Hi. I am new to the lifestyle, curious but a bit nervous. I am an attractive, 33 years old and a successful business owner. Last summer I was privilaged enough to spend several amazing nights with a woman who was a professional domme. She was beautiful and intelligent, creative and lived life with intense passion. I met her while running on the beach, she was very open about how she made her living. We went on several dates before being intimate and she explained what her clients, subs and slaves say attracts them to the lifestyle. We eventually made love and during the time we spent together I grew to understand why this lifestyle is so attractive to people.

By nature I am a very dominant person but submitting to her was intensly erotic and surprisingly relaxing. I have always adored women and enjoyed going to extemes to make them feel like the world revolved around them, at least while we are together. But rather than guess and hope that my words and actions were perfect, I knew exactly what she wanted. The first night was unlike any sensual or sexual experience I'd ever had. She explained what I was to do and when and how. She had me indulge her every whim for almost 10 hours. She made me bake cupcakes for her in an apron. I read to her. I brushed her teeth and walked her dog. Refolded all of her clothes, made her tea, returned emails. Washed her car, put on her make-up. Wrote down exactly how she liked to to be touched, licked and fucked. She had me sign a copy of the instructions and promised to read them before each time I came to see her. At times she was very rough with me, she slapped me, spit on me, and held on to my ears while she fucked me with a strap-on. She eventually let me make myself come. Afterwards we talked in her bed but she made me sleep on the floor.

We don't date any longer but my time with her led me to realize that I am a sub.