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Hetero Female Dominant, 48,   , South Carolina
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I'm here to learn, make friends, and find a serious male submissive or sub-leaning switch for that one of a kind connection in a long term FLR. I am a sensualist and not into extreme pain or heavy humiliation. I am not looking for a masochist who needs physical pain and punishment all the time. I am not high protocol or extremely strict, either. Being newish to the scene, I have a lot that I want to explore.

I love sincerity, honesty, romance, intelligence, openness, and kindness. You will be loved and cherished, but expected to be obedient and dedicated to me. Your input and opinions will be respected and desired. I want someone playful and engaging, not a doormat or shadow. You must know yourself and what you want. If you are unsure of your role in bdsm, it would be best to do more research and exploration before contacting anyone looking for something serious.

I'm looking for a man over 35 but younger than 55.

In-person only. Monogamous only

All will be welcome as a friend, but only single men will be considered for a relationship.

If you are a switch, you must lean submissive. Although I cannot truly submit, I may be able to bottom for a few kinks. Don’t try to top me without my permission, though. That ruffles my feathers!!!

I’m not here for a hookup or just play. I want a romantic relationship that could possibly lead to marriage. If you are not interested or ready, scoot along.

Vanilla me

I love the outdoors and nature, hiking, camping, animals, farming, motorcycles, trail riding, and artistic pursuits. I enjoy intelligent conversation and creative people. I am a mother and grandmother and close with my family.

If you are a man who must be physically attracted to a woman, I have an older mom bod. It has stretch marks, surgery scars, sags, and flab. I am real, not a fantasy dominatrix. I’m in the process of minimizing the flab through diet and exercise, and having a sub who is into health and fitness would be awesome.

Still interested?? If so, send me a message!












 Dominant Female


 South Carolina

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 6"






Actively Seeking:

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries





 Horseback Riding


 You worshiping my body

 Tying you up

 You worshiping my breasts

 Keeping you locked in tamper evident chastity at all times

 Collaring you

 You massaging me

 Total control of your orgasms

 You never being allowed to have pleasurable orgasms

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Role Playing



 Romance Novels






 Soap Making


 Intellectual Discourse

 Female Led Relationships

 Lifestyle BDSM




 Blindfolding you


 You being my domestic servant


 You doing all of the housework


 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction

 Body Art





 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires

 Anal Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Outdoor Bondage


 Wax Play

 Hard Limits:




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