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Stop staring at my titles!(if you are scared of reading or lots of words run away now)
If you are outside of the country or in most cases not with a reasonably commutable distance I'm not interested. Although I'm not entirely opposed to the idea of moving for someone, I would have to get to know you extremely well before I would even entertain the idea! And yes that means in the real non virtual world and more than once. That also means you commuting here some of the time.
I am a switch. I am a switch for a reason.No, it's not because I just haven't made up my mind, am confused or am just a sub with "control issues". Although I can and do full time sub for special dominants, it comes with the caveat that I must be allowed to have subs of my own to scene with. I can be in a monogamous relationship, but must be allowed non sexual play with my subbies. Although I am not in a poly or leather family, I usually have a submissive in tow if I'm looking for a dominant or vise virsa! I usually only serve one dominant at a time, unless my dominant decides otherwise, but am always willing to entertain the idea of taking on more subs. And I'm always open and interested in play(public or private)as a bottom.
I'm not interested AT ALL in online play, we can talk online but I don't play or scene online. Real world interaction please!
And just so you know, no, sending me a giant picture of your junk(ie. privates, genitals, woo woos and wee wees, e.t.c.) is not a good way to break the ice! Conversation and introductions usually are a lot better received by me,chances are I've seen better!
A Note About Me and Protocol: I generally don't do high or formal protocol, it mostly bores the shit out out of me. However, I will generally abide by basic "common sense" rules. However, I PERSONALLY WILL NOT ADDRESS YOU AS SHIT. Don't expect it as a given, RESPECT and TITLES ARE EARNED! I always expect courtesy, respect and basic manors.If you are contacting me as a Domme, we can discuss my requirements for protocol, once I determine I will accept you as a sub.
I generally abide by R.A.C.K. ...and expect you to as well!
Please don't be offended if you message me and it takes me awhile to get back to you. I have a high volume of mail...I will try to answer all reasonable correspondence.
Okay now that you made it past the piles of disclaimers.....
Be forewarned dominating me is a difficult prospect. I have to be "taken in hand" so to speak. I tend to be bit "spirited". If you don't like a sub with a bit of fight and spirit, I'm not the right kind of sub for you. I need, want and enjoy being dominated in a loving and caring, but unwavering and hard dominant style! If you are up for the challenge, I love and enjoy being a sub! (all good things worth having take a little time and work right?).I am a pain slut. But I also enjoy d/s dynamics. And I am an eternally great full sub to the master or mistress who can manage to get the job done, and I can become (with the right training of course) an adoring, worshiping, compliant and obedient submissive!
There is no one way to describe me as a Domme as it all depends on the sub. I can be at turns demanding and sadistic and at others sensual and nurturing(sometimes even in the same session). It entirely depends on the dynamic of me and my sub. One thing I am absolutely insistent about as a dominant is that you be able to tell me what you expect from me, as far as defining fetishes, limits, safe words and what is off limits in order to play! I will not engage in any one on one play, if this discussion does not take place! It is not fair to you and it's not fair to me. No, it is not a substitute for intimacy and trust, but it is a framework to build those things on!. If you are new to BDSM we can walk though them together.
I'm tall, about 5'11" or so, even taller once I put on my 6 inch platform high heels. I'm very curvy and built like a old school pin up . I have an all natural 38F chest..yes, you did read that right. And I have legs that go on for miles. My hair tends to change with my mood but mostly stays all black or stop sign red, or black with crazy streaks of blond, blue, pink or red(I almost never go anything in a "natural" shade range). My personal "style" tends to lie loosely somewhere in between "gothic" and "pin-up/rockabilly". I have tattoos and piercings and enjoy body modifications including waist training and scarification. I have worked as a dancer, both burlesque and exotic.
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