victims to th addictions. IE... Some men like fast cars, think of how much money we spend trying to build the perfect racing machines, how much you think about the next project to improve your car or engine, or how excited you get when a new performance part comes available. Then you go from submissive to dominant trying to get those tools and parts because your addicted to it. All in all we are all switches when our interests are involved.
4. Taking the responsibility of dominating another is no small feat! You need to place the needs of yourself your intimate others and now your servants into account for survival, do you make enough money to survive? Can you add an extra mouth to your household? Is this something you can keep from others? What will others say or do if this comes to light? Do you care what others think, work associates, family, friends, ect....? are you truely ready to tKe on servants?
5. Children! At ages 1 through about 10 mom and dad are the boss, but soon comes the teenage years and social acceptance! The times when kid's curiosity and rebellion starts, boy crazy or girl crazy starts, sex talks and dating, drugs and alcohol conversations, school troubles and them wanting thier free spaces away from parents and more with thier friends. Having slaves becomes dangerous if your trying to keep the kids noses out of it. This is something you need to look at before accepting the role as owners.
6. Lifestyle vs experimentation, do you want a live in sub or slave? Is it within your means? Are you doing this because you truely want to be catered to constantly or just to spice things up a bit? If you and your significant other are doing this to fix a problem or your both strong enough to maintain it? Where one maybe on board the other may not be fully cooporative with the scenario.
7. if your dynamic is Dom / sub or slave, or Domme/ sub or slave already have established a control factor or TPE in your home, therefore is bringing in a third going to be better or worse on your relationship? Even D's lifestylers get jealous, issues build and relationships get complicated. Is that third going to be affective to the dynamic or even beneficial? It's like children being involved you don't stay together for the children's sake if your not happy, because eventually war will ensue and the child will suffer from it. Well don't bring in a third of your already feeling the bumps of a bad relationship developing.
8. A sub has rights! They are called hard limits, during the contract phase of the D's relationship limits and hard limits are established by both parties involved, the most common are no children involvement, no law breaking on either side, very limited public exposure, act as a friend when family come around, ect... If your worried about your family and dear friends finding out who you are inside D's may not be your cup of tea! At worse case scenario your mom might get mad or friends walk away from you, so what it's who you are! If that scares you then your hiding who and what you are. Hiding from co workers is understandable, jobs are important, but otherwise why be ashamed?
9. If you are a sub or slave you do as your told, you kiss your owners feet when they snap or tell you to, if you have to wait for them to take a shower or put on a new pair of shoes or boots than its all just for show! A slave does it when he/she is told no matter when or where they are told to do it! Doesn't matter if it's in a bedroom behind closed doors or in a mall on Black Friday. Your told to do it you do it.
being a slave for me means surrendering all finances assets property's to my Owners, property can't own property, your vacuumed doesn't own the mop, my Owners own the mop and vacume. If I work or maintain employment the pay goes to them for thier management. I crawl in thier presence, I kiss the feet of my Owners both to thank them for Owning me or to show loyality and obedience to my superiors. That what service is.
some stuff needs to be said for my protection and your delusions to be squashed! please read journal.
Slave Duties! what does a slave do to or for thier owner? first a slave is property of its owner. It isn't a male or female or cd or tv, it is a "It" it is straight, bi, gay, pan or whatever the Owner is in the mood for at that moment. A slave cooks cleans laundry, handyman, mechanic, massuse, Gardner, lawn and yard maintenence, dog poop scooper painter chauffer errand boy Orr girl shoe licker foot worshipper, furniture, personal trainer, pet. slaves really have no hard limits outside of basic common decency such as no kids or law breaking, otherwise the Owner determine what limits the slave will have. Or how to dress o anything at all, what it likes or doesn't like, who it worships and prays to, why its thankful to serve and above all else the Owner manages all finances even if the slave contributes.
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FinDommes! I know several good quality FinDommes in this lifestyle, I've had them explain facts vs fiction and most I see on here are Fictional findommes I refuse to even capatalize the term FinDomme on this site due to 99.9% of these so called findomme's that want money mainly because they are lazy peices of shit that want a silver spoon placed in thier hand instead of working to be successful or that thier husbands or boyfriends either don't make enough or won't cater to the lifestyle they dream about. Or look at thier wish lists !!!! A true Domme is not going to wear or purchase anything from Amazon! That's like buying shoes or clothes from Walmart. Lol even seen a couple wish lists with video games on them like call of duty! Really your photo says your a classy lady but you play call of duty? Nice try boys.

i will surrender financial control to my Owners! Not some young couple that says hello once in a while via email, then wants lavish gifts of tribute to go further! Please if half of you knew a little about this lifestyle you would fix your profiles and act accordingly. This lifestyle requires two things 1. Extreme trust ( that's not dozens of emails if your not going to exchange numbers or Skype or FaceTime don't waste my time) I am aware this isn't very submissive in what I'm saying! But I've been in this lifestyle along time and know bullshit when I see it. I take this lifestyle very serious even if you don't , I read dozens of books on it and practiced in many communities including some nationally recognized ones.

lastly, I plan to relocate to my Owners but that's only after a definite relationship is established. I am a certified Motorcycle mechanic and plan to get my Harley Davidson very after my military retirement in about a year or so (which allows plent of time to build a relationship) in any area a Harley mech make about 25 an hour and that's a pretty nice weekly paycheck at my owner's feet. Plus a military pension check of roughly 2000 a month. So no Im not a free loader. My Owners will live very comfortable.
sexykitten08
 
 Age: 23
  California