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I am currently looking to find a girl who understands her needs and that she will be used guilt hard but with sense , hurting is one thing HARMING is not the same. I would be happy with a subslave couple as well, as long as the male understands I am straight so I would never have any sexual actiity with him . So if this is a need, do not be shy come and tell me. There is a major difference between a submissive and a slave, Neither is better or more needed than the other, as each brings the level of surrender they have. I personally would prefer a slave, however as always it depends also on the connection that she and I have, as this will often change the level of surrender she gives to me. I am a long time master and Dom male. I have the tools, devices and mental ability to control and guide you, own and keep you, long term, short term and even one offs (though that is not what I look for). I can even train and mould a subslave to your needs if you do not have the skills or the time.
I offer is ownership and to be living here with me or if it is better for us me living there as mine is paid off, I can rent or sell it, I am in the lucky situation as to not have to work, this gives me more time than most.
You need to want this fully, be ready to surrender to me totally. put your trust in me, as I put mine in you,. For me the trust is very important, without it there can not be true surrender and true control, if you are always on edge or unsure of the commitment the responses you are getting.
I need this, its a big part of me, not just for fun (though it is often fun). I can travel, accom, meet discreetly or overtly. So if you want to know more come and chat we will see if we can make things work for the benefit of both.
I can deal with you having me as your owner dom while still having your oter relationship and to have me keep your secret so you do not loose your other life.
I am here to find the right sub slave for me not just a one off play mate. I know things have to start someplace but if you are not wanting to be owned at some stage then we will not connect.
Over the years I have done this I have been very lucky to have found some great partners in this world some came and went because of their needs, some because of mine. I hope I continue to be as lucky to have had some amazing women in my life. be it the sexy girl from London who travelled up to see me every two weeks or so to the one who only lived a couple of miles away.
Over the years I have found that this is NOT just about sex, its much more than this. Though I love the sex and take a lot of it. I see the things we do and see that the having sex is just that sex that vanillas do just as well as we do BUT it is the connection to the subslave Dom Master little daddy, that makes it so different. This shows that this is so much about the mind not the body as such, it is the mind that makes her dripping wet when I say knees now when in vanilla world she would say Fuck off thinking me mad for expecting her to kneel when told. however what I have noticed is the vanilla world sex drops off early in the relationship where in the bdsm world it last so much longer and with the right connections the trust is so much greater than in the vanilla world. Though sadly when our relationships fail for whatever reason we seem to get more hurt as we have both master and slave given so much more of ourselves to the relationship. There is not much that is wrong if both parties crave and need it
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So I have been on cs for quite a few years now when it had a different name and worked a lot differently. I have noticed over say the last 10 yrs things have changed a great deal. before that I had in some ways great meetings with many sub/slave females some lasted a while some lasted one meeting (for various reasons I am sure some reasons they ended were due to me just as some ending were down to them or outside influences ) now however it seems ( and I have no issue with different wants needs and mindsets ) there are vast waves of trans on the site yet they still do not all identify that way so we find them in all the different groups, while in gerneral other interest parties stay in their own grouping I do not know why this isadd to that the it seems to me vast number now filling the ranks of cs so when I look on the site it seems every other person is trans. Is this right or am i jsut noticing more as I look to find straight or bi females |
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Where are all the female submissives these days ? I have no issues with any sexual choice but it seems the site has a vast number of trans right now making it harder to find what you want if you are not interested in trans or infact trans Maybe we should have the groups properly sub divided better. So everyone can get to their choices fastr and with less effort |
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So new and those who do not know..... hypnosis Never can get you to do anything you would not normally do. It is a tool, using relaxation to assist you to do the things you want help with the relaxation is important once in that nice warm safe place you are more able to let go but only doing things you would do. You can stop it anytime even when under the hypnosis. You can not be altered or made to do bad things or things you hate. anyone telling you different are lying and fakes. If in doubt ask a clinical hypnosis user. |
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Over the years I have done this I have been lucky in a that I have spent time with some very good subs and slave. I have managed to change lives some fro the better and I hope none for the worse.
I have talked to many dom/master and see that many have not found a connection with those on the sites. So many feeling they just want one (sub/slave) not the right one which is of course where it goes wrong. Be you sub /slave dom /master we should not settle but look for what we really want, It may not work out just like the settling ones but hopefully it will give both more during their time together.
Even to lowest of the low still need things respect for what they are and bring a feeling of security be it just a cage, the knowing he or she cares is important to all of us. |
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lost my profile twice in last two months for some reason so thanks for that c/s was talking with couple that looked like was about to be confirmed after they requested a contract for each of them to sign. On the lost of second profile they say not thanks its scares them a little that my profile keeps vanishing, So thanks a lot for that c/s.
Now, I still see vast amount of these stupid ''findommes'' sad little spoilt girls, whom think simply because (some) are cute, they should be paid ! lol sad little girls thinking looks are what they live on. Well hope every stupid man that's paid any of these fools gets their act together and stops so the lazy arsed bitches can pay their own way
I have done this for many years I have a lot of equipment and devices to hold contain girls as I am straight I do not take on single men. I will take on couples as long as both are sub/slave or he is sissy or cluck. I can also take on female couples as long as they understand that most of the use will be by males with some female use as well. |
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