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After a short time on this site, I feel as if a complete profile overhaul is necessary.
People are people, here just as anywhere else. How we each see ourselves, others, and the world around us, as well as how we define concepts such as respect, care, honesty and love, is as infinitely different, as individuals are. The person I choose to be, the way I choose to treat others and how I both see and live life is fixed, but I strive to grow from the wisdom life grants.
Through this wisdom, Ive learned what works in relationships for me, and conversely, what does not. I realize that no matter how well I think Ive defined myself or the type of man I need to fit best alongside, this is just another exercise in futility due to subjective comprehension, however some definition is required.
I am an intelligent, strong, attractive, playful, youngish woman. I am confident, loyal, respectful, kind, HONEST, sincere and genuinely happy. I have an open heart and accept people for who and what they are, even if they are still a mystery to themselves in some respects. I am extremely emotionally intelligent and receptive but do not often act or react on emotion. I bring joy, warmth and adoration to one deserving of it. I am not damaged and will never attribute the deficits of past relationships or partners onto the present one.
I do not NEED a relationship and will not settle for one that is not all I need it to be and do not want anyone settling for me. I am not looking for a roll in the hay, an online troll or games of any sort. Yes, I have taken into account the nature of this site, so if you are not looking for a healthy, fulfilling relationship first and foremost, we have nothing to discuss.
I have very few friends in my age group and similarly, tend not to gravitate towards my peers for romantic relationships. I prefer the stability, in all respects, of older gentlemen. Although we would expect our elders to have their shit together, this isnt always the case as Ive learned. If that shoe fits, march on fella! I truly am seeking the highest quality of relationship, which can only be had by two, high quality people.
The odds are against me, but I have nothing to lose and an eternity to wait for someone remarkable to take my hand, not merely talk about doing so.
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