I honestly don't get the whole Daddy Dom thing. I get that it's supposed to be a nurturing thing, but I can nurture and care for another adult without having to be called/labeled Daddy. Besides, isn't the role of ANY Dominant/Top/Master to be caring and nurturing? I have no issues when it's used as a term of endearment between two consenting adults, but when it transitions into sexual role play, to me that is crossing the line. 

One of the MOST precious gifts I have ever been given are my kids and they are the only ones allowed to call me daddy. When I see a sexualization of the role of a daddy/father it turns my stomach to be honest. I am also aware that there are those with pedophile tendencies who use the whole Daddy Dom thing to act out sick sexual fantasies about kids that they cant legally fulfill and I refuse to condone that. 

I am probably one of the most tolerant people online. I have friends who are into the whole Daddy thing, I don't judge them, it's not my place, however I also know their motivations in the usage. To me personally, I can't and won't do it. YKINMK (Your Kink Is Not My Kink) but I respect your right to have it and all that. I can tell you one thing, if I was being sexual with someone and they called me Daddy, my cock would deflate so fast it wouldn't be funny. 

I have spent many years working with a couple of organizations that track child sexual predators online for prosecution and you would be amazed at the correlation between role play which transitions into sexual abuse offline. So, when I see a Daddy dom looking for his "baby" I immediately grow suspicious of their motivations.

I have been asked a couple of times in the past week if I am Nilla, which totally cracks me up. I am far from Nilla. You wont see me textually thumping my chest about what a perfect Domly Master I am in the chatrooms, you wont see me bragging about my experiences in the chatrooms, I am not here to impress anyone, just to make them laugh hopefully. 

Yes I have owned, I owned a slave for many years until she had a chance at a career that she would have been insane to turn down, so I set her free to become the woman I knew she could be. She still calls me Master and I still call her pet as she will always have that part of my heart.  

Yes I have Dominated, I still do as a matter of fact. I have "friends with benefits" in which the "benefit" is I get to test their limits mentally and physically. They all know about each other which makes it interesting sometimes. However with my kids, I don't bring it around my home.  

So, if you don't view me as a Dominant/Master/Top, I have no issues with that. Tells me I am doing something right because it's natural, not forced or an act put on to impress people.

It has come to my attention that someone is accusing me of stalking them. All I can say to that is, SHE WISHES. I tried to be her friend, even after she confessed to me that her ENTIRE online life is a lie, I have the chatroom log to back this up. Even though she wants to cry invasion of privacy, as she was so fond of saying to others, if you post it in an open room, you lose your reasonable expectation of privacy, so if you want to read it shoot me a private message and I will be glad to share it.

She accused me of being a hacker, so I called in the police and a forensic computer examiner to prove I am not one if needed. I have the report and surprise, nothing illegal there, including the absence of any downloads that might violate the DMCA. So, her accusations of me hacking her personal shit is just that, shit. By the way, because of some work I do, my logs, etc... can't be doctored and a copy of them are stored offsite on a neutral server automatically. I have no access to them without a subpoena, since they are sometimes needed in court proceedings. She would have known things like this if she would have spent less time trying to force me into a relationship and more time getting to know me.

Shes also claiming I stalk her on Facebook, CollarMe, Yahoo, Gmail, etc... more lies to deflect from the truth, the truth is I didn't need her brand of crazy in my life while battling cancer. She kept trying to push me into a relationship even though I make it blatantly clear that I am not looking for anything but friendship. The straw that broke the camels back was the night I was having bad side effects from a medicine and she goes ballistic after I miss one PM attempt, a PM sent after I had kicked her out of my PMs the day before because of her crazy and told her that if she wanted my attention, she needed to address me in the chatroom.

The funny thing is, she reports me, yet she's the one who gets in trouble because I fulfill my burden of proof and she doesn't. I am not the one who got banned from SLUTS, I am not the one getting warnings from my ISP regarding email harassment, I am not the one running around private messaging people and lying trying to cover my own lies, she is.

This got to the point I retained legal counsel and have been following their instructions, including screencapping her most recent blog post on CollarMe, not replying to her threatening emails but forwarding them to my contact at her ISP and basically ignoring any reference to her. She is the one stalking me, not the other way around.

I need to make something clear, I am not looking and definitely not online if I were. An agreement to allow someone to get to know me on a deeper level, doesn't mean I wish to commit to you, I don't. I think we MIGHT be friends if we get to know each other better, but if you try to flip the script on me and get deeper feelings without my consent, dismissed for violating my hard limit. I never promise anything more than friendship, been my thing for many, many years and backed up by the word of people who have known me for most of those years. If this sounds harsh, I don't apologize, recent events showed me I needed to be brutally honest about this in order to clarify my stance. 

"I would love to see single subs/slaves wearing their own collars first, collar yourself, respect yourself, know yourself before you allow someone else to collar you, online or offline."

I posted this on another site, but felt I needed to say it here also.