I am an experienced Dominant who approaches D/s as I do life; with focus, intensity, clarity, joy and passion.

While I revel in the physical release of power exchange, it is the intimate psychological and emotional aspect of BDSM (and, more importantly, an authentic relationship fully grounded in Domination and submission) that truly feeds my soul and, I hope, feeds yours.

I'm genuine, honest and serious in my search, and I expect those who contact me to be also. Here then, in more substance and detail, is what I seek:

* A girl who longs for One to inspire and to own her, such that she is most happy and wholly fulfilled when given the opportunity to serve him in the most genuine and heartfelt way, and in every dimension.

* A relationship in which the Dominant truly takes his girl’s best interest to heart and uses his authority, wisdom, resources, intellect and power of discipline to improve her quality of life, bring her greater happiness and contentment, and help her achieve that which she might not otherwise have been able to on her own. Conversely, this also means a girl who is open to such guidance, and who knows that to seek and to crave it in no way diminishes her own intelligence, self-confidence or capabilities as a person.

* A girl with an ability and willingness to submerge herself in the beauty and intensity of raw, relentless, passionate sex and physical interaction without inhibition or restraint – except, of course, what commonsense dictates is dangerous or unsafe. Along these lines, and barring ill-health, the girl simply must always be prepared to submit herself to him for his use and pleasure. And likewise, as the one who owns and protects her, he must have a consistent and relentless urge to take her. The girl must feel wanted, desired, the object of lust and affection equal in intensity to her Master’s willingness and ability to take her at will.
Along these lines, I pay close attention to detail and especially enjoy pursuing and exploring that electric connection that exists between the soul and the sexual self.

* A relationship where openness of communication is the absolute norm and resentments are not permitted to fester, because it is these unspoken things that can do the greatest damage to the long-term potential for happiness.

* A partner with a good sense of humor, who is also wise and informed, though I recognize that wisdom and knowledge can be acquired in myriad ways and aren’t always represented by the number of letters that might follow your name, if any. If you take a genuine interest in the world around you that also counts for a lot.

Now here is a bit more about me:

Being Dominant is not a "role" that I choose for myself, it is simply the way that I am; authentically and without artifice. Protocol and formality have their place, but not as a substitute for asserting natural Dominance, or triggering deep and heartfelt submission.

D/s is not compartmentalized or hidden away in some corner of my life, nor is it an outlet or symptom of some emotional dysfunction. D/s is a core part of my being and my passion. As such, what I seek most is a TPE relationship which can be fully integrated into the real-world cycle of life which also values friends, family, work, and professional pursuits. I understand the importance of normalcy - of intelligent conversation, cooking a great meal at home, eating out, finding a good movie, feeding and watering a broad social network of close friends or of going someplace new to explore. I take full enjoyment in a wide range of activities that "normal" people engage in, because, after all, I'm quite normal as well.

I am athletic and healthy, 5' 10” and 165 lbs, with hazel eyes and short brown hair. I am a distance and marathon runner who enjoys cycling, sailing, hiking, swimming and other endurance and outdoor activities. If you do also, that's a significant plus.

If you are seeking a Dominant who is safe, smart, and sincere in his approach and you are likewise serious in your search, feel free to drop me a note and we can take it from there.

Of course as with many things in life, one cannot presuppose where things may lead, but I place a premium on the potential of securing something lasting and I am fully prepared to invest the energy necessary to sustain a real relationship that is grounded firmly in D/s for the long-term.