I have come to the conclusion the chivalry and dom/me can not be used in the same sentence unless it entails it being non-existent.

I have become very frustrated by the fact that no one makes an effort to be a decent regular person and carry on a conversation when they send a message on this site. 

And I dont understand why dom/mes dont want to get to know a sub before talking about submission. 

I keep thinking maybe the lifestyle is not for me because I dont seem to be finding what I am looking for.  But then I hope ... maybe just maybe it is not me.  Alas I am not sure what the point of this unread rant was but...it was a rant none the less.